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Celibacy.
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swerve
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jasoncrew03
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My husband works abroad two months out of the year. So for a month, twice a year, I'm celibate.
Now is one of those times. And it fucking sucks.
Now is one of those times. And it fucking sucks.
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Based on the type above your avatar -- I'll presume that was a joke...
But it's not.
As I said, in a city like Granada is not a big effort. The effort is trying to find sexual partners.
MuscleLatino
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Why do you say 'people in their right mind wouldn't want to have sex with you more than once'? What does that mean exactly? It doesn't seem like a very nice thing to say about yourself.
But I understand some of your points. I mean, sex can be awkward. It can end up being a disaster, and sometimes it can ruin your night and you think 'why did I agree to this in the first place?' but it can also be freakin incredible. I know it can feel like more trouble than it's worth sometimes, and for some people it honestly can be, so if that's something you've decided to do...to not have sex... you should feel good about that choice, but also know that if you feel you're not done having great sex with people, that there have got to be more people out there compatible with you sexually who can make you feel good. Don't give up bud
But I understand some of your points. I mean, sex can be awkward. It can end up being a disaster, and sometimes it can ruin your night and you think 'why did I agree to this in the first place?' but it can also be freakin incredible. I know it can feel like more trouble than it's worth sometimes, and for some people it honestly can be, so if that's something you've decided to do...to not have sex... you should feel good about that choice, but also know that if you feel you're not done having great sex with people, that there have got to be more people out there compatible with you sexually who can make you feel good. Don't give up bud
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There are different degrees of celibacy, I am told.
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refujiunderground
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off topic but celibacy sounds like it would be a good name for a girl.
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dpnice
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I made the choice of stopping cruising (we didn't have apps in those days) when I was 50yrs old as it seemed really rather tacky to be out every night looking for sex at that age.
Consequently I have not had sex since then but would not say I am celibate as if by some miracle the opportunity presented itself then I certainly wouldn't say no.
I personally don't think it is a good idea to purposely give up sex but do understand that the mechanics of searching for it can become tiresome and tedious. Casual sex can be both exciting as well as disappointing but if one is not in a relationship then there really are only those two solutions; no sex or go out looking for it.
Consequently I have not had sex since then but would not say I am celibate as if by some miracle the opportunity presented itself then I certainly wouldn't say no.
I personally don't think it is a good idea to purposely give up sex but do understand that the mechanics of searching for it can become tiresome and tedious. Casual sex can be both exciting as well as disappointing but if one is not in a relationship then there really are only those two solutions; no sex or go out looking for it.
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peeonme
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It's been perhaps 25 years since I have had sex with another person, my wife lost interest and tbh I was tired of it.
My hand never says no, not tonight, a phrase that is heard it would seem all to often in a marriage.
Along with this was the fact that I finally accepted the fact that I am gay and it was not going to change at about the point when the sex stopped, I can't / won't go outside of my marriage, so it looks like it's me and my computer for the long haul.
If I am regarded as celibate ( somehow I don't picture myself as such) it was not by design or choice, it's just how things worked out.
My hand never says no, not tonight, a phrase that is heard it would seem all to often in a marriage.
Along with this was the fact that I finally accepted the fact that I am gay and it was not going to change at about the point when the sex stopped, I can't / won't go outside of my marriage, so it looks like it's me and my computer for the long haul.
If I am regarded as celibate ( somehow I don't picture myself as such) it was not by design or choice, it's just how things worked out.
hylas
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Isn't there a middle ground "being constantly on the hunt for the next lay" and celibacy?
Ps: That middle ground is also known as "sanity".
Ps: That middle ground is also known as "sanity".
I figured I'd bump this thread because I am horny as FUCK and don't really want to do the casual sex/anonymous hookup thing right now, but I am pretty out of options. And it brought me back to wondering if blue balls are my new lifestyle.
You can always jerk off or fuck yourself with a toy...
Depends on what you want.
Saying that.. Yup, I have done the whole anonymous hookups. Sometimes I took time off from it.
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peeonme
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She has no idea that I am gay (well, she may wonder why I don't make a deal out of no sex) but please don't feel sorry for me, I enjoy my life and am quite happy, just accepting my sexuality after so many years lifted a heavy load.
People might wonder if a gay man can love a woman, in my case I have no doubt after 40 years of marriage that we love each other,
she has been my best friend and I hers.