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Boyfriends and jerking off

Masturbation is someone's private time and I think everybody needs it, whether they have a partner or not. It's weird that you were having issues with this since I thought only straight girls got upset about their boyfriends jerking off lol. I still do it and I'm in a 3+ years relationship and I live with my boyfriend. I know he does it too when I'm not around so...no big deal.
 
I must be in the minority here. For some reason I'm just uncomfortable with my boyfriend masturbating. I understand where all of you are coming from, and what you've all said really helped me with the idea of it. He's more of a daddy and I'm a young cub. He's basically what I've always wanted but I know he watches porn with skinny hairless guys. So I guess it's just me being insecure. He said he doesn't really have a type and he watches that type of porn because that's what most porn consists of for the most part.

It also got to me because we haven't done anything in weeks. He sent me a video one time of him jerking off, and while it was really hot and I loved it, it bothered me a bit because I was at his house the day before and was supposed to go back the next day. So it bothered me that since we didn't do anything in awhile, why he couldn't just wait until the next day or even do anything the day before. If we had sex on a more regular basis, about twice a week, I would never feel the need to have to jerk off. At least I say that now. I don't know if my mindset on that would change. Am I overreacting?
 
Yours2Hold said:
I must be in the minority here. For some reason I'm just uncomfortable with my boyfriend masturbating. I understand where all of you are coming from, and what you've all said really helped me with the idea of it. He's more of a daddy and I'm a young cub. He's basically what I've always wanted but I know he watches porn with skinny hairless guys. So I guess it's just me being insecure. He said he doesn't really have a type and he watches that type of porn because that's what most porn consists of for the most part.

It also got to me because we haven't done anything in weeks. He sent me a video one time of him jerking off, and while it was really hot and I loved it, it bothered me a bit because I was at his house the day before and was supposed to go back the next day. So it bothered me that since we didn't do anything in awhile, why he couldn't just wait until the next day or even do anything the day before. If we had sex on a more regular basis, about twice a week, I would never feel the need to have to jerk off. At least I say that now. I don't know if my mindset on that would change. Am I overreacting?
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Talk to him about it. I'm going through something similar with my bf, but we've been together for almost 4 years so it's normal that we aren't horny for each other all the time.

Watching porn together can be a good way to put both things together, you can fantasize with him, see the guys he likes and also have sex. You will both enjoy it. I don't think masturbation is bad at all, it's way better for your partner to live his fantasies in his mind than to actually doing it with somebody in real life who isn't you. The real problem is if that's all he wants to do, so talk to him about it.
 
We've been together for a decade now and there are still times where we will take time to ourselves so to speak.
It's nothing personal and shouldn't be viewed as such.
 
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