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Can someone help me please?

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I thought things were going really well, was talking with him alot and he seemed just as interested in me as I am in him. However over the last week or so I've pretty much had the cold shoulder, he doesnt text me back anymore (although he did say he was almost out of texts till the 20th).
Anyway a quick account of the last week, we were texting on Sunday pretty much like normal and he later mentioned on MSN not having many texts left on his phone, talked to him through msn on tuesday but he didn't stay online for long. I knew he was at work all week so didnt bother contacting him again till Friday through myspace and he got back to me on the Saturday, I replied back he read the reply but never replied back to me. I talked with him about an hour ago and he was really slow with his responces then stopped replying to me after talking for about 10 minutes.

Anyone got any ideas what the hells up? Am well confused :confused:
 
The person who can best answer this is him. If you really want to know, ask him. The evidence favors Bay's comment above, though. He likes you, but he's got other things going on.

Lex
 
You are still contacting him. even if not so much as before. So ask him. "We haven't been talking as much as we had before. You just getting swamped?"

Lex
 
There are many possibilities as to why the sudden change. I'm sure all the bad ones have already run through your mind, but there are also other reasons that may have nothing to do with you. You are just going to have to ask him directly. Good luck!
 
Just sounds like hes busy, see if you can get some time off together just to hang out, talk in person, maybe you could go out for a drink, or go back somewhere watch a DVD, online and texts are great, but nothings better than face to face chatting.
 
Well met up with him yesterday in Leeds. Wandered round town for about three hourse then walked back to his.
Was lay on his bed chatting and that then started play fighting, which led to kissing. Cuddled up and went to sleep for a bit then had a bit of a fool about untill his flat mate came home >_<' ah well hopefully have more time next time I see him!
Guess I was worried over nothing!!
 
Well that was short lived, had a talk with him this morning and hes still messed up a bit in the head over this 25 year old guy whos "straight" but got off with him a couple of times, and he wants to see where that can go and doesn't want to mess me about in the process.

Feel a bit fucked over to be honest, kinda like he lead me along. But then he probably didn't realise how he felt about this other guy till he got close with someone else, which is just great :^o

But I suppose in the process I came out to all of my friends in Leeds and Middlesbrough so have kinda got that out of the way. Just wish I could have had more with him, really liked him alot ](*,)
 
That sucks! At least you found the silver lining in the whole mess (coming out to your friends). As much as it hurts, it's better you found out now instead of later. Keep yourself busy and you will soon be over him.
 
we all know chasing the "straight" guy leads to disaster. Even bi guys are tricky bunch.

Just be glad he was honest with you now instead of dragging you along for the ride. I'm sure you will find another guy that will make you happy.
 
Well at least he was honest with you so you can maintain the friendship. The unobtainable is just so tempting that sometimes one forgets reality.
 
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