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Cant keep it hard....HELP

Old thread but...

Probably a case of performance anxiety coupled with copious amounts of booze and frequent masturbation.

Don't drink and jerk for a while. Get to know the guy and feel comfortable. One night stands might not be the best if you are nervous.

Medically, as stated before: prescription or non prescription/recreational meds, testosterone levels, blood sugar, blood pressure...

Or sadly, like X number of males worldwide, you could be developing a mild form of ED. Nothing to be ashamed about. I have it and need Cialis. !oops!
 
useful comments, thanks ndavis. i may have a mild form of ED i didnt realise one could get it at a young age too but anxiety and embarrassment must have a lot to do with it.
 
What ages are we talking?

EDIT: Sorry thought OP was replying...

I'm 33 and it stared a number of years ago and has progressively gotten worse. I only brought it up recently with my Dr and things have been looking up. Not rock hard with a light breeze like my husband, but better, much better. Still playing with dosages but at least there is 'some' meaningful usage down there.

Don't go with the medical option right away. It might be all in your head.

Also, depending on insurance, treatment will be expensive...
 
hey, im 35 and have had some difficulties for a while especially maintaining one in a long session. i like being sucked but after a while i lose sensitivity and find it difficult to keep it hard. the fact its small doen't help with self confidence i guess
 
Self confidence is huge. No pun intended. If you are with someone who likes/loves you for you and is fine with what is in your pants, and you realize that you won't be judged, things may spring to life. Size Queens need not apply.
 
Maybe you are in denial and having difficulty coming to terms with your latent heterosexuality.
 
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