caught my friend...so AWKWARD!

[dude89young]

So today I went round to a friend's place. Knocked on the door...nothing. Went round side of the house, looked in the window....and there is my friend with his cock and balls out in full view. I think he was just finishing up. It was soooooo incredibly awkward.

Hahaha the worst part was that I looked in the window and saw him and didn't realise at first what was happening...and I was about to say something like "why aren't you answering the door?" and then I saw where his hands were, and what else was going on....and I sort of froze and then was like "Ohh. God. Damn. Shit." and just went back to the front door.

I couldn't leave either cause we actually had stuff we were supposed to be doing that afternoon. When he finally came to the door he was like looking at the ground and said something like "Ah man, thanks for making this the most embarrassing moment ever." And then I tried to be funny and said "I think its time you got some blinds for the windows."

Then he was awkward for a while and wouldn't look me in the face! Neither of us said anything more about it...lol.

I feel really embarrassed for him, just cause its an awkward thing to have happen and he is one of the most genuinely nice people I know. BUT I also think its kinda cool cause I have had a massive crush on him for ages and now I've seen pretty much everything...lol. Nothing will ever happen, because he is straight as far as I know.

I have to see him again tomorrow, and then obviously we are friends so we will keep on seeing eachother. I didn't say anything today, but I think I should just say something like some passing joke or be like "ummm, listen, dw about yesterday- it happens to the best of us." Just so there isn't this awkward silence about it...

Any advice?
cya

 

[daddybear1961]

Tell him that you have a confession to make. What happened the other day is no big thing because to tell you the truth I do that all the time too. Just can't seem to get enough. in fact I'm so fucking horny right now I'm thinking seriously about renting a porn and doing it right now. Want to join me? If he's a real friend he'll not gross out or anything and who knows he may take you up on it.

 

[anchihiro]

I think laughter is the best medicine here.

When he answered the door I would have laughed my head off, I wouldn't get embarrassed if I caught someone I'd just think it was funny. When you can learn to have a laugh about it, so will he. x

 

[palemale]

Tell him it was no big deal and you feel bad that he feels awkward and embarrassed around you. Tell him you like to jerk off sometimes and that you'll jerk off in front of him so he won't feel awkward about it anymore.

 

[HunterM]

Explain to him...it's like farting. Can't avoid it, we all do it. It's natural Hopefully that will make him laugh. Like the suggestion above to "jerk off in front of him" so he won't feel awkward

 

[texan_slant]

At this point, let it go and move on.
everyone does it!

 

[AlmondMilk]

I think laughter is the best medicine here.

When he answered the door I would have laughed my head off, I wouldn't get embarrassed if I caught someone I'd just think it was funny. When you can learn to have a laugh about it, so will he. x

Agreed.

You don't really have to bring the whole situation up to "talk about it." I think even ignoring it would be fine. I think bringing it up again might result in more awkwardness. The fact that you still talk to him and treat him regularly is enough to make him know that you're still friends...I think..

 

[asianb]

Agreed.

You don't really have to bring the whole situation up to "talk about it." I think even ignoring it would be fine. I think bringing it up again might result in more awkwardness. The fact that you still talk to him and treat him regularly is enough to make him know that you're still friends...I think..

I agree. Forget about it. The two of you can laugh about it later over drinks.

 

[Eagle653]

Don't bring it up again, unless HE does. He was embarrassed and the last thing he wants is you bringing up this sore subject again--and worst yet, trying to be cute or funny or making jokes about it. That would be as irritating as it would be a bore.

Just drop it and go on and pretend like nothing happened. He'll appreciate that move more than you can know!

 

[braex27]

Laugh about it, then drop it and never ever mention it again. Haha.

 

[JNewYork]

This has very erotic possibilities for you.

How about the next time he comes over let him catch you jerking off and laugh and say, Now we're even, nothing for each of us to be ashamed about. We both wank off.

After that you might be jerking off together.

 

[mbamike]

Since you invaded your friend's privacy by peaking in his bedroom window, you should invite your friend to watch you jack off sometime. This will put you both on the same level again.

If he declines the offer, the issue is solved; move on with your friendship.

If he accepts the offer, hope like hell you don't get performance anxiety.

 

[phorptical]

You should just randomly one day say..."hahahah I saw you beatin' it". Lol nah I am only kidding. Just forget about it and move on. No need to comment. Lol

 

[evanrick]

well.what did it look like? is he huge? shaved? what? ^ and thats a hot chest btw omg ^

 

[boxerdudeuk]

hahaha about 7 years ago my buddy lived with me in my condo and he had a fuck buddy (girl) who he'd see now and again.. he told me he was going to her place and wouldn't be home until morning...

fast forward to a few hours later and when the mood struck i decided "why use the computer when the big screen is in the living room?"... so there i was, beating off and almost ready to finish off when the front door opened to a plain view of the couch and me stroking my cock.

needless to say it was momentarily awkward but we both laughed it off. we're pretty tight so there was no genuine weirdness, just him making fun of me and me always replying "WHAT PART OF "I'LL SEE YOU TOMORROW" WAS UNCLEAR???".

a couple months later i got back at him by putting a video camera above the computer in the den where he would jerk it and when i checked the tape a couple days later and had "the event" on tape, i put it in the VCR with a note that said "play me". he did. we both had a good laugh over it as he busted the tape. LOL

 

[iowadude52402]

i agree... Just let it go and move on. Why ruin a friendship? If he's bi or gay and he feels something for you (whether some itch that needs some scratching or whatever) then something would happen.

For now, just enjoy his company...

 

[JNewYork]

"a couple months later i got back at him by putting a video camera above the computer in the den where he would jerk it and when i checked the tape a couple days later and had "the event" on tape, i put it in the VCR with a note that said "play me". he did. we both had a good laugh over it as he busted the tape. LOL"

This is not something to laugh over at all. You seriously, creepily--and CRIMINALLY--invaded his privacy. Creepy. Not "LOL" at all.

 

[syoBsUtsuJ]

I've inadvertently walked in on and/or caught a few of my friends having their way with themselves; sure, it was awkward for them, but I just made ONE joke about it and never spoke of it again. It's not like we don't jack ourselves, if not daily. I know how I'd feel if someone caught me; so always do onto others, as you would have them do on to you.

 

[sweetcar]

Not quite the same situation, but a bit awkward as well. A few times I've gone to a friends house, knocked on the door and he either he said to come in or someone opened the door for me and announced I was there.

He'd be upstairs in his room (which he usually when I come over) and I'd just walk on up and into his room. A couple of times, he'd be sitting on his bed watching TV or drinking a beer in his underwear. First couple of times I felt a bit embarassed and worried that I'd invaded his privacy. I'd ask him if he wanted me to wait for him downstairs. He always so no, it's OK. He'd finish whatever he was doing and we'd be talking all the time and he'd go ahead and finish getting dressed. Now, we've been good friends for years and I'm sure he's straight and NOT sending me any signals. Just comfortable enough around me that's he feels its not a big deal (which I appreciate).

The last time I went over there, one of our friends answered the door, announched that I was there and headed up the stairs to his room with me following him. He was standing there with a towel wrapped around him and said he'd just come out of the shower (which was true). While we were talking he went ahead and took off the towel (at which point he was naked) put his underwear on and then got dressed after a few minutes.

Of course, at first its a bit awakward since you're not expecting to see him like that. Then, I'm never sure if I should go ahead and look at him or divert my eyes while he gets dressed. Either way, it's never a big deal, just interesting.

 

[Lefty]

If he brings it up..." no problem...just keep your farts to yourself okay"

Otherwise...let it go..its blowing in the wind.