Can two men go to the movies together?

[Spiff]

OMG

Didn't that insult the hell out of you...
Anyone ashamed to be seen with me, would never have to worry about it again..

That's amazing!!

Well considering I was closeted and nobody knew I was gay, it wasn't as bad as it would seem. They just thought other people would think it looked gay for 2 highschool boys to sit next to each other in a dark theater. Still I thought that was stupid, it just made them look insecure about themselves.

 

[Luka]

I'm in the closet and go to movies with my straight friends all the time, they don't know i'm gay though.

 

[gameboy 11]

Me and my cousin went to see Kingdom Of Heaven together back in 2005. It was cool. I enjoyed his company.

And btw, this is a *RIDICULOUS* question, with a big, capital "R".

 

[dalton41]

People are going to the movies to see the movie, not who's going with who. If the movie is good, you don't have nothing to worry about. Enjoy the flick.

 

[Kulindahr]

No.

There have to be at least three of you, and you all have to go to the restroom at the same time.


Two men can do anything they want together -- have coffee, ride 4-wheelers, go skiing, shop for a new car, take in a movie, mudwrestle, whatever.

As a famous Nobel Prizewinner once said, "What do you care what other people think?"

Own yourself -- do what you want and be proud!

 

[thelaw2047]

I have gone to the movies several times with gay and straight friends. And it never was an issue. I think that gay or straight you should just go to enjoy the movie. If the theater is not where you plan to make out then screw what other people think. You gotta go for the gusto man. When six men carry you it's over dude!!! Enjoy yourself!!! Sit right next to your friend and enjoy yourself.

 

[KennyD]

Why are you so concerned about what others will think ? It is a movie ... not a gay porn theater or club .
Go and enjoy yourself ....

 

[Kurn]

Maybe OP's from Smallville.
You're obviously sensitive about a lot of issues right now. Well, you're not alone, bro.'
But like everyone else has said, going to the movies with another guy is no biggie.

But let us know what your situation is and if there's trouble brewing.
We're all here to help each other out.

 

[-Lance-]

I really wish more guys would come out of the closet.

Really.

Are you having ANY fun staying in the closet?

No, its dark. See the light.


As for me, I want a man that will hold my hand, kiss me public, go to the movies with....

 

[rareboy]

I was asked to go on a date this weekend. I'm kinda hesitant about going to the movies with this guy, because of what it may look like. I like him alot, but I can't help feeling like this. Since I'm in the closet things like this get to me. What do you all think?

You're kidding right?

What it looks like to who?? Why do you think they care? They're there to watch the movie.

Afterward, you can go to a Chinese buffet and even go to the bathroom at the same time.

Where do grown men get such idiotic ideas?

 

[kevbo]

My friend and I went and saw "Mean Girls" together

Everyone thought we were gay.

He went and saw it 5 more times without me. He claims he's straight.

Who's the gay one?

 

[teh_nathan]

My boyfriend and I go to movies all the time.
I and my friends (a married couple - both male) go to movies all the time.
I've gone on dates to the movies with whichever gender.
So you tell me if it's possible - I sure think it is.

I don't care what other people think - much less complete strangers - I go to the movies to enjoy the movie and to enjoy the company of the person (or people) I'm taking (or who are taking me, whichever).

I don't mean to offend, but I don't understand why the opinions of complete strangers should matter so much to you. If people don't like it, or point fingers or call names, it has nothing to do with you, and has everything to do with their ignorance which is their problem, not yours.

 

[mike_n_herrin]

i used to go to the movies with straight guy friends all the time. no one ever thought anything about it. some of those friends were quite homophobic and didn't even care.

 

[Ninja108]

yes they can. I've been to movies with my bf and many straight friends, just the two of us and have yet to get a stare or anything of that nature.

 

[Sweet20s]

Yes the men can. As long as they end up having sex with each other. They will all look at you and know what will happen.

 

[Blacksheep]

I've been to the movies with other guys loads of times. Only time I've ever felt odd with a guy in public was when I was with one at a restaurant.

I don't know why but we seemed to attract a lot of looks. In itself it wouldn't have been bad except it was my brother-in-laws son (he was 16 I was 20) and there was nothing going on between the two of us except eating food before seeing a movie. I found it really disconcerting as I didn't want him to feel uncomfortable but he didn't seem to mind (he was very boyish/elf looking but straight as they come).

 

[Mitsukuni]

I really don't see what the big deal is. Its not about being gay or straight. I just think you have to work on your confidence.

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

you mean all the 13300 movies i went with my best friend

he was trying to get jiggy with me

i wish
so could i slap him off

 

[aussieduo]

My partner and myself go to the movies together all the time. Frankly, I don't care what other people think. If they don't like it, then that is their problem. If they voice their opinion, I will tell them what they can do with their opinion. Live your life for yourself, and nobody else. If you really like the guy, then what others think should not matter.

 

[disingenuous]

What's the point in dating if you're too afraid to be seen with your date?

seriously! it was the most annoying thing with one of my exes when he'd snatch his hand from mine or refuse to kiss or hug me in public because "there were people watching."

I say if you're so uncomfortable being gay then you shouldn't subject anyone else to that. It dosen't feel good when someone cant give you their everything because they're "ashamed" of who they are.

thats my two cents from experience.