Can you be really straight and still post here?

[hornyfella]

I'll just say this:

I'm gay, and i've never felt the need to join a straight porn forum.

No one gives a shit. Your experience is yours...it doesnt define mine, but thanks.
And for the record, I dont give a shit about the porn here.

 

[SteveyBoyLA]

It just means you're more open minded than most straight guys.
We have a great community here and the more diverse the better!

I like this straightforward response.

I have seen several posts from our gay brothers that their mothers and sisters (haven't seen the 'dad' reference) either post or read posts from others. Perhaps to find out more about what how the 'gay mind' ticks, sort of like witnessing zoo animals behind glass cages. (You wouldn't actually want to jump in the cages for fear of catching something though - boo!)

There really is a number for forums that can and do appeal to straight dudes such as politics and current affairs. There is quite a bit of diversity in opinions, and I might add very intelligent, well-educated posters as well. Oh, and the occasional peek in the fetish forum can be appealing like What Man-Butt Makes Your Dick Hard - our straight brothers need to know how you can tease us into mad, dirty fantasies over your swarthy physiques.

 

[justaguy]

our straight brothers need to know how you can tease us into mad, dirty fantasies over your swarthy physiques.

But, if they're wanting to tease us, doesn't that make them gay or bi? Why would a straight guy want to tease gays and send out signals of gayness when they are in fact straight?

 

[whatdidyousay]

But, if they're wanting to tease us, doesn't that make them gay or bi? Why would a straight guy want to tease gays and send out signals of gayness when they are in fact straight?

Do you know a lot of straight guys? I can't speak about supposedly straight guys posting pics on this site, but a ton do get off on being admired and desired by anyone! I mean I've been hit on really obviously by a good bit of gay dudes and even though i'm not interested and sometimes can be a little uncomfortable if a dude gets too aggressive, it's still damn flattering. I don't try to entice or anything, that's an asshole thing to do imo, but people do.

Some guys figured out a long time ago that they can get their need to be worshiped and adored filled up by men and women. I know enough straight men and women who flirt with anybody, and anything, even though they'd never go home with most of the people they get their flirt on with. They don't even think about if the other person seriously thinks they have a chance. They just enjoy the flirt and like being wanted.

 

[hornyfella]

There really is a number for forums that can and do appeal to straight dudes such as politics and current affairs. There is quite a bit of diversity in opinions, and I might add very intelligent, well-educated posters as well. Oh, and the occasional peek in the fetish forum can be appealing like What Man-Butt Makes Your Dick Hard - our straight brothers need to know how you can tease us into mad, dirty fantasies over your swarthy physiques.

True, in amongst the simple minded, haters, & bigots there lurks an open minded intelligent group....and I speak of all 'sides' of the sexual equation here.

As for the 'occasional peek', some of us are indeed interested in what makes others tick sexually. Others may have a mild fetish or interest for viewing the 'forbidden' or whatever. So what? No biggie. Dont read too much into that.
A very gay friend of mine, who has been gay his entire life, with sexual and romantic interests only in men, really enjoys viewing certain types of str8 porn/sexual activity. Does this activity call his sexuality into question? Uhh no. For some narrow minded types it might. For me I accept the plain fact he is gay and his interest in str8 sex nothing more than viewing something that may be unusual or forbidden to him. It doesnt make him something other than what he is....a gay dude who finds sex between humans interesting.

 

[Krakenbwool]

But, if they're wanting to tease us, doesn't that make them gay or bi? Why would a straight guy want to tease gays and send out signals of gayness when they are in fact straight?

It's kind of like how girls like to show off to a room of "douchebags" or old men who they don't actually want to bang. Some people just like being admired, and it just so happens that men, gay or straight, are generally more receptive to "show-offs" than women.

Not that gay men are comparable to douchebags or old men, but it's in the concept.

 

[hornyfella]

ISome people just like being admired,

This is true.
Exhibitionism can also be a factor in that.
Everyone likely knows of some married str8 non swinger woman who has flashed her boobs at a truck driver, group of guys, or something...mostly for her own naughty little exhibitionist thrill.
Some str8 guys are no different. They may just a get a naughty buzz from the attention of others...even if it is gay guys. And as you indicated, an exhibitionist guy will likely find much more acceptance among gay guys then he will str8 women.
Females tend to be more about emotions in general. Guys just like looking without any emotional aspect. Cant really blame some open minded horny str8 guy for taking advantage of that. haha....

