Boyfriend's number on bathroom wall

[ozguy]

...... he was fucking around and none of this actually happened.

I thought as much. Michael, come 'ere!!!! .......

 

[Christopher123]

Actually, Nightmare, I think it’s been interesting to see who does, or doesn't pay attention to others on this site.

And, to see how many dumb-asses thought that you wouldn’t be reading about their suggested “secret” plan of action.

Excuse me, but not all of us DUMBASSES even knew these two were an item. Until SOME of us DUMBASSES were fucking told through the grapevine.

Some of us DUMBASSES were only trying to help. And if this was a joke, I don't think it's right to play us like that.

If it wasn't a joke, great, my suggestions still stand.

But if it was, then this fucking DUMBASS will walk away and be done with this childish, head-gaming fucking bullshit.

So fuck you. That's the last time I try and sympathize with anybody around here.

 

[Andreus]

its an odd thread for tony to post

very uncharacteristic

doesnt seem in keeping with his sense of humor OR his sense of privacy

but then....

so would it be very uncharacteristic for Bled to cheat in my mind

he seems to well intended a person for that

just seems out of character for both of them

 

[Christopher123]

Not everyone knew we are boyfriends, and I wasn't expecting everyone to know that. It's not something to advertise. He wanted to fuck around a bit, so he did.

We both figured that the people who knew who we both were, would think twice about it before taking it seriously. And honestly didn't think people would take it that seriously.

Well if I had known you were boyfriends.... no, wait, even if I HAD known you were boyfriends (which I didn't until about an hour ago, excuse me for being an idiot) I would still have been concerned. For the both of you. Just like many others were concerned.

Goddammit.

I'm sorry, not much really upsets me. But this kind of shit does. Maybe I'm just a poor sympathetic emotional sap, but I take this kind of shit seriously, whether I know you're bf/bf or not and I'll be damn careful in the future as to what other 'satire'ish' (but appearingly serious) posts may possibly draw me in.

With that said, I'm going to bed. I'm just so not happy right now.

Not that it matters.

 

[Christopher123]

Yeah, well, I guess I'm just a fucking idiot.

Goodnight.

 

[RationalLunacy]

The sad thing is, this actually happened to me -- twice!!

 

[Just_Believe18]

Very lame. Shame on you. This forum functions because people can trust and believe in each other.

 

[sixthson]

Yeah, well, I guess I'm just a fucking idiot.

Goodnight.

No you're not, but this is certainly beneath the two of them (or maybe it isn't, who knows?).

Not only is it NOT funny, it is thoughtless and mean spirited.

I hope you two are pleased with yourselves. You should have known your fellow JUBbers would be concerned for you.

I never figured you guys for attention seeking whores.
I was wrong on many levels, it appears.

 

[slobone]

The more i think of it, the more i wish this thread had never been posted. I just do not think it serves either party well.

This is an issue of intrusion of privacy and space by all of us who have made comments in this thread. I include my own posting no. 12.

I really would like to see this thread pulled, permanently.

eM.​

I think it's hilarious, and I think "someone" is pulling our collective legs. Notice that the OP hasn't been back to respond to any of the comments....

 

[Nonimus]

What was the number again?

 

[Rali_hates_Mondays]

So you posted this thread to test the people who already knew you.

Well now everyone will know you but certainly not in the manner that you desired.

 

[Christopher123]

I always appreciate it when people show their true colors.

Thank you.

True colors? What, I'm not allowed to get pissed off once in a while? Just because most of the time I'm laid back and do my best not to shit-stir, I still get angry now and then. And this thread made me angry. I know how to use the words "fuck you" where I feel they're appropriate, I'm not 5 years old.

The only reason I'm responding in the thread itself and not privately is because it's still on the first page. If this thread had been on another page by now, I would have left it there. But I wanted to respond to you personally. I apologize that my comment was harsh. I realize that it was. But it just came out when I was typing because it's what I was feeling at the time. Because of the whole thread, all I saw in back of my eyes was FUCK YOU.

No biggie, shit happens and life moves on and I realize the thing was probably just a joke. But I was still mad as hell at the time.

On forward, today's a new day....

 

[Marbas]

Ah well, another one of these threads where people who I once thought I trusted, admired, and respected play stupid head-fuck games with us. It seems that more and more these days it's hardly worth bothering to post at all, just in case it all turns out to be another prank.

 

[Ninja108]

I would say do what you think is best, it's ultimately your life.

 

[slobone]

Yeah, first of all -- obviously nobody in his right mind is going to put his own number on a bathroom wall. Nobody's that desperate for a blow job. You might put somebody elses' number as a (mean) joke...

 

[Michael Luc]

It was a joke. I actually kissed Brian in public at that restaurant last night. We were feeling silly, we started joking around and this was the result. I feel bad for playing a mean trick on the people who know us. Thanks for all of the very good advice. Tony

 

[Scrub]

It was a JOKE people.Get on with your lives.Worse things have happened here.Give me a break.
Micheal Luc and Nightmare are long time contibuters here and for some of you (also long termers) to act this way towards them is mean spirited in itself.
None of you have made mistakes? To disrespect people at anytime is just stupid.

I agree with you and I appreciate the fact that Michael Luc apologized. I think an apology from Nightmare would go a long way. While he acknowledged it was mean spirited and thoughtless, he never apologized.

 

[operafan]

It was upsetting to think this was happening to someone. It doesn't come off funny because so many guys do come here for advice. It was a joke this mis-fired. We've all been there.

Moving on.

 

[Christopher123]

It was a joke. I actually kissed Brian in public at that restaurant last night. We were feeling silly, we started joking around and this was the result. I feel bad for playing a mean trick on the people who know us. Thanks for all of the very good advice. Tony

I, for one, appreciate this post.

Yes, we now know it was a joke, but we obviously didn't know it then. And were basically called dumbasses because we tried to help, not knowing you guys were just fooling around. It obviously struck a raw nerve with me and I got pissed. I apologized for the harsh comments.

But ya know, even though some of us have been around here for a while, it doesn't necessarily mean we're going to know exactly who is in a relationship with whom. Sorry, but I don't keep up with the Joneses. And, apparently, I don't pay enough attention. But really that's kind of beside the point; even if I had known you two were in a relationship, I still would have been concerned because there was no indication the initial post was a joke and it's just my nature to feel compassion for someone who's hurting. Which I thought you were. I mean, it's not completely unrealistic for someone to find their boyfriend's phone number on a bathroom wall.

But anyway, it's no biggie now. I'll just be a little more careful in the future and probably wait until there are 3 pages of posts before trying to dump my silly advice onto people, lol.

Thanks for the apology post. I apologize as well for getting shitty about the whole thing. Sometimes my temper gets the best of me.

 

[Christopher123]

Just for the record, I don't consider any one a dumbass, idiot or whatever for not knowing or understanding any part of the thread.

I'm very glad to hear that

We came into it with good intentions. Walked right into it, as a matter of fact.

Hook, line and sinker.

lol

Anyway, have a good day, work beckons.