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ok so i have this huge problem. there is this guy i met about two months ago in the beggining he was very distant and then we became good friends. About two weeks ago he started doing wierd things like grabbing my ass and touching me. But he thinks im straight and says he was "just kidding" he said he was playing a game called nervous... same game i attemp to play when i just want to cop a feel. so now it has gone as far as he puts his hands down my pants and dares me to kiss him again he thinks im straight and says he is. this all seems very immature but is rather fun too. But all this time he still talks about girls and having relationships and how hot they are, he never actually tlaks about doing anything with him. SOO is he straight, bi, or gay?:confused:

SOO i guess what i am asking do i take this "game" to the next level, and even then do i hint at doing more?? also share similar stories and what happened if you have any
 
confucius say

he who play with other mans cock is a man who plays with other mans cock

or

occams razor?

the simplest answer is usually the correct one?

lol

only he knows but he sounds open to experimenting to find out at least
 
tell you somthing, i had the same experience on this. I'm Bi and i have a stra8 friend. which is very cute. I used to play around with him a lot as your friend did it to you.. and he responded the same "game" that i played. He talked about girls and her ex-gf a lot as well. But at last I know he isn't like one of us.. In your situation, he mght be bi, maybe he's gay or possible to be straight too. we wouldnt know until he's serious on playing the game in uncontrolable desires. hehe .. for me, i really miss him so much.. we're not seeing each other anymore for some reasons... :(
 
Next time he dares you to kiss him, kiss him.
 
looseliam said:
Next time he dares you to kiss him, kiss him.
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oh no i do i go along with it but he only does this in front of people (maybe he is showing off?) never tried to get a game going when its only the two of us maybe i should but i also dont want to scare him or anything
 
He's straight. Enjoy the groping, but don't get attached. When you come out and start dating real gay men, you won't need the attentions of a straight boy.

If I'm wrong and he is gay, you'll never know... so long as he thinks you're straight. So unless you actually believe that he'll beat you up (or, rather, if you don't think you could beat him up if he starts something), stop letting him think you're straight.

Coming out might be difficult (I wouldn't know, I was never in), but if nothing else it does resolve all these irritating dilemmas. If you were out, he would either not touch you or would ask you on a date. It simplifies matters a good deal when everybody knows what everybody else wants.
 
thanks for all of your help can anyoneone else help me???? i saw him again today and dont know how to approach this
 
Like some of the posters said above, you iether come clean with the guy and he accepts you for who you really are or he puts up a wall between the two if he is straight.

To make it simple, have this as a test, tell him the truth, see how he responds. This goes along way to coming out of the closet.
 
Ewww he is not straight, he is so closeted.

I can spot a true straight a mile away.
 
sockid221 said:
ok so i have this huge problem. there is this guy i met about two months ago in the beggining he was very distant and then we became good friends. About two weeks ago he started doing wierd things like grabbing my ass and touching me. But he thinks im straight and says he was "just kidding" he said he was playing a game called nervous... same game i attemp to play when i just want to cop a feel. so now it has gone as far as he puts his hands down my pants and dares me to kiss him again he thinks im straight and says he is. this all seems very immature but is rather fun too. But all this time he still talks about girls and having relationships and how hot they are, he never actually tlaks about doing anything with him. SOO is he straight, bi, or gay?:confused:

SOO i guess what i am asking do i take this "game" to the next level, and even then do i hint at doing more?? also share similar stories and what happened if you have any
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Now, why on Earth would you venture to say anything like 'immature' is sooo beyond me...

SC
 
Straight guy horseplay is very similar to gay foreplay... only the gay gays feel the sexual undertones.
 
ok well i shouuld be hanging out with him tommorow night any suggestions on how to aproach this should i initiate the game and see where it goes, confront him, should i just milk it and have a little fun with it??
 
I'm sorry I've never heard of a straight guy putting his hand down his friends pants and telling him to kiss him.
My 2cents is he is bi or curious at least.
 
well there is a new and confusing twist to the story so out of all the girls he "likes" one liked him back and he froze her out and said that he wasnt ready and didnt want to use her as a rebound girl or something... also he makes all these anti-gay statements infront of large groups but says the total opposite around me or a few others so basically he is pretty messed up
 
so do i leave him alone because he is so fucked up in the head, or do i persue this??? granted this is the only action i have gotten in well since i realized i was gay soo... FOREVER


HELP ME!!!
 
Don't known if you still want any advice, but here it goes: he's playing with your head, so you need to move on. There are plenty of gay men out there, so if you're not meeting them, maybe you need to change your location. If you want to find out where he stands: ask him, tell him the truth: he's playing with your head and you don't like it... or maybe you do, then tell him that. and ask him if he's bi or something... but in the end, you should probably move on.
 
I'm with jrm. Move on. Regardless of his tendencies, he's unavailable.

Stay friendly, but don't hold your breath.
 
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He has no right to play "fun and games" with your emotions and or your pants.

This guy has some problems he needs to resolve and you don't need to be around while he does so.

I guess you need to decide how important his "friendship" is to you and whether you are willing to pay the price.

If he goes around putting his hands down other guys pants - and it isn't a party game, something sure is not right. Either that or he is very immature for his age.

:confused: :confused: :confused:​

eM.:(
 
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