Calling all "straight"-leaning bi guys

[Lokithetrue]

I call myself straight, but I know a lot of dudes here get hung up on labels, so you could call me bi. Here's my deal:

I don't really find men attractive. In an offhand way, I'm able to recognize if a man would be called handsome, but thats about it. The closest I get is lust, and that is pretty much never for "masculine" men. If i see a very fem guy, all swishy and lisping, then I wanna fool around with them. I have very very little experiance, but I'm pretty sure I'd be down with oral (I'm super oral-fixated), and I might top him, but it really depends. I guess I like guys like that because they look like they WANT dick. That's a pretty big turnon. The reason I call myself straight is that I don't think I could form an emotional attatchment to a man. I don't have the faintest interest in a relationship with men beyond normal friends, and sex. I've grown to consider orientations 99% mental, 1% actions.

 

[Nomenclature]

For what it's worth: I've known a couple of straight-but-curious guys, and they all seemed to be attracted to feminine guys; the idea of doing it with another masculine guy did not appeal to them at all.

They were turned on by the feminine twinks: longer hair, smooth skin, maybe a little shorter then they were, etc.

 

[BigNZGuy]

Hey I'm new.

I'm like both of the first two posters, I'm predominantly hetero, and I'm really picky about the guy for physical attractiveness.

I like physically for the guy to be slightly shorter than me, medium to muscular sort of build.

Personality wise a little submisive.

Haven't been with a guy yet, but i will soon.

 

[smoothoralbottom]

I consider myself straight but on occasion love cock. I could never give up women. I'm completely masculine (not an act, just how I am) but I prefer to be the submissive slut on my knees with men.

I could never fall in love with or have feelings for a man. I rarely notice men but if I do, it's usually those guys in a wifebeater with a nice build, broad shoulders, big arms. But hooking up with a guy like that just seems to be a turn off for me. I usually just look for a nice big, thick cock without ever caring what the guy looks like.

 

[Confused18]

EMO! Amazing fun to be had with them!

 

[neditesjamais]

It's weird- labels are so stupid but your frame of my mind totally switches when you call yourself "Straight". It immediately puts the LGBT community in the "other" category in your mind, even if you support them. But as I think of myself as bi, I just feel like everyone else, like there are no borders between straight, bi, gay or anything else.

I think you might have stumbled into the real issue--it's the label. Whether it's someone else applying it or your own choice, it's still "too narrow" for some of us. I am very person oriented. Some relationships have physical components and some don't. Does it matter that much what equipment everybody's got? To some of us, not so much.

 

[Bi guy ok]

Wel, my 2 cents worth. I am "straight" married and love sex with women. I love women. But I love sex with men too. Just sex though. Not really into kissing or the like. Body contact ok. I am very oral and
Love to suck cock and love to have my ass fucked. Have never topped a guy but would in a heartbeat. So yes. We exist.

 

[craig15]

I'm not 100% what I am yet. I definitely am attracted to girls but when it comes to porn it's usually like 75% gay porn. I haven't been with a man before though so I can't really decide that well yet and I'm not sure on whether or not I'd want a relationship with another man.

Dating another man seems so natural though, no chance of pregnancy (could be a positive or negative), more in common than men and women have AND men have an almost insatiable sex drive...the perfect match.

 

[ryan25yo]

Just wondering if they exist on this board, since most bi guys on here seem to lean gay or 50/50. There also seems to be less of them because most call themselves "curious" or simply "Straight".

If you are on here, what type of guys are you into?



For me, I've never been with a guy yet, but visually-

I'm much pickier with guys than women which is the only reason I'd say "Straight" or hetero-leaning on a scale...

Personally I'm into slimmer or skinny boys. I don't mind body hair, just not mounds of it. Bodies I'm more liberal about though, this is just what I prefer most.

Hair on head- just not bald or crew cut. Has to be some sort of visible style there.

Faces I seem to be really picky about- which is what worries me. I love cute guys with soft faces. If it's the wrong face, it can almost completely turn me off from the guy. But maybe this will dissolve whenever I'm with my first real-life guy?

***And I hope this doesn't make me seem really shallow. If the right person turns me on personality wise it goes a very long way. These are just my visual preferences.****

Anyway, this thread is a bit boring but I was just wondering how many bi-guys on here are Kinsey 1s and 2s.

I'm in! Yea, i'm one of those.

 

[Mobyvick]

I'm not 100% what I am yet. I definitely am attracted to girls but when it comes to porn it's usually like 75% gay porn. I haven't been with a man before though so I can't really decide that well yet and I'm not sure on whether or not I'd want a relationship with another man.

Dating another man seems so natural though, no chance of pregnancy (could be a positive or negative), more in common than men and women have AND men have an almost insatiable sex drive...the perfect match.

I agree with the first part but the part anout dating a man is complete opposite to me. When i date women im dating them because I'm looking for "wife potential" so i can never see myself dating a man. But I am really intested in gay porn i think possibly because its something of a taboo that turns me on. I guess im not a 100% sure either but I think with experiences with both males and females in the next couple of years I might be able to decide.

