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Tookies

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I really can't take it anymore
its a breaking point and i think it helps writing or talkign about it
as i don't really want to talk to my friends about it i thought i would do a thread!

Well im basically in love withmy best friend
it started like 10 months ago i had my first kiss with him, im a very scared sort or person so kissing is scary enough for me lol not to mention other things. And i admitt i get attached very easily.
But after this kiss i fancied him like mad. Naturally.
But its like 10 months later now and its even worst than 10 months ago.
We are very close, some people mistake us for going out anyway. We sleep in the same bed when we sleep round each other. We hug each other while sleeping. Tell each other everything. Spend all our time together. And his the best person in the world. I love him i admitt it i do i REALLY LOVE HIM.
thats all from nothing more than a kiss.
I really want to be with him like prober boyfriends.
But part of me dosn't also, i don't know what i would do if i lost him.
But i think its worth the risk, i love him too mcuh and i have done nothing for 10 months and its getting upsetting now ive cryied enough times over it.
But his my best friend.

I really don't know what to do :(:(

x
 
you need to talk to him and see if he is interested in more than what you two have right now.
 
The thing is tho i know he isnt interested at all his had a few boyfriends since the kiss and all he shows signs time to time but i know he isnt interested.
 
Got it. If he has had other "boyfriends" since your last kiss, forget about going the romantic venue with him.
 
Here's more: I just read your profile and if you're into bondage and the missionary position, could it be possible you have "victim" issues and are pursuing this relationship unhealthily? Go find someone who will be as crazy about you as you will be about them, and keep your friendship with this guy platonic. You deserve more!
 
That does make sence i spose.
just to clear thinsg up
i am into that sort of stuff never done it tho
still a virgin lol
as i said i get attached easy so afraid 2 do anything lol.

But yeah i do see the sense in what your saying but no matter how much i try i cant make myself not see him in that way :(
im stuck really
 
Exactly. I know how it goes, believe me. But you must realize that if you are getting the feeling and signals from him that he is not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you, making yourself miserable because of it is only hurting yourself. You must actively seek happiness in life, not pain. It's not the way to live this wonderful life and I know you have a lot to offer to someone who will feel the same way about you. You seem to be very young still and have a very long life ahead of you. Go out and enjoy it to the fullest, make lots of friends, be a really nice person and protect yourself from drama and people who will do you no good. You will some day meet someone who will be deserving of your romantic affection.
 
Thanks for the advice :)
you do speak a lot of sense lol
But yeahi will try my hardest 2 get over it all
it seems to be the best thing 2 do
aint gonna be easy tho:(
 
Just know that there people out there like your fellow JUBbers who understand and empathize with your feelings and care about you. I know you'll be just fine. Don't be sad. Be happy! p.s. if that's you on your avatar, you are CUTE too! (*8*)
 
Hey tookies,

Mate... how can you be sure hes not interested? Have you told him how you feel?

Look... my advice is nearly always not to get involved with your best friend... because they are worth so much more to you as a best friend than an ex boyfriend should something go wrong...

But you guys have really been living as boyfriends now in whats almost a perfect relationship from what it sounds - all thats missing is the psychical.

Its time you talked to him. This is eating you up and one way or another you have to know whats going on so you can get on with your life... you deserve more than to pine away for someone who may never be yours... but until you talk to him honestly and openly you will never know that.

You say you talk to him about everything... well mate, you have to talk to him about the only thing you dont... how you feel about him. Its the only way you will be able to release yourself from the hold he has on you if thats what the outcome is.

Because one way or another you are worth knowing, your life is worth living full steam ahead not being held back. Good luck Tookies... I wish you nothing but happiness mate.
 
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