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Can you have sex without a relationship?

Anonymous, sex can be enjoyable. As long as you play safe! I wouldn't want an open relationship, but seeing as I am single now the occasional anonymous sex is not hurting anyone.
 
Yes, I do every week, but I wish a relationship were there.
 
I certainly had lots of anonymous sex before my boyfriend - in fact he was the first person I ever had sex with whose name I knew.

It's kind of exciting on one hand, but ultimately I found it very degrading.
 
it can be done... but i definitly want a relationship with my first at least... after wards it depends on my experience with my first... i have turned down sex before because i am kinda picky about whom i want to be my first
 
The no-strings thing has never appealed to me because I get too attached too easily.
 
slobone said:
OK, so then it's not true that the only time that you have sex is when you're in a monogamous relationship.

That's what I thought. I just didn't see how it would work the other way.

So what you're doing isn't that different from what gay people have always done. You meet a guy, you hit it off, you have sex, if you both enjoyed it you do it again, and after a few times you have to decide whether to continue the relationship or move on.

And, I hate to say this, but unless you're one of those rare people who's found his soulmate, in which case God bless you, a relationship is only monogamous until it isn't. Sooner or later one of you is going to get tired of the other one and either start cheating or break up. Again, not that different from the way it's always worked.
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Well I think what people are saying (myself included) is that a "relationship" is someone you know and you've dated a couple times, or maybe you go at it on the first date but you already know the person from work or a hobby or something.

And even though it's a budding relationship (and not marriage or anything), it is monogamous while it lasts. And it would end by ending the relationship and sex at the same time; not cheating and then ending the relationship when caught.

At least that's how I look at it.
 
I've done it, but you need to have a specific kind of relationship with the person where you're both comfortable and would never consider a romantic relationship with one another.
 
The BEST sex I've ever had has been anonymous sex (but also some of the worst).
I once had sex with five guys in the woods by charles river parkway, one sucking my dick, one eating my ass, one on each nipple, and one kissing my neck. That blew my mind.
Don't get me wrong, sex with someone you love is hot, but it doesn't have that illicit thrill.
 
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