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Brother wants to stay and I'm worried and pissed... explain after the click?

What everyone else said.

Sure, if your brother were dying of cancer and ran out of money... by all means let him stay at your place.

But if it's just convenient for him, well, that's no excuse. Whoever in your family criticizes you... tell them to host your brother for a year. Or two.

I don't think you should let them stay, but if you do, you should charge them some rent, make them run the errands, and make them keep the place immaculate.

And if they don't, throw them out. ASAP.

It's your house. You make the rules. (Isn't that what your parents always told you? :) )
 
Personally the one brother has been with you for 2 months that's long enough he should have used that time more wisely kick him out and send him to one of the other places to stay, tell the other brother no and change the locks.

It really doesn't matter what their professions are, hell I work at walmart and I manage to pay all my bills. /shrug.

As for how you'll look to your family members, from what your brothers might say you'll probably seem like an ogre that just wants to have gay orgies all the time. But if they say anything, just explain to them, look he mooched off me for 2 months and if you have a problem with me putting a stop to that then you do it! Really the only time a families collective opinion matters is when they understand the full situation. In the abstract you're their brother so your supposed to help, but there is a difference between helping and being a crutch for laziness.

For the brother that's a pastor, I'm pretty sure if he is the sole or main pastor for a church that they'll help him out with a place to live. And if that's the one that's been mooching off you for 2 months remind him that sloth is one of the 7 deadly sins.
 
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