Can A Gay Guy Go Bi?

[videoboi08]

get away from the labels and do what feels right

 

[kissthesky88]

I remember reading an article in Details magazine called "What if you only thought you were gay" or something along those lines. It was all about these guys who were gay, but later realized that they were also sexually attracted to women. You're not the only one in this situation, so be happy! You're normal!

i read that article too; pretty interesting. to tell you the truth though, when i read it, it sounded like bullshit. i think the idea behind the article may have some substance to it, but that things written in that particular one were total bullshit.

i think that human sexuality is one of the most complicated things imaginable. it's on par with our circulatory system... the only point in even trying to figure it out is so that we can give our grandchildren's grandchildren notes on it so that they can try. i've felt that i'm predominantly homosexual my entire life, i'm attracted to men: i like arms, strong jaw lines, pecs, abs, and penis; yet even i don't believe im exclusively only attracted to guys. the idea, the sight of vagina or breasts isn't arousing to me, yet all the times when i've had sex with girls, it has been arousing. i didn't have to try to keep it up, i didn't pretend i was with someone else. my dick got hard naturally, and i wanted to fuck them.

don't try to label yourself. just live your life. believe me, you'll sleep much more peacefully at night.

 

[sumyungguy]

The world should read this thread. Seriously.

 

[HowCanThisHappen]

I went out on a date with a chick I met on-line. We hit it off real nicely -- we had been trading e-mails and phone calls for awhile. We ended up making out -- no farther. I got a real hard boner. What the hell is happening to me?

If we get serious, at some point, I would want her to know that I'm bisexual. (I think I'll avoid the word "gay", simply because that would be confusing for her. I would rather just say, "I've had relationships with men.") But how to tell her? How to make it easier for her? I'm scared that she would freak instantly. Or that she would imagine that I'm sneaking off for secret M-M sex. (Hardly).

 

[angelstreet]

I was in a relationship with a woman for 9 years, let me clarify I am a woman too and during that time I convinced mself I was a lesbian but I think if you can get a little excited/hard for a man, look at the opposite and fall in love with the person and feel attracted to them you are bi.

I don't get people who sa I am gay/lesbian but every now and again I sleep with women/men. Or I am gay but I can get hard with a woman?? If you are gay you shouldn't even kiss a women and get a boner.

A true gay or lesbian will feel NOTHING for the opposite sex. That is why I am bi because I can watch two men give each other blowjobs and find it a right turn on. Nothing like watching to masculine men suck each other. Totally hot.

 

[jude swings]

For several years, I considered myself gay because I only slept with men. I never found women gross or unappealing, I just wasn't all that interested in having sex with them. But lately, I can't think about anything else. It started by watching a lot of straight / bi porn, and realizing that it turned me on more than the gay stuff now. Then I found myself more and more attracted to specific women. My sexual fantasies began to include women more often than men. Now I'm practically humping the mattress. I feel like a girl-crazy adolescent.

What is happening to me?

it can totally happen. just cool to see that you're not denying that you think girls are hot and wanna fuck them. it's like for me being bi. i'd be totally lying to myself if i didn't admit that i like head from dudes and topping them, too.

 

[Slips01]

When its comes down to it. You like what you like why put a name to the face

Slips

 

[Kyanimal]

Can a Gay Guy go Bi? I don't know! But ... I DO know that a Bi Guy can go completely Gay!!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[Kyanimal]

Fucking pussy is forbidden for gay men ~ that's what makes it HOT!!!

I have to agree that a properly primed, slick, dripping, pussy is indeed HOT!!! Work up a Chick, just right, and you're assured hours of a slippery, squirming, screaming, "Dick Glove"!! There will even be enough "slide" to do her Ass, too!!

"Butt", there's nothing quite like the "squeeze" of a HOT lubed Boy Hole, too! And, with Guys, you've also got a "saddle horn" to hold on to while you ride that pony!!

While "Fish" is delicious, heady, stuff ... I just found that I happen to prefer "Beef"!!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[Kyanimal]

Great story, Dude! Reminded me of all the "oomph" times I had, when I was doing my "expected thing", fucking Girls! And, I did so enjoy, respect, and LOVE my Chicks!

And though there is nothing on this Earth quite like Juicy Pussy, there is also nothing quite like fucking Boy Butt, and swallowing a huge load from a pulsing dick!

