calling yourself Bi but never dated a guy

[nugmartin]

I guess I am just trying to understand bisexuality. My friend's friend considers himself bi but he doesnt date guys. Is it quite common for bi guys to do this?

How can you call yourself Bi but you dont actually date guys?

Can you call yourself Bi if you dont date girls?

 

[BiMike]

If some one admits that they are Bi al it means is that they have a sexual interest in both sexes. However the majority of guys who may have Bi feelings will not do anything about them except in private by getting off to gay porn. Taking it to the stage of actually dating another guy is taking it to a much higher level and means that the person has some emotional attractions to a person of their own sex.
This is currently being debated in this Thread but as you will see any discussion on Bisexuality here produces completely opposing view points! I myself think you can have sexual intersts in another guy without having an emotional interst in the same person but that is purely my own view point.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=369711

The whole subject is open for debate so its easy to see why you may be confused !

 

[Rex]

You don't need to DATE someone to be a certain sexuality. If you are sexually attracted to them, that's what matters.

There are tons of guys who enjoy sex with men but in their mind they are still straight. They compromise with themselves and are actually playing a mind game with themselves.

 

[Singularity]

If a heterosexual person has never dated anyone, should they be called asexual?

Sexuality is about how you feel about the other or the same sex but there is no requirement to go the full monty, church bells and everything.

 

[TerraRust]

whats with the ellitism, so what if ive never dated another guy ive never wanted to or even felt the need too, and because of this im not allowed to describe myself as bi-sexual, lets get down to the nitty gritty of what it is ur saying, any people who dont fit into idealistic, Perfect and very prejudiced views on what a person has to live up 2, 2 be accepted as a bi.
to all who think like that you are fuckin idiots an need to be lined an shot point fuckin blank

 

[Frenchie]

I'm feeling bisexual before I have dating a man for the first time

 

[itsmeagain]

If a heterosexual person has never dated anyone, should they be called asexual?

Sexuality is about how you feel about the other or the same sex but there is no requirement to go the full monty, church bells and everything.

Well said. I often wonder "do I measure up" and "whoa, I would like to look like that guy", or what they are like in bed. Never "dated" and missed that "experimental" part of my life due to guilt. Now, too late. So I am a "straight" guy, a little "bi" wondering. Lol. In my mind, I know who/what I am.

 

[Corny]

well there are quite a lot of guys here who call themselves gay and never dated a guy before, either.

i don't see any problem with that.

 

[AlmondMilk]

If a heterosexual person has never dated anyone, should they be called asexual?

Only asexual if they can split themselves in half to reproduce an identical twin of themselves. So far, no human has been able to do that

I agree with Sultan's post fully. There are straight guys who will deny their sexuality. But I also believe there are some guys who are bi and they don't date any guys just because they haven't found that one guy. They're probably picky when it comes to guys. It's kind of like me and girls. I've never dated a girl, but it doesn't mean I'm not open to it.

 

[BiAggieGuy]

I guess it all depends on one definition of straight, bi, and gay.

I love sex with men, both giving and taking. However, I have no romantic interest whatsoever in a guy. I've never dated one, never will, and don't have any interest in marrying one. For me, men are for fun and sex. Oh, and watching sports with, lol.

On the other hand, I also love women, and love sex with them as well. I've dated women, and eventually want to get married; preferably to a bi lady who likes to swing.

 

[aberro21]

i and most of the world believes that if you are attracted to both sexes you are bi. after i joined JUB i realized that a lot of men have very unique was of defining their sexuality.

Bisexuality is sexual behavior or an orientation involving physical or romantic attraction to both males and females,

 

[nugmartin]

I guess it all depends on one definition of straight, bi, and gay.

I love sex with men, both giving and taking. However, I have no romantic interest whatsoever in a guy. I've never dated one, never will, and don't have any interest in marrying one. For me, men are for fun and sex. Oh, and watching sports with, lol.

On the other hand, I also love women, and love sex with them as well. I've dated women, and eventually want to get married; preferably to a bi lady who likes to swing.

Yeah, I wonder if a lot of Bi guys are ike you. Basically men only for sex, women for emotional connection. My friend is like you.

 

[StillWaters24592]

What constitutes a date anyway? If I have sex with a guy at his house, is that a "date?"

No, that would be a "trick."

 

[shaneripley81]

I don't understand why people get so hung up on labels. Honestly, who cares what people label themselves as. Gay, straight, bi...it doesn't matter. I not gonna get upset if I meet someone who says they're bi but has only been with women. At the end of the day, I'm more interested in being around others who are open to the idea that humans can be interested in BOTH sexes, emotionally, physically, whatever. If people were more honest with their partners about who they are and what they want, I don't think some would be as bitter and angered at the notion that someone could be bisexual.

 

[mnpervert]

Yes lets stop the labels we are all human. I say I am Bi just so others know but we are all sexual creatures and whatever turns you on that is fine. I happen to like men and women equally, I have dated men/women/trans and not just hookups behind closed doors