Can Pedophiles Be Cured?

[TickTockMan]

but thats mean because the term pedophile is used really harshly like the lowest of the low, but if a pedophile is someone who doesnt act on their impulses then thats not fair cos they havent done anything wrong and its not their fault they feel that way, so they dont deserve to be labelled pedophiles.

If we are going to talk about it I feel I should point out that there is a difference between ephebophilia, hebephilia, and pedophilia. In this thread they are being interchanged. Ephebophilia is a sexual preference for mid to late adolescents. Hebephilia the sexual preference for pubescent persons. And pedophilia is the sexual preference for prepubescent persons.


For some this information will not matter, for others it may. I have been studying sexuality for years and I can tell you what is thought of today probably was not awhile ago. As I said in my other post ephebophilia, hebephilia, and pedophilia were once common practice, for that matter so was the other taboos; bestiality, incest, rape and necrophilia. These things come and go; for right or wrong. There is a lot more I could say, but I will leave it at that.

 

[Lukeee]

Paedophilia is weird but I don't care if someone likes kids because they can't help it.

I do care when someone takes advantage of a person who isn't old enough to have the ability to decide what they want. I would think most 17 year olds are able to decide if they want sex or not and they are able to say no. Still, I don't understand why anyone would want to be with a person so young.

For those who rape young children the only cure is death. I am not sure if I would support a death penalty for it though because that can always go bad. If I saw someone doing anything like that to a child of mine (I don't have kids...) I would kill them myself.

 

[TickTockMan]

Paedophilia is weird but I don't care if someone likes kids because they can't help it.

I do care when someone takes advantage of a person who isn't old enough to have the ability to decide what they want. I would think most 17 year olds are able to decide if they want sex or not and they are able to say no. Still, I don't understand why anyone would want to be with a person so young.

For those who rape young children the only cure is death. I am not sure if I would support a death penalty for it though because that can always go bad. If I saw someone doing anything like that to a child of mine (I don't have kids...) I would kill them myself.

I like how you start with they can't help it and then end with they should die if they give in.

Go your entire life without ever being able to be with who you want to be with. See what happens to your thoughts on the subject.

 

[Jayden]

OK what about when I was a kid and let older guys touch me. I actually liked it and still don't regret it. But I'm not ruined. So What gives. I don't like kids but as a kid I liked older men. My mom used to say she never understood pedophiles that were looking for a fuck buddy or bf that was a young minor. She said no minor is looking for an older man. Little did she know that the type of boy the pedophiles were looking for.. was her son

More pieces of the puzzle fall into place.

 

[boxerdudeuk]

OK what about when I was a kid and let older guys touch me. I actually liked it and still don't regret it. But I'm not ruined. So What gives. I don't like kids but as a kid I liked older men. My mom used to say she never understood pedophiles that were looking for a fuck buddy or bf that was a young minor. She said no minor is looking for an older man. Little did she know that the type of boy the pedophiles were looking for.. was her son

i'm not even sure what to do with that. wow.

 

[TickTockMan]

i'm not even sure what to do with that. wow.

Why do you make it sound like a bad thing? Its not like its not uncommon, it just doesn't get talked about much. Most of us growing up had crushes on adults. Its no different than that.

 

[KrisHawkXXX]

Why do you make it sound like a bad thing? Its not like its not uncommon, it just doesn't get talked about much. Most of us growing up had crushes on adults. Its no different than that.

exactly. everyone on here is making it bigger then it actually is. If i was still that young.. I'd STILL get with some hot older dad type men!

 

[ixthrock]

oooooh

tabuuuuuu

 

[ixthrock]

ephebophilia, et. al. were once common practice,

hmmmph. Ephebophilia is the fucking NORM, for fuck's sake. Walked into an Abercrombie and Fitch lately? Who the fuck is Britney Spears and why should I care?

 

[TickTockMan]

exactly. everyone on here is making it bigger then it actually is. If i was still that young.. I'd STILL get with some hot older dad type men!

