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So I came out to my first person tonight. She told me she has suspected it and was just waiting for me to do it. She was totally fine with it, told her everything about every guy i've met. She is actually going to try to hook me up with one of her friends... but I don't know about that. A weird thing is her and my brother were friends... and he asked her about me being gay and said he thought I was. He knows... so i'm going to tell him soon. I've got a list of the closest people I know and the order i'm going to tell them before I fully come out. Just taking it slow and doing it when I feel comfortable and I feel ALOT better :)
 
First step is always the hardest. Now you're on a downhill roll, and I'm glad you took that first step. ..|
 
It will definitely get easier to tell people the more you tell people. I hope everyone is supportive of you but, if you've read enough of the threads here you have to know that there's a chance that not everyone will be accepting of you and you should be prepared for that. Just remember, if someone doesn't accept you they aren't your friend and don't deserve your friendship.
 
Congrats Holl!

Its an awesome first step to being the great guy that you are! I like the way you're doing this too... in your way and you're own time... well done mate! I know the rest will go just as well as your friend!
 
Congrats Holl!

Like everybody has said...the first one is the hardest! After that it's like sledding down a hill in winter! :)
 
Good for you. I know I was so tired of lying to myself and others.

I took my dad bit longer to accept it, but I think that is typical of fathers. They see it as they have failed as dads. Not true, but my dad was the only one who had to realize that I was the same son the day after I told him that I was before I told him.
 
It's can be a great feeling of relief..
 
Told another close friend tonight. Nothing but good in the outcome :) I've got 2 more close friends to tell then once I get ready enough i'm gonna let the family know :)
 
:=D::=D::=D:WOW it feels great doesn't it. Get ready for a few changes in the way others react to you and some interesting opportunities for new friendships to occur.
 
wtg, sounds like my situation, lol I told my best friend (a girl) about 1 year 2 months ago. My brother goes out with her sister and he told my BF that he knows im gay, lol. Parents are next on my list! yikes, im scared!
 
Luka, I think I am in the same situation as you. When you tell your parents please let me know how it goes and how you did it. I want to do the same too. Good luck!
 
This'll be the first place i go after telling my parents. JUB has been a huge help to me over the last few years. Everyone here ROCKS!
 
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