Catching guys jerking off

[boreddude6969]

Hey guys new here. Mostly curious but I have seen videos where dudes are jerking off in bathroom stalls or gym showers. I really do not want to "cruise" as that makes me nervous haha but would be hot to stroke next to someone in a stall or maybe across from someone at the gym shower. Not sure how or where this even happens. Any pointers?

 

[rareboy]

Welcome to JUB!

It does happen, but more and more rarely than back when I was in my youth.

I actually did walk in on a guy rubbing one out in a mall bathroom a couple of years ago...although I don't think he was interested in an audience.

Gyms are a lot more careful now and most will discourage any sexual activity in the change rooms or showers.

The only pointers I can think of if you are in a city with a large lgbtq community is to check out online where the best cruising activity is found around public washrooms or gyms in your area and go from there. But be prepared to not find the hot scenes from a porno.

 

[boreddude6969]

Thanks and that makes total sense. Was the guy at the mall in a stall? Was it fairly obvious? I always hear about home depot being a place lol

 

[Dominus]

Gym rat here. I go to the gym 5-6 times a week. Been a gym nut for years. Have never seen any sign of sex, masturbation, or even dudes cruising. Most people who go the gym are there to better themselves and most of the time are lost in their own thoughts as they work on themselves. The closest thing to what you described I have seen was when I was spotting a guy and that guy spotted me. We talked, went to the locker room to change together while we kept on talking, and somehow I ended up in his apartment after we left the gym. Ended up dating that guy for over a year. But this was many years ago. And before we left the gym together we never even mentioned anything sexual.

The porno where 2 dudes saw each other in the locker room and just started having sex is pure fantasy. Don't believe that actually happens in real life.

 

[m1thousand]

I dont understand how you can fool around with a guy in the stall next to you. Do you put your face down by the floor to put your face into the other stall? I dont get it. The handicapped stall makes more sense as long someone isnt wanting to use it

With that said, I think it is risky. What if you get caught by security . . . (remember George Michael and the cop?) . . . you could get arrested for indecent exposure. You broke a law. You have to go to court. And get penalized. Its just not worth it, in my opinion.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

there are apps that cater to this, you can link with someone who likes the same thing, pick a safe location and have a field day. i forget which one but either grindr or jakd allows you to search profiles by hashtag for example you'd wanna look for #anon (anonymous) or #gloryhole (same idea) there's guys who don't even wanna know your name or see a face pic they just want a time and location to hook up.

 

[boreddude6969]

Like my post said I am not looking to fool around or expose myself. More of a just jerking next to some one I also know is doing it in their stall. I was more curious if that ever happens and where.

 

[m1thousand]

couldnt you go to a adult video store (I havent been there), or the baths (Ive been there)

 

[rareboy]

When I was in my 20's, our apartment building gym and sauna was such a great hook-up place.

Pre-AIDS btw.

But everything changes.

The last time I thought there was a chance was when I was in Montreal for a conference and there was a guy in the Hotel sauna that was clearly just aching to be part of a scene.

But his (str8t) buddy was having none of it. He just wanted to go back to their room and likely have him for himself.

Homos are no longer reckless libertines. Apps and acceptance have made us almost like straight people looking for random sex.

 

[nycguydowntown]

Gym rat here. I go to the gym 5-6 times a week. Been a gym nut for years. Have never seen any sign of sex, masturbation, or even dudes cruising. Most people who go the gym are there to better themselves and most of the time are lost in their own thoughts as they work on themselves. The closest thing to what you described I have seen was when I was spotting a guy and that guy spotted me. We talked, went to the locker room to change together while we kept on talking, and somehow I ended up in his apartment after we left the gym. Ended up dating that guy for over a year. But this was many years ago. And before we left the gym together we never even mentioned anything sexual.

move to NYC or LA or any major city gym ---you will see it in any steam or sauna---and some really hot young dudes doing it---but not in stalls.

The porno where 2 dudes saw each other in the locker room and just started having sex is pure fantasy. Don't believe that actually happens in real life.

move to NYC or LA or any major city gym ---you will see it in any steam or sauna---and some really hot young dudes doing it---but not in stalls.

 

[DepravedMuscleFTL]

yeah - I don't know where you guyz live but I have never NOT seen or engaged in sex while at the gym (showers - sauna) it happens very frequently if you live in a gay city - the only thing that deminishes the opportunity is that it is TO cruisy/crowded to afford any privacy - it is not as blatant as a bath house so discretion is necessary - but you cut the sexual tension with a knife

 

[ShadowCat]

In the days of the towel dance in the locker room shower stalls and shower curtains something like this is increasingly less and less likely to occur! Does it happen sure often no! Best chance of this would probably be a bath house and arrange a meeting with a bud off an app and discuss what youre looking to do and how to go about it!

 

[boreddude6969]

One thing I notice at my gym is that some guys will leave the shower curtain partially open. The showers are staggered and the last two are right across form each other. Not sure if that is them wanting someone to look or just a random thing

 

[rareboy]

Well...it shouldn't take long to figure out if one of the guys in the shower has a hard-on.

 

[boreddude6969]

So I must have the worst timing but I was showering and as I finished someone took the stall across from me, and left the curtain open about 12inches or so on one side. I don't wanna be a creep and stare but the way the showers are the area with the curtain is where you can get dressed and maybe hang a towel. Then the shower is like a little off to the side, so the actual shower part is not exposed behind the curtain but where you put your towel and soap and stuff is. I feel like when someone cracks their curtain they want to be watched as they soap up or get undressed / dressed. Maybe I am crazy but I would not crack the curtain unless I wanted to be seen lol. Once again before someone says it's risky to get it on in a gym - I am not looking for that. It's more of a voyeuristic thing and seems like I am more aware of dudes that leave the curtains cracked etc.

 

[Kahaih]

No matter how good the ventilation system, there is always an issue with steam.

There might even be a lighting issue.

And, too, some people have seen the movie 'Psycho'.

 

[NotHardUp1]

One of the consequences of gay liberation is the exaggerated claims to the prevalence of homosexual numbers, relative to the heterosexual population.

This has resulted, along with bad cinema and bad religion, in a paranoia by straight men at being the unwilling subjects of gay scintillation by probing gay men's eyes. It is made many times worse by gay porn which uses the trope excessively since it feeds into the fantasies of underaged teens and isolated gays who see forbidden fruit all around them.

If one thinks about it, bathing suits and athletic shorts were much more revealing of legs and thighs up through the 1980's, but then marched back down the knee in most of the West as male modesty reacted to the gay scare. Not science, but an obvious example. It wasn't because clothiers suddenly felt the need to spend more money on more fabric.