Can't find my prostate

[oakpope]

Hello Jubbers,

I have a problem. I can't seem to find my prostate. I tried many things to find the spot : fingers, in various positions, trying to aim towards the pubic bone, various plugs of different size, with Dildo of different lengths and different widths, to no avail. I have never been able to find the walnut size gland. Anal stimulation is pleasant for me, stimulation of the anus nerves and the filling of fullness is good, but I can't say it's better than a good massage of any muscle. I'm getting a little frustrated not being able to spot the spot
Also I'm afraid of being too large in the rectum and maybe anus. I am able to go without any lube most of the time and for large things less than a walnut of lube is enough. And once the 2 sphincters are passed, it's as in butter, all length can go at once without feeling or resistance.

Could someone help me to find that damn prostate, please ?

Thank you !

PS : I read and watch numerous webs sites already, I know where it is supposed to be, but no luck with me or maybe I am not able to sense it ? Is it possible ?

 

[Benvolio]

Bend over a table. Ask a gay friend to insert his index finger all the way in and push down. That is the prostate. Should feel soft like a pillow. Not sure anyone can do it to himself. If part is firm or if he feels a bump or lump, you should see a Doctor.

 

[oakpope]

Alas I don't have access to such commodity as a gay friend.

 

[oakpope]

Than you TopherGF, but as I wrote, I knoww where it's supposed to be. Problem is, I have never been able to locate it by myself (fingers, Dildo plugs, etc). Or maybe I'm insensitive there, don't know if that exists

 

[Fuzzy1]

Try masturbating until you are close to ejaculation then put your finger in your anus, you should be able to feel it tensing up and pumping leading up to and during the ejaculation.

 

[panda29]

You can go to a urologist and have a prostate exam done ?

 

[KaraBulut]

...I have never been able to find the walnut size gland...
Also I'm afraid of being too large in the rectum and maybe anus....

PS : I read and watch numerous webs sites already, I know where it is supposed to be, but no luck with me or maybe I am not able to sense it ? Is it possible ?

Well, problem #1 is the "walnut sized gland". This is a reasonable explanation of its size but if you look at the All About Ass sticky or the picture that TopherGF posted, you'll notice that a) it's more like a donut that surrounds the bladder and b) what you're supposed to feel is like the side of the donut not the whole donut.

What does the prostate feel like? Put your the tip of tongue between the molars under your cheek. Now take your index finger and rub the tip of your tongue through your cheek. That's what it feels like- a bump underneath a layer of skin.

What does it feel like when the prostate is stimulated? Well, it varies from guy to guy. Most guys feel a sensation of pleasure that radiates to the tip of their penis or to their scrotum. But it's not like a magic pleasure button, it's more like an amplifier of what is already going on. So, if you're getting fucked, the pleasure of getting fucked is amplified. If you're jacking off, the pleasure of jacking off is amplified. While some guys do reach a point where prostate milking or using a prostate stimulator is in itself pleasurable, for most guys stimulation of the prostate is just more like icing on cake.

 

[Kyle3000]

I don't get much pleasure from it

 

[cocksucker4use]

Have you jerked off with a Dildo up your ass. Like start playing with your dick, get it hard and get into jackin pretty good...even rubbin your hole should feel pretty good....with lotsa lube, insert whatever kinda Dildo you can accommodate, but at least a 6 in one, to give some room to search around. It should feel pretty great....when you're gettin close to shooting, your prostate will be swollen and firm and pretty easy to locate....If you have tried this, etc., mention it to your doc...do you make pre-cum?