 

[iwantbig]

Yeah I'm Bi.
If you saw me you would say i'm straight in every way , i only have relationships with girls but when i'm single i'm bi .
I dont find men attractive , I just want cock ( in my ass , down my throat ) , i could never fuck a man unless it was a lady boy and had a really nice ass and tits , i dont want to kiss and cuddle men ,I just want their cock .
I'm also big on being fisted and dilded,and dont mind having my cock sucked but i dont need to to come when im being fucked .

 

[Terekhov]

Tricky...

I'm a Kinsey 1/2. Mostly straight but enjoy fooling around with guys. I think it's just that it's so much easier to get guys into bed than girls.

I prefer Daddy types (I have a bit of a submissive side) a decade or two older than me. Still in reasonable shape but older. I like them smooth, but that's mostly because I hate getting a mouthful of hair when trying to lick on a nipple or something. I like clean-shaven just because I don't like kissing a bearded face. I hate guys who smell bad, but beyond that I'm pretty open. I remember on a trip to San Fran one time I met up with this gay couple and had a little fun. One was a twenty-something athletic masseuse and the other was quite a large guy. I didn't really mind either.

 

[Mobyvick]

What's the Kinsey scale?

 

[Terekhov]

I don't know about "Breaking it to me". I really haven't got a clue. I don't see myself settling down with a guy and raising kids, I'm just not picky about where I get my Orgasms.

 

[PoppaJunk]

Looks isn't so much of an issue to me, except that I dont like girly acting fems or someone so fat they haven't seen their own penis in years. I also dont find men attractive or catch myself looking at guys. The only thing I can emotionally attach to and find attractive is women. I've tried looking at guys through the same lens and it doesnt work for me, just doesnt compute.

For me it's about getting off plain and simple, no emotional attachment. Try that with females, it's a pain in the ass. With a Bi guy you swap a hj or a bj and it's the next subject or see ya next time if you're just FWBs. No kissing, hugging, looking into each others eyes, falling in love, etc.. If I wanted that I'd find a woman on the side.

The kind of guy I like is someone who likes to suck cock and is good at it because he likes it. Then afterwards he can crack a beer and bullshit or be OK with me hitting the bricks right afterwards. Before you say thats impossible to find, I've had that in the past. Now looking for it again

 

[phorptical]

I consider myself straight when it comes to relationships. I do not feel the desire to date men at all! Nor would I ever be interested in anal sex. I am actually married. I just sometimes have the urge to have a little guy time bin big on straight acting dudes that wann Jo or do a little oral. I am into more of the kind of guy who likes the whole "at camp" kinds of scenes where a couple if buddies help eachother out, ya know?

 

[BiMike]

Thats what I'm into really, a big hairy guy doesn't really do anything for me but a nice thin smooth young guy really gets me going.

I feel the same way ! Love some pussy but a smooth guys cock really turns me on !

 

[traveler1111]

i know that I can't label myself as "straight", when I know that I like to be serviced by men.

there are things you can do with guys that you cannot do with girls without being labeled as a misogynist...its hard to find girls that like being throat fucked, spat on and slapped around.

that said, I have no interest in dating men. I still see myself wanting to commit to a woman. if I can find one that's ok with me getting some bi action on the side, even better...lol.

 

[bulge]

Gay, gay, gay, gay,......here

I want guys above 30, hairy, balding (even find it quite sexy for some, especially some baldnesses). Guys under 20 are girls for me. So, I couldn't reach hard on with them whatsoever. For me guys under 20 are rather disgusting. But I don't like beer bellies.

 

[Dinsdale]

I'm 41 and, since everyone seems to be confused about the Kinsey scale, I'll call myself about 66% straight, 33% gay. The proportions shift over time--sometimes I'm 50/50, sometimes I'm 80% gay/20% straight, you get the idea. Getting married kind of locked me in, and I'm looking for a way out.

There's no particular type of guy who attracts me. There are a couple of guys at work who drive me nuts b/c I can't stop looking at them; one's really tall and thin but athletic, very quiet; the other's shorter, stockier, always has three days' worth of dark stubble and likes to talk about "guy stuff." They're both about 5 yrs younger than me. I like guys from college-age anywhere through late 40s. Gray/silver/salt & pepper hair is a total turnoff.

My fantasy encounter would be making out with a guy, slowly undressing each other, and jerking each other off, then having a second round of oral, incl, 69, with maybe some rimming or fingering (after a shower). I don't want to top or bottom. I've been w/ three guys and have never made the other guy cum directly, which I *really* want to do; I want to feel a guy's cock explode in my hand and/or mouth. I'm also pretty vocal and would want the other guy to be vocal too; the guys I've been with have been quiet, which kinda bugged me. I like my women to be screamers, though.

I have a lot of "locker room" fantasies, maybe b/c I can't imagine any other sort of all-male environment.

I've got this weird thing against sub/dom games--it's gotta be equals. I hate it when a guy tells me I can suck him to completion when he's already told me he won't do the same, or when he tells me he wants to dress in women's lingerie. I want to be with a guy, not with a guy who wants to pretend to be a woman.

I have blond head-hair and red body hair, including a bright red bush, which a lot of guys *say* they love, but a lot of talk and not much walk there.

Sorry, does any of this answer the question? I'm babbling.