The sensations, sights, tastes, smells, feelings, are so different, and, yet, also so Stimulating in their own ways!!

Maybe it's the Brute "strength" of Guys that intrigues me more. I can't quite put "IT" into words!

Girls are GREAT! Guys are FANTASTIC!!

One of the most wonderful times I've had was fucking a Guy while he was fucking a Girl! And, then, tasting HER on HIS Dick! Talk about a Buffet!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[bigwhiskers65]

lim 100 percent gay and have no interest in women sexually but i do agree with another poster that not everyone is 100 percent this or that. however i dont believe that men who say they are 100 percent gay all of a sudden start getting urges for women -- i think that falls into the someplace in between category and vice versa

 

[AlmondMilk]

I love how I'm not the only one feeling like I'm gay, yet love to watch straight porn. It's very weird, but after watching straight porn for awhile, I started to pay more attention to the girls. Even when they moan, I can't help but get even more turned on. It's the same as when you make a guy moan but I guess the feeling is at the same time different.

Anyway I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking about sexuality being 100% gay or straight. I just prefer calling myself gay if I ever have to "come out." Why? I think it would just be easier for people to see me as gay. I wouldn't have to explain that during certain situations a girl will turn me on, lol. Then, again, I guess this might cause confusion...say... I bring home a girl, start dating her, and people ask why I'm dating her if they know me as gay.

Once again, it's great to get a confirmation that sexuality isn't always a given

 

[bigwhiskers65]

I love how I'm not the only one feeling like I'm gay, yet love to watch straight porn. It's very weird, but after watching straight porn for awhile, I started to pay more attention to the girls. Even when they moan, I can't help but get even more turned on. It's the same as when you make a guy moan but I guess the feeling is at the same time different.

Anyway I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking about sexuality being 100% gay or straight. I just prefer calling myself gay if I ever have to "come out." Why? I think it would just be easier for people to see me as gay. I wouldn't have to explain that during certain situations a girl will turn me on, lol. Then, again, I guess this might cause confusion...say... I bring home a girl, start dating her, and people ask why I'm dating her if they know me as gay.

Once again, it's great to get a confirmation that sexuality isn't always a given

That's why I'm glad I'm 100 percent when it comes to my sexuality. It's cut and dry with me.
I've never fantasized about women/never will and what little str8 porn i have watched is only because the guy is super hot and I only watch the fucking scenes and turn it off when any oral starts.

But I do understand your feelings , your not 100 percent gay , you have that 10 or 20 percent in you that gets into women. That category of in between or bisexual but lean towards men or bisexual but lean towards women. So to me the question of can a gay guy go bi ? My answer is if he's 100 percent gay NO , if he falls in between that 100 percent then he would be Bi to begin with and not totally gay anyway.

 

[tyunsaved]

You were bisexual but you did not realize it. If someone is born gay, then they're gay. You *thought* you were gay but you found out you liked girls, so that means you were bi all along. Nothing wrong with that, but from your posts I noticed that you rarely do gay sex now and it is almost always straight sex? That may mean you have been bi leaning towards women but had no idea. Or maybe you like men more I don't know. But I am, for example, 100% gay, women never appealed to me sexually and the sight of a naked woman does in fact turn me off and vaginas are just not for me, but you said women never turned you off, which indicates you were bi all along. Enjoy whatever your sexuality is and just do what you feel is right. Sleep with men, sleep with women, sleep with any consenting adults, and you will figure out what exactly is your sexuality.

 

[DiamondSkin]

Read some of my hot erotic fiction about gay guys fucking pussy for the first time:

http://www.outstraight.net/forums/index.php?topic=264.0

Lord, what a disgusting & self-loathing site.

I've read many of the accounts and stories on the forum and the general theme is:

1) It didn't work with my boyfriend

2) I'm gonna 'straighten out' to become straight.

3) I'm straight and I was never a gay man in the first place.

It's vehemently homophobic and it shows that we have a long ways to go in self-acceptance.

 

[DiamondSkin]

You were bisexual but you did not realize it. If someone is born gay, then they're gay. You *thought* you were gay but you found out you liked girls, so that means you were bi all along. Nothing wrong with that, but from your posts I noticed that you rarely do gay sex now and it is almost always straight sex? That may mean you have been bi leaning towards women but had no idea. Or maybe you like men more I don't know. But I am, for example, 100% gay, women never appealed to me sexually and the sight of a naked woman does in fact turn me off and vaginas are just not for me, but you said women never turned you off, which indicates you were bi all along. Enjoy whatever your sexuality is and just do what you feel is right. Sleep with men, sleep with women, sleep with any consenting adults, and you will figure out what exactly is your sexuality.

