Calling all "straight"-leaning bi guys

[BIMICHAEL4FUN]

I'm bi....married to a wonderful woman...

but I enjoy being with men sexually for a good time. I don't think, though, that I could ever enjoy a long-term emotional relationship with another man...

Sexually, though, I love smooth (or a little hairy) men who love to touch, kiss, and enjoy oral (both giving and receiving). Love swimmer build. Especially enjoy being with men who are exploring their sexuality and want to explore with another man.

 

[JFarm89]

See, I went from being obsessed with the idea of sucking cock and taking cock to actually being interested in some guys.

There are guys I would kiss for sure. I admit it would be very weird my first couple of times.

It's weird right now because like a lot of other "Straight" guys, I'm primarily interested in women, but guys seem like a sort of extracurricular activity. I feel like I NEED women in my life for support (lover, friend, etc.) but I feel like if I meet a guy I'd totally go for it for fun. I don't feel this way with women.

So while I don't feel emotional connections to any men so far, I feel like it's totally possible some day.

But anyway, I stopped considering myself straight because of all this. I don't know. I think of myself as bi.

It's weird- labels are so stupid but your frame of my mind totally switches when you call yourself "Straight". It immediately puts the LGBT community in the "other" category in your mind, even if you support them. But as I think of myself as bi, I just feel like everyone else, like there are no borders between straight, bi, gay or anything else.

I'm with ya dude! There's that confusion stage where you're not too sure whether or not to go for guys or girls. But very important that you are starting to break things down. This ensures what you will truly desire later on.

 

[joey69nwi]

funny, you guys mention Kinsey. I remember seeing that book in my dads drawer. I came across the gay pages and seemed to get stuck there.

 

[butt-pirate]

I call myself only bisexual only because they don't yet have a word that describes me.

I'm 100% straight. Except the times that I'm 100% gay. It totally depends on my mood. If I'm banging a chick, plowing some effeminate twink is the last thing on my mind. But when I'm the mood for gay sex, that's all that's on my mind.

I kiss guys and all that stuff, I'm masculine, work in construction, the only guys I like are femmy and sweet.

If someone asked me my sexual orientation, my answer would depend on my mood at that particular moment.

 

[godric317]

Up until recently I considered myself a straight leaning bi. But after a long relationship that could've ended better, I am so fed up with the $hit that comes with being with a woman that I don't know if I'll ever go back. All my straight friends are in bad relationships it seems like, or good on the surface but they constantly cheat on them. I don't know that many 'straight' people that are that happy in their relationships.

I have not really been with a guy (a couple minor forays including oral, no relationship), but guys, for me, are much easier to get along with. I still find women attractive, and can get very turned on by them, but the pussy to me isn't worth the BS that comes along with it at this point. I am also attracted to guys, and have been for awhile. And my bi and gay friends all say guys are much better in the sack. Guess it's time to find out.

So I'm not sure where that leaves me. I do want kids, but I guess there are options for that. I have to agree with one of the earlier posters, as I have matured, an orgasm is an orgasm, I'm not that picky about who they come from anymore as long as I'm attracted to the person. Other cultures in the world are much more open to this concept than here in the U.S. The thing I want most is a best friend, someone who likes me for who I am and accepts me for who I am, and enjoys my company and wants to experience life with me, and at this point whether it's a man or a woman, I really don't care that much anymore.

So am I a straight leaning bi anymore...probably not as much as I used to be. Maybe more middle of the road, maybe even farther on the other side of it now. Whichever of the posters said that your interests and leanings are constantly changing, I think they nailed it on the head. What I wanted at 18 is completely different than what I want now. My wish for everyone is simply to figure out what works for you, and be as happy as you can be. So good luck!

 

[vancurious1]

straight leaning.

 

[traveler1111]

Up until recently I considered myself a straight leaning bi. But after a long relationship that could've ended better, I am so fed up with the that comes with being with a woman that I don't know if I'll ever go back. All my straight friends are in bad relationships it seems like, or good on the surface but they constantly cheat on them. I don't know that many 'straight' people that are that happy in their relationships.

bad relationships and cheating are a good sign of sexual incompatibility. there are also a lot of people that can't allow themselves to be happy, or are always looking for something better.

that said, I don't personally know many gay men that have found long term happiness either. if you are thinking that going gay is going to result in less bullshit, you are kidding yourself. Sure its easier to get laid, but from my friends experience lying and manipulative crap are not exclusive to straight people.

To quote Lisa Lampanelli: "You've been together for two weeks? That's four years in 'Gay' ".

 

[ayesinwi]

I lean straight, have had more relationships and sexual experiences with women than I have with men. I have to say that my experiences with women have been fun and I love their femininity. But women seem to bring out the worst in me as far as trust issues and jealousy.

Personally, I think a really feminine man who crossdresses or a transvestite/transexual would be great for me. I like the feminine look, it turns me on. Slim soft bodies, luxurious hair, and female clothing (from daytime, to nighttime, to erotic lingerie) are all more attractive to me than the male counterparts.

As far as personality, I like either a high spirited positive personality, or a very submissive personality. I don't mind it if my partner wants to be dominant in the bedroom sometimes, but I definitely definitely dont want to be on the receiving end of some
dominatrix.

I'd rate myself as a 1 or 2 on the kinsey scale.

 

[AsianDream]

bad relationships and cheating are a good sign of sexual incompatibility. there are also a lot of people that can't allow themselves to be happy, or are always looking for something better.

that said, I don't personally know many gay men that have found long term happiness either. if you are thinking that going gay is going to result in less bullshit, you are kidding yourself. Sure its easier to get laid, but from my friends experience lying and manipulative crap are not exclusive to straight people.

