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Can you get hard without touching yourself

chrisdobro

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I'm curious if you can get hard without touching yourself.

When and how does it happen ? - What do you do or what situation you are in when it happens ?
 
Well, duh! It happens all the time and not necessarily when I want them. My partner likes to call me during the day at the office and say things he knows will push my boner button. I get even with him, however. There is a spot on his lower back that works like an electrical jolt to his johnson, so even when he is dressed and we are with others, it has the desired effect. :twisted:

Boners....ahh, so great to be male!
 
I don't understand the question.
I pretty much always get hard without touching myself, I mean doesn't everyone?
I understand cumming without touching, but getting hard?? :confused:
 
centraltyler said:
Yeah! I have a similar problem as sixthson, I have a pal that chats with me online while I am at work (yeah you know who you are [-X) and gets me all hot and bothered. Luckily it is a rather private environment, where I stay at my desk or he could cause me some serious trouble!
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Why do you think they invented desks? :D
 
Ya someone saying a few words can get me hard. and kissing is like an instant boner too
 
ok, clarification: can you get hard "on call" ?

I mean yes, boners happen. But when you want one can you get it ?
 
most of the time..unless im tired...I can come up with something...I take it you mean like when yer boyfriend is wanting to be fucked and maybe yer not quite as horny as he is or something?
 
gotdimples77 said:
I take it you mean like when yer boyfriend is wanting to be fucked and maybe yer not quite as horny as he is or something?
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not quite. When your boyfriend wants to be fucked, I assume in general you will touch yourself, etc. to get yourself hard, be you in the mood or not. I'm curious about getting hard without touching. I suppose you can avoid touch yourself in the boyfriend case. If so, I'm curious if you can get hard that way.

I tried this experiment -- I told my boyfriend to get me hard without him touching my dick. Anything else was fair game. He blindfolded me, got me outside, then tried role playing (~20 min) and then he put on porn(~40 min). After about an hour of this I was still soft... and annoyed. I don't know what was up. So I'm curious how this goes with others.
 
OutDude, .. that's a nice problem to have :) I seem to be on the other end. I want it hard a bit more often than it gets now.

I guess being hard all the time it can be burdensome after a while. I've heard of a guy who had it pretty bad .... And you really had to read the guy's note to understand it, as I won't describe it as well as he did. Can't find it now, but he came every time he took a nap, or slept anywhere. Every frigging time ! Just every frigging time. He couldn't even take a nap in the back of his parent's car without cumming.
 
I think this is actually a very good question and I've wondered about this before.

I tend to be one of those that gets hard very easily whenever I want, without anyone, myself included coming close to touching me - either touching my penis or any other part of me. But I think there are many guys who are the opposite - some need direct physical stimulation, and chrisdobro, you might be one of those guys.

I've known some guys that are as soft as bread until you touch them and then they are rock hard, but as soon as you stop touching their penis they get soft within seconds. They were young and healthy guys. I was a little surprised and asked this guy about it, he said, he's always been that way. So I think some guys are just that way. Everyone is different.

I can get hard whenever I want - no problem and I get very hard. But one thing I rarely do anymore (now that I'm almost 30) is get hard when I don't want to like at work, or when I'm doing other things. When I was younger like in high school and college I was hard almost all the time, now I have to use my mind to get hard - it used to be seemingly all the time
 
hard withOUT touching...damn...happens ALL the time...especially at almost every nap...and almost every morning...AND sometimes wakes me UP!!! About the nap thing...i gotta remember to be careful cause one time someone was at the door, the doorbell woke me, and i walked over to the door and almost opened it with a FULL BONER!!! Lucky for me I noticed (cause it was rubbing against my shorts) and i stopped to let it subside!!!)...
 
the worst thing is when I get hard on a bus to my work... I am afraid to stand up :-) otherwise, just put a hot man next to me. When his lips near mine and you can feel the electricity in the air... my dick is really at his attention :-)
 
I never wake up hard anymore - and I miss it, but I always used to, but over the past few years - never.
 
UC3543 said:
some need direct physical stimulation, and chrisdobro, you might be one of those guys.
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Yeah, I guess that's me ... I get hard fine with direct stimulation.

this caused me some issues however during various sexual encounters.
guys wondering why I'm not hard yet, guys wondering if I liked them (I did !),
guys almost directly asking "what's going on there ? " (which is not the best question to ask btw as it's not helping.) Some guys were great though. If it's not hard, just get it hard directly. I think that comes with experience though as guys who were more experienced did that.

What's more however, it caused some issues with me. Like what the heck is going on ? Why are they hard and me not ? I even tried Viagra once and it didn't quite help with getting hard. Once I got hard I stayed hard, but it didn't just get up by itself.

Once I'm hard, I usually stay hard for some time afterwards, provided I didn't cum and depending on how deeply my mind is engaged.
 
Kayjay3298 said:
hard withOUT touching...damn...happens ALL the time...especially at almost every nap...and almost every morning...AND sometimes wakes me UP!!! About the nap thing...i gotta remember to be careful cause one time someone was at the door, the doorbell woke me, and i walked over to the door and almost opened it with a FULL BONER!!! Lucky for me I noticed (cause it was rubbing against my shorts) and i stopped to let it subside!!!)...
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i forgot to mention that WHEN i wake up hard in the morning or after a nap...OH...the stickyness of the situation...like someone said on here..."it can get pretty messy especially if wearing boxers...!"...I don't have 'wet dreams' but the pipes get all lubed up...

any one else experience this?

(!)
 
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