 

[whatdidyousay]

True, in amongst the simple minded, haters, & bigots there lurks an open minded intelligent group....and I speak of all 'sides' of the sexual equation here.

As for the 'occasional peek', some of us are indeed interested in what makes others tick sexually. Others may have a mild fetish or interest for viewing the 'forbidden' or whatever. So what? No biggie. Dont read too much into that.
A very gay friend of mine, who has been gay his entire life, with sexual and romantic interests only in men, really enjoys viewing certain types of str8 porn/sexual activity. Does this activity call his sexuality into question? Uhh no. For some narrow minded types it might. For me I accept the plain fact he is gay and his interest in str8 sex nothing more than viewing something that may be unusual or forbidden to him. It doesnt make him something other than what he is....a gay dude who finds sex between humans interesting.

This has gotta be one of the most true and on point posts I've ever read.

 

[shainski]

Can you be really straight and still post here?

No, it's not possible. In fact, even if you end up here because you click on a link from Google or something, you are not longer straight, but rather "straight".

Someone will be stopping by and confiscating your straight card - and it will be voided by the authorities.

And for those of you gay folk who attempt to end up on a similar straight site, we know who you are as well.

Orientation cards will be confiscated and reissued so quickly, it will make all of your gaydar untrustworthy.

Don't say you weren't warned. (Although, with apologizes to all you "straight" folk who ended up here accidentally, i admit you were warned too late!) Ahh well, we're the authorities. What are you going to do?

 

[hornyfella]

True, in amongst the simple minded, haters, & bigots there lurks an open minded intelligent group....and I speak of all 'sides' of the sexual equation here.

Perhaps we should add the disingenuous, mockers, and those completely unable to conceive of anything outside of their own limited sexual perceptions. There are plenty of those on all sides too, some even in this thread.
I find it exceptionally ironic, not to mention sad, how some gays can at times be so ignorant bigoted about others they do not understand when they as a group have been the victims of the same type ignorance and bigotry for centuries. It kind of reminds me of how Puritans came to America to escape religious persecution and immediately started their own persecution. Such is a flaw of human nature I suppose.

 

[justaguy]

Do the straight guys here believe there might be some homo-curiosity in most, if not all, guys? I remember, as a teenager, going on a camping trip with 5 friends and doing the old 'showing your junk' to each other trick, late at night while lying in our sleeping bags. I distinctly remember each of us having erections. There must have been a certain amount of being turned on for this to happen. All the other 5 are now married and presumably hetero.

 

[justaguy]

I find it exceptionally ironic, not to mention sad, how some gays can at times be so ignorant bigoted about others they do not understand when they as a group have been the victims of the same type ignorance and bigotry for centuries.

I don't believe there was any bigotry in this thread. People were simply querying the idea of someone who enjoys looking at gay porn being completely straight. Even though this forum is titled straight/bi guys, most of the threads are still about gay sex and topics.

 

[AlmondMilk]

I have to agree that I think it's possible. Just because someone is curious does not necessarily they are bi or gay.

 

[whatdidyousay]

Do the straight guys here believe there might be some homo-curiosity in most, if not all, guys?

My opinion? Dude I just think ALL human beings are a ton more complicated than most of us really like to ever admit. I do not believe that even the majority of people that consider themselves straight can say with any honesty that they never wondered, or took a peek, or entertained some thoughts. I think if you busted all our heads open and could somehow see our thoughts everybody would be shocked...and relieved.

But I am so glad i started this topic because the answers are awesome. You guy are so damn killer!



Extra special shout out to Shainski for cracking me the hell up!

 

[SteveyBoyLA]

No, it's not possible. In fact, even if you end up here because you click on a link from Google or something, you are not longer straight, but rather "straight".

Someone will be stopping by and confiscating your straight card - and it will be voided by the authorities.

And for those of you gay folk who attempt to end up on a similar straight site, we know who you are as well.

Orientation cards will be confiscated and reissued so quickly, it will make all of your gaydar untrustworthy.
Don't say you weren't warned. (Although, with apologizes to all you "straight" folk who ended up here accidentally, i admit you were warned too late!) Ahh well, we're the authorities. What are you going to do?

