can't figure out this situation.

[thephoenix]

.if feel like this is a good thing, why do I also feel like things are such a mess?

It's your ego trying to protect itself. You are worried he's going to reject you. Which he's likely not to if he is trying to get to know you.

Take it one day at a time. Shoot him a short e-mail every other day or so. Something that doesn't require a whole lot of effort, but keeps you in his mind. Mention something about getting together before winter break. Let him know that you're busy and know that he is busy, but you'd like to keep seeing him and would like to see more of him after the holidays cool down.

 

[Homoerectus]

Grab lunch or coffee together. Everyone has to have a break from studying. Make time for one another but talk it over and set a time limit. If you would rather have sex than a snack, then do sex.

 

[8tomtoms8]

I think your assessment of his concerns with a bi guy are pretty accurate. If you really like him, I would talk openly to him about the Bi thing. I feel the only way a relationship works with a bisexual is to be in a committed relationship with only ONE person. Just because you are bi doesn't give you the freedom to cheat. If he's worth a relationship, then there won't be any girls for a while.

 

[rareboy]

What everyone else has said.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Time is working against you.

Do not allow your possible future relationship to be dissolved in reciprocal indecisiveness of both of you...

How about going home one for the winter break one day later and spending that day and night together. Ya know, catching up, rompin' in the hay together and all that.

If you part on that note, chances are that you'll look forward to getting together again and picking it up again.

At this stage, impressions are still more important than the actual substance and the deeds involved.

SC

 

[thephoenix]

Time is working against you.

Do not allow your possible future relationship to be dissolved in reciprocal indecisiveness of both of you...

How about going home one for the winter break one day later and spending that day and night together. Ya know, catching up, rompin' in the hay together and all that.

If you part on that note, chances are that you'll look forward to getting together again and picking it up again.

At this stage, impressions are still more important than the actual substance and the deeds involved.

SC

This is a good idea

 

[jaydizzo]

Time is working against you.

Do not allow your possible future relationship to be dissolved in reciprocal indecisiveness of both of you...

How about going home one for the winter break one day later and spending that day and night together. Ya know, catching up, rompin' in the hay together and all that.

If you part on that note, chances are that you'll look forward to getting together again and picking it up again.

At this stage, impressions are still more important than the actual substance and the deeds involved.

SC

ditto excellent idea