boyfriend's dick is too big

[soccerboy029]

i know this sounds crazy, but i have been dating a guy for 7 months and we are in love...wow, that sounds even more teenage girl typed that thought...but we haven't been able to have full on intercourse the entire time because he's so big that it has literally ripped me before. I've used everything from poppers, numbing lube, and a lot of patience but nothing seems to work that I can think of. What do you suggest? Please help!

 

[JordanFrank]

Maybe a rubber dick as an appetizer to loosen you up before the entree main course....just a thought....!

 

[IceColdLover]

i know this sounds crazy, but i have been dating a guy for 7 months and we are in love...wow, that sounds even more teenage girl typed that thought...but we haven't been able to have full on intercourse the entire time because he's so big that it has literally ripped me before. I've used everything from poppers, numbing lube, and a lot of patience but nothing seems to work that I can think of. What do you suggest? Please help!

How big exactly? Have you tried a position that is comfortable enough for anal intercourse or a way where you can be penetrated and not have to be fucked by the entire length of his cock? Is it too long, too wide or both? You might have to gradually stretch your hole to accept the size of his dick, and learn to relax and not tense up when getting penetrated.

 

[MainEntry]

Try having him insert fingers in your butt hole and play around. Then a Dildo Then gradually have him penetrate you while you are pushing out. You have to want it, too!

 

[racer2438]

Time, patience, a lot of lube, fingering, small to gradually med size dildos, butt plugs in different sizes.

the anal muscle is just that a muscle and it can stretch so just keep play with it will loosen up.

 

[bankside]

My guy is very thick, and he knew it before we got together. Before we met, he was worried about fucking because he assumed he would hurt whoever he was with, and it was a turn off for him. It took me a long time to convince him that I wasn't going to let him do anything to me that would hurt me, because that would definitely kill the mood for both of us. But while we figured that out, it gave me time to practice, and toys were fun for both of us. Truth is even though I wanted it, it was difficult when we first tried him fucking me instead of the other way around. He's thicker than average and I'm longer than average, and sometimes it would hurt him if I pounded too deep. But that was easy to control because I could just stop short a bit. But there's no easy way around thickness. You need to be able to open up, or it isn't happening.

I know for a fact that I can take thick toys now that would have definitely hurt me when we first got together. But training helps. It is like training for a sport, you need to practice and stick with it and work your way up.

And now that we've figured it out, he can really fuck me and it is nothing but pure pleasure for me and him. I'm not putting up with it for his sake. It feels as awesome for me as I had fantasized it could be. Some days the ass is not in the mood. Some days I am horny but my ass is not. But I know it can take it, and that just takes time, and patience, to develop the skill.

This does not mean my ass is all stretched out and wrecked either. It's just become more...acrobatic...with practice.

 

[mbamike]

You can purchase an ass trainer kit that contains different sized buttplugs that will gradually stretch you hole open to take bigger and bigger cocks.

I remember when I first started penetrating myself. I was content with one finger. That led to two, then three, then four.

The same method with dildos. I started with a small one and gradually moved up to a bigger one. All this takes time and patience.