Damn. 2 hours ago, I pranced over to a straight site to see what turned the boys on (the site featured something called big jugs or something like that - it was disgusting!), and sure enough one of your authorities came a'knocking at my door. Thanks for the warning shainski, I'll never do that again! (Now, back to the JUB Fetish forum where I belong!)

 

[Nudist Ted]

This is an old thread, but I will still give it my two cents....

I'm straight. I'm not bi or curious. I'm here because there are other straight dudes here who I can chat with about sex, anal play, strap-on fucking, etc., without having to worry.
I think most of the bi or gay denial postings come from gay or bi men who can't conceive or admit there are straight men like me that enjoy anal play who are not gay or bi.

I've yet to find a sexually oriented website about straight male anal play without describing it as a bi or gay activity. WHICH IT IS NOT.

For many men and women, the anus and anal area is an erogenous zone, and stimulating it is a BIG turn-on.

It is not an exclusive Bi or GAY erogenous zone. It's a human erogenous zone and should be enjoyed by every sexual orientation without labeling it.

That is why many straight guys are on this forum. We can find other straight men whom we can share our thoughts and feelings with and not have to worry about being labeled Bi, Gay, Fagot, Homo, Queer, etc.

 

[firsttimeagain]

Hey guys!


I see this question posted sometimes and I haven't even been around that long. I think it's a really interesting topic to be honest.

What do you guys think? Do you believe straight dudes really post here at JUB, or do you think we're all closet cases or lying to ourselves and others if we find our way here and actually stick around?

Truly…if you are really straight you would not be here in the first place. I’m straight as far as experience goes, but I’m really not straight in my mind. I’ve always fantasized about sucking cock and eating cum. So, I’m guessing that is not fully straight. Even before I admitted to myself that my deepest desires were different than my real life relationships, I considered myself straight. But, as I watched gay porn that really made me realize that I was not straight. It makes me feel different than watching straight porn. If I were straight I would not get so horny watching it and fantasizing about it. So, it took me awhile to admit it to myself. So, anyone with those same feelings that claims to be straight here are probably just in denial. I was for many years, now I admit I am at least bi if not full on gay. The difference for me is I don’t want to flaunt it and shout it from the mountain top, but I want to experience it all over and over. I’m ready to share it with the right person and finally enjoy what I’ve always wanted secretly. Still straight as far as experience goes, but I’m not. Nor would I be here posting if I were straight. Just my opinion and my journey is still incomplete…

 

[Nudist Ted]

Truly…if you are really straight you would not be here in the first place. I’m straight as far as experience goes, but I’m really not straight in my mind. I’ve always fantasized about sucking cock and eating cum. So, I’m guessing that is not fully straight. Even before I admitted to myself that my deepest desires were different than my real life relationships, I considered myself straight. But, as I watched gay porn that really made me realize that I was not straight. It makes me feel different than watching straight porn. If I were straight I would not get so horny watching it and fantasizing about it. So, it took me awhile to admit it to myself. So, anyone with those same feelings that claims to be straight here are probably just in denial. I was for many years, now I admit I am at least bi if not full on gay. The difference for me is I don’t want to flaunt it and shout it from the mountain top, but I want to experience it all over and over. I’m ready to share it with the right person and finally enjoy what I’ve always wanted secretly. Still straight as far as experience goes, but I’m not. Nor would I be here posting if I were straight. Just my opinion and my journey is still incomplete…

Yes you can

 

[curiousbob]

I'm not going to label myself, it's one less thing to worry about. I'm me

 

[joshtrainer30]

This is true.
Exhibitionism can also be a factor in that.
Everyone likely knows of some married str8 non swinger woman who has flashed her boobs at a truck driver, group of guys, or something...mostly for her own naughty little exhibitionist thrill.
Some str8 guys are no different. They may just a get a naughty buzz from the attention of others...even if it is gay guys. And as you indicated, an exhibitionist guy will likely find much more acceptance among gay guys then he will str8 women.
Females tend to be more about emotions in general. Guys just like looking without any emotional aspect. Cant really blame some open minded horny str8 guy for taking advantage of that. haha....

I enjoy the attention of men IRL but don't encourage them because I am straight and it could get out of hand. The interest does give me a thrill however which is I guess is why I post on here.