To quote Lisa Lampanelli: "You've been together for two weeks? That's four years in 'Gay' ".

I know quite a lot of same-sex couples who've been together a long time and seem happy.

Of the gay couples I know - most have "open" relationships. I definitely think that to try and promise to only ever have sex with one person isn't a very good idea.

I think attempting sexual monogomy is almost bound to lead to lies and deception - plus the sex would get very boring after a while.

 

[traveler1111]

I know quite a lot of same-sex couples who've been together a long time and seem happy.

Of the gay couples I know - most have "open" relationships. I definitely think that to try and promise to only ever have sex with one person isn't a very good idea.

I think attempting sexual monogomy is almost bound to lead to lies and deception - plus the sex would get very boring after a while.

who said that my friends had closed relationships?

 

[yakimaki]

Straight leaning here. I am typically into muscular men, specifically swimmer builds. Other than that not too picky though I do find black men irresistible~

 

[Emergency000]

I'd consider myself a "straight-leaning bi guy." I have a long time girlfriend and have never been with a guy. I think I like guys for their physical aspect but I could never really see myself having a relationship with one. Oral and kissing and stuff I could see, but not anal sex and rimming. Have to have both the emotional and the physical like I feel with girls. Sure I have a bit of emotional attraction to some of my friends, but just couldnt see a relationship forming.

I like the look of fit, muscular (but not overly muscular) men. I'm 21 so they have to be around that age and preferably the same height as me. As for porn, well it just depends what I feel like at the time. Usually it's hetero, so I get a bit of both worlds, but sometimes it's lesbian or gay.

I've known a couple of straight-but-curious guys, and they all seemed to be attracted to feminine guys; the idea of doing it with another masculine guy did not appeal to them at all.

They were turned on by the feminine twinks: longer hair, smooth skin, maybe a little shorter then they were, etc.

I'm not a fan of "feminine twinks"...Long hair? Make up? No, thank you!

 

[demedja]

I'd say I'm a 2 going on 3 on the Kinsey scale. I don't really have a specific type of man that I prefer. I simply find different things attractive about different types of men. I like tall, clean-cut, conservative guys. The color of their skin and the size of their dicks don't really matter all that much to me, but I like handsome faces, nice butts, and athletic bodies.

 

[biman395]

Just wondering if they exist on this board, since most bi guys on here seem to lean gay or 50/50. There also seems to be less of them because most call themselves "curious" or simply "Straight".

If you are on here, what type of guys are you into?



For me, I've never been with a guy yet, but visually-

I'm much pickier with guys than women which is the only reason I'd say "Straight" or hetero-leaning on a scale...

Personally I'm into slimmer or skinny boys. I don't mind body hair, just not mounds of it. Bodies I'm more liberal about though, this is just what I prefer most.

Hair on head- just not bald or crew cut. Has to be some sort of visible style there.

Faces I seem to be really picky about- which is what worries me. I love cute guys with soft faces. If it's the wrong face, it can almost completely turn me off from the guy. But maybe this will dissolve whenever I'm with my first real-life guy?

***And I hope this doesn't make me seem really shallow. If the right person turns me on personality wise it goes a very long way. These are just my visual preferences.****

Anyway, this thread is a bit boring but I was just wondering how many bi-guys on here are Kinsey 1s and 2s.

I too lean to the straight side but I have a real passion for sex with men. I love guys 18-25 lean but buff with smooth bodies and generally Frat guy types who love to have their cocks sucked or jacked. I have a on off relationship with a woman I've known since high school and she is a little afraid of commitment so I think. But that's okay since lately I have been enjoying thinking and masturbating about the type of guys I like. You should just take it slow and let the guy you like go to you and then you'll have an experience. IF you work too hard at it, it wouldn't happen.

 

[loinman]

I would say I am straight, but have been having some serious fantasies of being with men for a while now. Never been with one, but have double teamed a girl with one and we both let her suck us off at the same time, so we definitely had some casual contact. I am very attracted to hot women, but I find myself fantasizing of getting an erotic massage or having an encounter, so I guess that makes me bi or bi curious at least. Can't think of a serious relationship with a guy, but a hot muscular man sucking my cock or being sucked off by me turns me on.

 

[bijockdude]

I think we are all just sexual beings and if we enjoy achieving orgasm with a man or a woman it doesn't matter. Make love

 

[strangepoetry]

What's the Kinsey scale?

A scale used to weigh your penis

....hahaha...

 

[BoiOnFire]

It's to easy to get wrapped up in bullshit labels and trying to define exactly who we are. Call me a romantic but I believe love finds you, not the other way around. Meaning if you're truly open to love it may just be a man you fall for. I've been with both, was married for 13 years but the reality is we don't fit into nice neat little categories. While I identify now as gay the fact is my ideal preference does change periodically. While I've had great times with women my most powerful sexual experiences have been with men, which is why I label myself gay.

 

[leomendez93]

Throughout the process of figuring out our sexuality, we also learn that fantasies are quite different from reality. I do not believe you will have it figured out one to the other but it is a process of growth and maturity.

 

[tnbibear]

I am mostly straight, I love the female form and enjoy straight sex immensely. That said, I also love the male form and enjoy them too.
As for what I like, I do not like the hairless little girly boys that are so popular, I have women for that. I want my men to be men.
There seem to be a lot of people who push labels onto everything and I don't like labels, too rigid and stifling.