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Can relationships form from hookups?

Ehalahepl

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So to make a short story even shorter. I hooked up with this guy I met on myspace. Afterwards he asked for my phone number and said he would call me tommorow. Ok i thought.

Well I like him and I want him to call, not sure how he feels about it.

Just wanted to hear your guys stories on this. Have you had a casual sex than went on to develop a relationship with the person?
 
Yes.
Other times, it has been "perfect." We gave and received and did so with generosity to each other.

What's important are the intentions that you bring to and act upon in a relationship, however brief.
Act with care.

I think there is a role for casual sex. That it is "casual" doesn't mean that it has to be demoralizing in any way; in fact, you should strive to make sure that the opposite is the case.
 
I know of people who've gone into fairly lengthy relationships after meeting in rather sluttish circumstances. A good friend of mine fell in love at a bathhouse, and they were very happy together for over a year (the guy turned out to be a meth addict, though, and that sort of ruined everything).

As always, though, be warned that you cannot control where the relationship goes: you can just show up for it and see what happens. If you're interested in this guy, see him some more and find out what it's all about.
 
I'd hate to think that nothing good could come from a casual hookup!
 
my second proper boyfriend was supposed to be a one night stand! a friend gave him my email as we only lived 5 minutes apart and he was not that much older than me. we swapped pictures and agreed to meet for sex at his house, i trusted it because my friend told me about him. two days after we'd hooked up he turned up at my house with pizza and a dvd wanting to 'hang out' and we had sex again. he asked me out and we were together for a couple of months. he was a sweet guy, i'm glad he wanted to see me again.
 
smile86 said:
my second proper boyfriend was supposed to be a one night stand! a friend gave him my email as we only lived 5 minutes apart and he was not that much older than me. we swapped pictures and agreed to meet for sex at his house, i trusted it because my friend told me about him. two days after we'd hooked up he turned up at my house with pizza and a dvd wanting to 'hang out' and we had sex again. he asked me out and we were together for a couple of months. he was a sweet guy, i'm glad he wanted to see me again.
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So he became a one month odd stand...
 
Picked someone up in a public toilet when I was 21yrs old. Had a long and passionate relationship and are now the closest of friends.

That was over 35yrs ago.

Does that answer your question?

Re-read Robert~Marlénè's comments and you will be already to take a chance and see how it goes.
 
Well, apparently it worked for Dan Savage and his boyfriend Terry.

They hooked up, Terry caught a 24-hour flu the next morning, so Dan nursed him back to health and they've been together for a good 6 or more years.
 
Thank you guys I appreciate the responses. I guess time will tell.
 
I think it is rare... call me a pessimist. But tried it once; we swore that we would hang out and grab a beer. But every time, we ended up with not enough time for the beer. Still, we're decent friends... but really, nothing more than hookup buddies in reality. Time will tell for sure for you. But I think it is doomed to fail more often that succeed.
 
sure they can, but crabs are more likely
 
In my opinion, that would just ruin the whole thing. But your mileage may vary.
 
dpnice said:
Picked someone up in a public toilet when I was 21yrs old. Had a long and passionate relationship and are now the closest of friends.

That was over 35yrs ago.

Does that answer your question?

Re-read Robert~Marlénè's comments and you will be already to take a chance and see how it goes.
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Hoho! You had a secret fuckbuddy you naughty boy, and we all thought you were just a Hudson-type queer English bitter wimp :mrgreen:
 
jockboy01 said:
I think it is rare... call me a pessimist. But tried it once; we swore that we would hang out and grab a beer. But every time, we ended up with not enough time for the beer. Still, we're decent friends... but really, nothing more than hookup buddies in reality. Time will tell for sure for you. But I think it is doomed to fail more often that succeed.
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What jockboy01 said.

It can happen, but it's pretty rare. I even had a hookup that I mistook for a relationship, but the guy was so damn shallow. :rolleyes: Once he saw I didn't have Kenneth Cole stuff all over my house, he dropped me like a wet rag.

Guys will say anything.

Don't always believe them.
 
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