He's not a real account.

He's a troll account that goes via various names with the common theme of a supposed gay guy becoming straight.

His (or hers) last account was ConverttoCunt.

He was banned due to troll behavior.

 

[roughandgruffplay]

The ebb and flow of sexuality.

I tend to wind-up shagging a chick every 2-3 years or so.

I'm about due, and it's been on my mine a bit.

Doesn't change the fact that I'm gay.

If you were really actually homosexual or a gay man you'd have zero attractions to women and you would not somehow have sex with them every 2-3 years.

I'm really a gay man and I don't have sex with women every 2-3 years and I've never had any sexual attraction to women at all.

It sounds like you're bisexual and there's nothing wrong with this.

A good number of men who say they are gay aren't fully gay. They only say they are gay because they want a relationship with a guy. But a good number of them if they can't find a guy when they are horny will just have sex with a woman and if they were gay they would not do this and this makes them bisexual and not gay.

The only gay men who force themselves to sleep with women are closet cases and guys that are in denial about being gay.

There are a whole shit load of latent bisexuals masquerading around as gay men because they are ignorant of the fact that bisexual doesn't only mean an equal attraction to both genders or they're too scared to admit it because they've invested so much of their time and energy cultivating a gay identity.

Also there are some gay men who are highly bigoted towards bisexual men. Just like there are some lesbians who dislike bisexual women and trans women. These factors are also reasons why men and women who are bisexual yet call themselves gay or lesbian do not want to come out.

The dirty little secret that never gets addressed in the so called "gay" world is the fact that many gay men do go through a second coming out and re-identify as bisexual. These men may still overwhelmingly prefer men, but their orientation and identity are not exclusively towards men. And how their attraction to both sexes manifests differently as well. The ridiculous protest that "well sexual attraction to women just happened a few times, it doesn't mean anything, it's not going to happen again" belies the fact if you really were gay it wouldn't have happened in the first place and to now assume that it would never happen again defies basic logic.

 

[conrad]

Let me state up front that IMHO too many young men "come out" as gay before they have clearly established that that is the dominant inclination in their sexual understanding of themselves.

I was happily learning by doing in loving relationship with the new guy in town when I was fifteen years old. In those days we all thought of ourselves as just "regular guys" and when we were sucking each other off we thought it was probably something that our peers were also enjoying. We did sense that there was something slightly not regular about m2m sex sp we did not talk about it because all of what we did had to be under the radar of the morality snoops. From June to next June we were exclusively engaged in homosexual sexual activity.

But, when he was to spend the summer after our junior year on his grandparents' ranch in Montana, we both agreed that we could use the time to pay a bit of attention to the ladies. I never did find out what happened sexually for him that summer: nor did I enlighten him on my summer. In my case, I discovered that there was beauty and wonder, to say nothing of fantastic sexual communion ,to be had with a loving female partner; the lady in question was five years older than I and had made it a point to be present at my daily baths the summer I was born. At the end of the summer, sixteen years later, I was very sure that the heterosexual mode would be my final choice. But, in September I was happily back with my male lover for the rest of my senior year.

You will note that my bisexuality did not include having both a male and a female sex partner at the same time in my life. That is something my personal values and the restraints of my society have kept me from. One simply does not cheat on a sex partner one is deeply bound to in love.

 

[Nomenclature]

A good number of men who say they are gay aren't fully gay. They only say they are gay because they want a relationship with a guy.

And a good number of men who say they are straight aren't fully straight. They only say they are straight because they want a relationship with a woman. . .and fear judgment.

 

[Willie Boy]

For several years, I considered myself gay because I only slept with men. I never found women gross or unappealing, I just wasn't all that interested in having sex with them. But lately, I can't think about anything else. It started by watching a lot of straight / bi porn, and realizing that it turned me on more than the gay stuff now. Then I found myself more and more attracted to specific women. My sexual fantasies began to include women more often than men. Now I'm practically humping the mattress. I feel like a girl-crazy adolescent.

What is happening to me?

Everybody knows gay men can not like women. Women have vaginas and gay men can't stand that.