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I will just cut right to it... I came out. Im only officially out to 4 people... but its a good start right?

One of my close friends, and two other great acquaintances. Also.. my brother's girlfriend. Oh wait... nevermind. I am out to FIVE people...another good friend of mine.

It feels GREAT. I have always been comfortable with my sexuality. And believe me or not... I am SO glad I turned out gay. You have no idea... I love who I am and what I have seen, done, and experienced. I feel like being gay has had a THE SINGLE GREATEST positive impact on how I am right now. I love it.

I really do encourage people to try and step out. I have never been afraid of what people think of me...but I just didn't want to come out because I hate those people that are going to CONSTANTLY ask questions.. "Are you sure? Whats it like? Do so you like... do it in the butt?" and stupid shit like that.

Actually... the most recent person I cam out to was a girl IN CLASS. With everyone around (including some homophobic sluts and bastards...) and who knows.. maybe they could have heard it too?:D I am not even really that close to her...but for some reason I just said it. She was sitting beside me in class..and she randomly asked out of curiosity, "Are you gay?" and for some reason... without even hesitating I said "Yeah!". She was so cool about it! She told me she was cool with it and was like "You're such a cool guy, you know that?"

Whenever someones asks from now on.. Im just going to be like "Yep. IM GAY!"

I definitely encourage people to take that step...I thought I would just go ahead with it... and I did. It may be 5 people officially.. but it will eventaully be everyone when they ask. Or if it comes up.

So... Dear World,

BRING IT BITCHES!

Love,

ME.
 
Congratulations! I hope you have similar experiences with coming out to those closer to you.

I guess you have to change your name to "gay_stud" now, eh? ;)
 
Congrats!!!! I know when I came out it changed the world for me. I am who I am and dont give a shit about what people think. Hope this leads to a long and happy life for you
 
To make a long thing short.I'm officially have made m's day my day.I'm opening a door and what my remaining fam does with it is a choice.I'll allways love them but i have to be real with them.Enough said.
 
Thanks so much guys! :D

Now I just need an amazing boyfriend am I right? I wish.
 
Bi_Stud said:
Thanks so much guys! :D

Now I just need an amazing boyfriend am I right? I wish.
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It will happen. Usually when you least expect it and aren't looking for one. Just be patient, and keep us updated.
 
Congrats! The nice thing is, that you've got the hardest part out of the way. Telling your first friend you're gay is the hardest. You probably won't have to tell a lot more since your friends will tell 2 friends, who will tell 2 friends, and so on.

As far as the ignorant questions...meh... what can you do? Be patient, and explain. Also, I've found it's important when to tell them they've crossed a line. I've had friends I've had to turn the questions around on, and ask them, "what would you say if I asked you if your wife enjoys sucking you off after you've fucked her in the butt"? Sometimes they just don't realize how offensive, personal, and none of their business some of their sexual questions are. Most however mean well, and even when you explain when they've crossed a line are truly sorry because they just didn't know how offensive it seems.
 
Congratulations!!! If you think you feel great now, wait until everyone you care about knows, and you realize that they're cool with it and with who you are as a person. I've been out for 4 years, and I can't even begin to describe how different my life is. I'm so envious of you right now! Coming out, for me, was such an amazing time in my life.

I'm glad that you're having such a good time with it (as it can sometimes be very hard) and hope you become more emboldened to tell others.

Welcome to the family, brother!!! :wave:
 
Aww thanks InWood, EvilForce, and Jersey Guy!

Im so glad I posted this, I just felt like I needed to say it. Thanks for the feedback everyone!

I will definitely keep you guys posted!Thanks so much.

Oh and Puzuzzu...we'll find good guys! Im sure of it. :)
 
Hey! Awesome job. I just recently came out and it feels so great! Congrats! I would definitely recommend it to everyone.
 
Congrats Bi_Stud on your courage and strength... and thank you for sharing that news with us!!! Its so great to see a post from a guy who has found that being gay just adds to who he is!!!!

I hope that feeling lasts a life time for you mate!!!!
 
volcom1206 said:
Don't let all that gay power go to your head, boy. lol. But congrats! And way to go on being confident. We need more people who aren't ashamed of being gay.

If I wasn't gay I would be so boring. But hey I am music (and musical) junkie. I love art (and fashion). And I got into college because I wrote some sappy essay about being opressed for being gay.
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A lot of us aren't ashamed of being gay, we're afraid of losing friends and family who won't accept us. There's a difference.
 
Well, even if we lose friends and family, then have to accept us. Being gay isn't the end of the world and they aren't the ones who have to live with it. I believe it's possible to win them over. You're still the same person and a human being who doesn't deserve to be an outcast. :)
 
The support and all the feedback I have been getting really makes me feel even better about my situation guys! Thanks so much!

I almost wish I had done this sooner, but you know what? I think this was the perfect time.

Ill continue to take one step after another. :D
 
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