cant stop thinking about my "straight" friend.

[denvermax]

the past 4 days have been insane. we pretty much took it to the next level and we've done everything except anal. We've messed around in the morning and night for the past 4 days. he still claims to be straight but just really "confused". I've jerked and sucked him off but he never really cums until he jacks himself off. He's done the same for me but i really dont get off on the blowjobs. He says he cant cum when a guy blows or jacks him off and keeps mentioning that he likes girls and then 5 minutes later, he'll be down there sucking me off. I'm pretty sure he's gay but just in denial, no straight guy is willing to suck another guy off and make out with him. Most of the time, I'm initiating most of the things and he claims to go along with it because hes a good friend and wants to make me happy. Everytime we're done messing around we would both agree to never do it again and in less than 12 hours, it happens again. I mean, I'm really into him but I'm not sure if he's into me. What happens, happens I guess. I just want to thank everyone for their replies, I would not have been so brave otherwise.

 

[G-Lexington]

Straight guys don't go down on their friends. Not even to "help". Your friend is gayer than Cheesman Park after dark.

I'm assuming if he keeps claiming "straight", you've had to claim gay. Yes?

Lex

 

[Kyanimal]

O.K. Here's the "deal" ...

Through my various observations/experiences, and general "knowledge gathering", I've come to realize that no matter what someone says/does, or even thinks about, NOTHING is going to change their sexual "orientation"! They're either MAINLY "into" Guys or Girls! WHATEVER they might agree to do/get involved in, whether out of curiosity, or any other motivation, their particular "button pushers" are going to remain the same! It's simply the way they are "wired"!

So ... basically ... screw the Labels!! YES! Str8 Guys can suck dick, and even agree to get fucked, "butt" they are, and always will be, Str8! And Gay Guys, no matter what they may be lucky enough to do with Girls, will still be Gay! (Like ME!) In other words ... as far as I'm concerned ... EVERYONE is "Bi"!! Or ... to put it in another way ... Sexual!!

The Important things are Respect and Consideration! Do whatever/whoever it is You will "DO", or what they will allow, no matter what You wish to "Call" IT! If a Guy wants to consider himself Str8, while He's blowing You, by all means let Him, and Honor that!

The MAIN thing is ... ACCEPT Him for who He is/wants to be ... with NO judgment calls! Simply ENJOY!!

If You insist on Labeling Him, or coercing Him into Your own, set, expectations, then You may as well, also, Label Him "Gone"!!

Guys, in general, approach Sex as "Sport"! It doesn't have to MEAN Anything! It's just FUN!!

So ... Relax! ... and, have FUN!!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[wred222000]

Kyanimal brings up good points. I think we are all wrapped up in finding some label for this guy or whoever to make us feel good or to justify whatever we did.

In the scheme of all things people ARE just sexual and however they want to get off is up to them. But how they label themselves is another story.

I can't imagine how confused and/or frustrated you feel about this situation. I think what makes it even more difficult is maybe realizing that this relationship is purely sexual, when in your mind set you were hoping that this could be an ACTUAL relationship. I'm not saying it can't, but I think he needs to be true to himself first before anything can happen. And only he can do that.

 

[Kyanimal]

Kyanimal brings up good points. I think we are all wrapped up in finding some label for this guy or whoever to make us feel good or to justify whatever we did.

In the scheme of all things people ARE just sexual and however they want to get off is up to them. But how they label themselves is another story.

I can't imagine how confused and/or frustrated you feel about this situation. I think what makes it even more difficult is maybe realizing that this relationship is purely sexual, when in your mind set you were hoping that this could be an ACTUAL relationship. I'm not saying it can't, but I think he needs to be true to himself first before anything can happen. And only he can do that.

Well put! This goes to the "Respect and Consideration" Part!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz