Ganoderma
JUB Addict
hi NYClover54,
Thanks for the feedback. Well, the good news is that you are officially allowed to take with you your boyfriend to the home of your parents, and that your mother has no told you that he is not allowed to visit you (anymore). So this means that your mother is accepting that you have a boyfriend. I tend to think that you should consider this as a step towards accepting that you are a gay guy. I mean, she could also have choosen to tell you that you should stop with him, and in stead should start to look around for a girlfriend.
How about your sister and her boyfriend? Are they aware that you are gay, and are both of them supportive? I hope that both are supportive (to you, and also to your boyfriend), as this can also make things easier for your mom and dad to accept that you are a gay guy (with a nice boyfriend, who is on good terms with your sister and her boyfriend).
Good luck, and definately bring him home (as soon as possible). Maybe you should start 'low profile' with being affectionate with him (there are ofcourse many ways), and remember that its the house of your parents (and not yours).
Feel free to react and/or ask additional questions.
Thanks for the feedback. Well, the good news is that you are officially allowed to take with you your boyfriend to the home of your parents, and that your mother has no told you that he is not allowed to visit you (anymore). So this means that your mother is accepting that you have a boyfriend. I tend to think that you should consider this as a step towards accepting that you are a gay guy. I mean, she could also have choosen to tell you that you should stop with him, and in stead should start to look around for a girlfriend.
How about your sister and her boyfriend? Are they aware that you are gay, and are both of them supportive? I hope that both are supportive (to you, and also to your boyfriend), as this can also make things easier for your mom and dad to accept that you are a gay guy (with a nice boyfriend, who is on good terms with your sister and her boyfriend).
Good luck, and definately bring him home (as soon as possible). Maybe you should start 'low profile' with being affectionate with him (there are ofcourse many ways), and remember that its the house of your parents (and not yours).
Feel free to react and/or ask additional questions.