They either never were that way or they forgot what it was to be a kid. Given from the thread of peoples first time quite a few started young. They can't tell me that all of them were with peers and not an adult or someone older than them. To me this is as bad as a guy sucking another guy off in a bathroom then telling others gay sex is sick. At least some are being hypocrites here.

 

[TickTockMan]

hmmmph. Ephebophilia is the fucking NORM, for fuck's sake. Walked into an Abercrombie and Fitch lately? Who the fuck is Britney Spears and why should I care?

I gather you are pissed that you are not "young" anymore?

 

[ixthrock]

I gather you are pissed that you are not "young" anymore?

omg, i hope that is meant as funny because i nearly spit on myself laughing at it.

 

[Passion4Muzik]

They don't need to be cured -- they need to refrain from breaking the law.

 

[ixthrock]

I'm just saying, y'know?
I really don't mind aging, it has it's perqs.
F'rinstance, now I know what in the fuck mom means when she talks about her bursitis; i know what arthritis feels like. we had a good laugh about it the other day. Me and the beau-ette shop at the Publix with the college youngsters to - oh yes, we co-opted an older word for it - "trouser." We go trousering. But today, when we got back to his place, the straight, married, post-collegiate MAN across the street ripped off his button-down shirt, exposing his muscled shoulders and soft belly and proceeded to tend the postage stamp that passes for a yard in his neighborhood. I'd sold him a red oak last winter, and had to walk over and comment about how it had leafed out late this spring, but was sure coming along beautifully. I had to wait because he ran into the house to slip out of his confining jeans and into something more *coff* comfortable.

How can I miss not being young anymore when I can still feel just as awkward?

 

[KrisHawkXXX]

They either never were that way or they forgot what it was to be a kid. Given from the thread of peoples first time quite a few started young. They can't tell me that all of them were with peers and not an adult or someone older than them. To me this is as bad as a guy sucking another guy off in a bathroom then telling others gay sex is sick. At least some are being hypocrites here.

yup. Being a younger boy and getting with an adult man is NOT illegal. However, being an adult and getting with a younger boy IS! There are so many hipocrits on JUB its not even funny. The ones who say its wrong to be young and like older men probably have inner issues themselves. They themselves probably like younger boys and they get pissed at me because I just reminded them of something thats illegal for them.

I remember throughout grade and highschool it was hard to get laid with older men... alot of them got scared because I was jail bait. Alot of them thought I was undercover or something as well... Some just didn't care... and that's when I got lucky!

Cuz If i got with boys my age at the time... it would've been ok. But getting with an older man is wrong? I was gonna have sex anyway so why should it matter?

 

[TickTockMan]

That defense has been tried many times, doesnt work.

This thread is on the fast track to be locked.

Its illegal for the adult, not the sweet beautiful angel that couldn’t possibly want or even know what sex is without an old perverted adult telling them, bribing them, abusing them or conning them ect. into it.

 

[TickTockMan]

What is the damn difference betwixt the two? I don't care how you rap it to me, it's still statutory rape for an older man to touch a young child in a sexual manner. Even if said child was begging for it as you disgustingly describe it, it's R-A-P-E.

Just statutory, rape by itself means a whole lot more.

 

[TickTockMan]

Thynight

The child isnt illegal nor is the adult; it is the act that is illegal. Many adults have claimed to have been the passive one in the act. But like I said, has never worked.

I didn't say the child or the adult was illegal, I said it was illegal for the adult.


I have never heard of a sweet beautiful angel going to juvenile hall for having sex with an adult. I can though for adults going to jail.

 

[sixthson]

OK what about when I was a kid and let older guys touch me. I actually liked it and still don't regret it. But I'm not ruined.

You really have no idea how pitifully sad this is, do you?

 

[TickTockMan]

You really have no idea how pitifully sad this is, do you?

I know it wasn't directed to me, but how is it sad? He had sex. He liked it. I am guessing you have had sex and liked it, how is it different?