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Can't give head

Caper_SA

Caper_SA

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So, I've been going with this guy for the last 4 months. Over this time I've only gone down on him maybe 3 to 4 times. But twice so far while doing it my jaw has come unhinged and dislocated, so I had to head to the hospital to get put under anesthesia to get it cracked back into place. Apparently my jaw is poorly connected to my skull, which explains why my mouth can open so big :P, but ya, my boyfriend doesn't seem to understand why I don't want to give him head, and he's always trying to make me do it, I tell him no and he gets whiney and pissy. Do you guys think he is a lost cause or not? I don't know how to make it any more clear I can't physically give him head safely. Its just unneeded stress.
 
I wonder if he is really your boyfriend. If he really cares for you, he should understand what you have been going through to make him happy. I think your boyfriend is a lost cause because he seems to be focused just on himself. Does he satisfy what you want in a boyfriend?
 
You've gone to the hospital twice and the guy doesn't understand---dtmfa.
 
While his attitude leaves a lot to be desired, for your own well being now and in the future, you may want to address the problem with your jaw. I'm no doctor but it seems there may be a medical solution . . . it's worth looking into.
 
i think hes a lost cause..

he should've figured it out the first time you went to the hospital.
 
Caper_SA said:
So, I've been going with this guy for the last 4 months. Over this time I've only gone down on him maybe 3 to 4 times. But twice so far while doing it my jaw has come unhinged and dislocated, so I had to head to the hospital to get put under anesthesia to get it cracked back into place. Apparently my jaw is poorly connected to my skull, which explains why my mouth can open so big :P, but ya, my boyfriend doesn't seem to understand why I don't want to give him head, and he's always trying to make me do it, I tell him no and he gets whiney and pissy. Do you guys think he is a lost cause or not? I don't know how to make it any more clear I can't physically give him head safely. Its just unneeded stress.
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that's the funniest thing i have read so far.:rotflmao:


anyway why do u need to open ur mouth so big? maybe just licking & kissing his cock is good enough.
 
Telstra said:
that's the funniest thing i have read so far.:rotflmao:


anyway why do u need to open ur mouth so big? maybe just licking & kissing his cock is good enough.
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EXCUSE ME!!!! NO!!!

You have a fucking medical problem that you cannot fucking change. If he cant sacrifice his monetary pleasure for your well being then you really need to get away from him as fast as you can.

I mean since your putting up with this, wont you let him rape you in the ass when you have a giant hemmoroid? I mean he needs his sex right?

NO matter gay or straight, man or woman, a twat is a twat.:mad:
 
Dude,
If you can't open wide (LOL) Give him a 50% Hand job & 50% blowjob. Basically jerk him off while you lick and suck the head. He'll love it. Unless he's an asshole. Then you should give him "The Finger" & find someone that deserves your attention.
 
sorry i didn't mean to laugh at people's pain but i have to.

if u can't open your mouth big , then don't. handjob and kissing dick is still good. :)
 
don't worry about laughing at the jaw thing, i laugh at it all the time, i mean, i'm not even supposed to chew gum! lol
 
There is so much you can do with your tongue and your lips while barely opening your mouth.

I think this is a communication issue.

I think any guy would want his bf to suck his cock--I mean, who wouldn't. But you've got a problem (how serious is it?). So compromise. Let him know you want to please him, but in a different way. Use your hands, your tongue, your lips (soft and/or firm) to go up and down his cock and around the head without taking him into your mouth.

You can't just sit there and say "I can't do that." You have to compromise, too.
 
volcom1206 said:
There are various ways in which you can give head that won't make your jaw pop out like that. My personal favorite is to jack him off with your hand and to move along with your hand with your mouth. Swivle your tongue around as you go up and down. This should be less strenous on your mouth.

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can u describe in more details please and how he would cum and the joy of ejeculations and etc. :p
 
Caper_SA said:
don't worry about laughing at the jaw thing, i laugh at it all the time, i mean, i'm not even supposed to chew gum! lol
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Caper, what did you tell the people at the hospital? How do you explain away the given situation?:D
 
hahah ummm first time I told them it was yawning, second time it was chewing gum because i remembered them telling me not to do that so i figured it would work as an excuse haha
 
Caper_SA said:
hahah ummm first time I told them it was yawning, second time it was chewing gum because i remembered them telling me not to do that so i figured it would work as an excuse haha
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i would love to see their facial expressions if you tells them the truth. :-)
 
Caper_SA said:
don't worry about laughing at the jaw thing, i laugh at it all the time, i mean, i'm not even supposed to chew gum! lol
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Dang.
There's got to be something that can be done, medically. OTOH, it could be spendy.


If you have to go to the hospital again, tell them it was

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Caper_SA said:
hahah ummm first time I told them it was yawning, second time it was chewing gum because i remembered them telling me not to do that so i figured it would work as an excuse haha
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It's just like any other limitations you as a human will have at any given time. If you bottom, sometimes your digestive system isn't going to be receptive to such "loving".

I blew out a disc in my neck giving my b/f a b/j. So, my ability these days to give blowjobs is severely reduced. My b/j's these days are 35% b/j's and 65% handjobs. It is what it is. It is a limitation to your sexual ability. Find a work-around.

My guess is your b/f is more "horny" for action that he can lay back and enjoy more so than oral sex in of itself. Perhaps it is his way of asking for more sex.
 
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