Can a straight guy ever be to hot for you to be friends with?

[kissthesky88]

Absolutely. I had a friend who while growing up was okay looking. Handsome, in that... mundane, every-other-teenaged-guy kind of way. Around the time we turned 20, he discovered the gym, and holy fucking shit did it do him wonders. He lost a very noticeable amount of weight and toned and tightened himself to the point of being fitness-magzine-cover-worthy. Because he looked better he started taking his shirt off more often (we live in LA) and thus became several shades more tan. Then last year, his parents paid for him to have a full set of porcelain veneers as his college graduation present. He now was perfect teeth. And when I say perfect, I mean PERFECT. All of that mixed in with a great personality... I can't manage to look at him in the eyes for more than 2 seconds. He's just too cute.

 

[movieguy22]

This actually happened to me just this past school year. This actually also coincides with me coming out...lol

My now best friend is one of the nicest guys I have ever met. And also one of the hottest. I've described him in the past as someone who could model for CF. Throughout the first semester, I was hoping that he would at least be curious and I could work that to my advantage. But come Christmas I realized this would never, ever happen.

When the next semester rolled along, we were in the same block of classes (both of us are in film production) and the in the first couple weeks, it was starting to drive me crazy. Literally crazy. Everyday I'd return home from school and blare music by bands like Disturbed or Korn. Generally angry music as an emotional release.

Up until this point, he had no clue that I'm bi. One night, I just couldn't handle it anymore and I mustered up my courage and told him. His response (paraphrased): "I thought something was up, I just didn't know how to bring it up. Just so you know, I'm straight. But I promise you, this will not change the way I see you or anything. Nothing will be different between us."

Honestly, that actually helped me get over him. From that point onward, we see each other as brothers instead of friends.

It also helps being generally chill guys. I've grabbed his ass numerous times and he usually just runs along with the joke.

As hot as he is, I don't feel like doing anything about it anymore simply because it may ruin the friendship. And I definitely don't want that.

 

[KnightRider]

I'm dealing with this right now and this has happened a few times in the past. This time, and each time in the past, it has been over a guy who is just amazingly attractive. This time and each time in the past, I have to be around these guys for either work or school and it's torture. It's worse if they happen to be decent people too. If they were homophobic idiots, it would be easier to not get hung up on them. The only way I have been able to deal with it is for the eventual time to come when I no longer have to be around them and they fade away into the past. It's nothing but torture and there is nothing one can do about it, only give it time.

 

[AlmondMilk]

I think I have a lot of hot friends, but as mentioned before by someone, it's all about control. If I hang with a hot friend and just treat him as a friend, that's all it'll be. There are plenty of topics and other things to do besides bring up sex lol...

 

[NineOfClubs]

I live in Portland, OR.

The straight guys here are hot, soft, cool, interesting.

The gays are cold, hard, and distant. Pretending to be "butch".

So, yeah, straight guys where I live are appealing as friends....

 

[cinnamontea]

And out of nowhere I offered him a blowjob, which he said no. .

wow..awkward...LOL....which is why i never confess to my str8 friends if i have a crush on them..let alone offer a bj..cause it sorta changesthe dynamic..