Changing your look for a boyfriend

[HunterM]

^ I don't like the way you look, Ronboy.

Let me know when you're coming over

 

[dereperez]

I might change a little thing here or there if I agreed or like the way it would look, but nothing more than that. For example: I would not shave my head bald.

 

[Gravelord_Nito]

Love me for who I am or dont love me at all. If I change I do it for me and not for anyone else.

..l.. (-_-) ..l..

 

[Saybrooke]

Well, I was dating a guy that thought I'd look hot with black hair, so I dyed it. Not a big deal to me, cause I dye it black all the time anyways

I'm damn sexy with black hair

 

[Musik2400]

I've died my hair, gotten certain haircuts, done different things with my facial hair, and sometimes wear different clothes on the suggestion of my boyfriend. He's also grown his facial hair out (which he hates), shaved his head multiple times just for my amusement, and often times wants my input on what to wear. Neither of us changes the core of our look, just the presentation of it on any given day.

Nothing permanent, (although he did help push me towards getting my lip ring when I was still on the fence) but if we're going for hair cuts, we both always ask the other "what do you think would look good?" When we're going out we run our outfits by each other "for approval", when shaving we ask what the other person wants us to do... because neither of us cares, and we kinda like planning our look so that its as... arousing as possible for the other lolol!!

 

[pat grimshaw]

I'll change my look for the boyfriend if he insists upon it during the negotiations in the pre-nup.

 

[medic1]

If someone wanted me to do any of that, they can get to fuck.

^Ditto...............
Any changes should be made by yourself , though it is always best to "run it" past the BF , before doing anything too drastic...........

 

[LeicsDom]

How much of a physical transformation would you be willing to undergo to please a boyfriend? If he asked you to go blond, shave your head, shave off or grow facial hair, shave or wax all your body hair, remove tattoos and piercings (or get some!), would you indulge him? Would you worry that your relationship was based on superficial appearances and that he might be wanting you to fill some porn star fantasy of his, rather than being happy with you as you are?

No no no no
They fell for you as you are. Why would they want to change that?

 

[oakpope]

I wouldn't mind doing stuff that is reversible. Shaving or growing hair, coloring and so on. But never anything that is permanent.

That's exactly my thoughts on the matter.

 

[hylas]

i was thinking about what i would ask a hypothetical boyfriend to change about his looks... i think i might ask a brunette or dark blond guy to dye his hair lighter if he has the complexion to make it look natural. i just really like blondes

i actually asked my current regular to shave his back. he did, after some grumbling.

 

[mbamike]

I trimmed my fuck buddies pubes a few weeks ago. He never manscapes and I was getting entirely too many hairs in my mouth.

As Cityboy said, maybe something temporary.

 

[G-Lexington]

Lex

 

[Latimer]

My partner and I first met at the beach. We were both 24. He had (and still does) the most perfect square-cut pecs and six-pack abs, hair clipped to about 3/8"; he was handsome and smart to be sure, but what really sealed the deal were the pecs and abs. My chest and abs were shaved smooth that day, which he told me later had likewise sealed the deal for him. And the contrast between us was hot. Over the years we both cycle through shaved or clipped--I guess you'd say it's almost a fetish with us--but he consistently tells me the smoother the better and my default look is shaved chest and abs, forearms and legs and butthole. I swam competitively in high school and college, so shaving down is second nature, but I'd shave less if it weren't such a turn-on for him. A few nights ago we were about to fuck and he said he wanted to shave my pits and pubes, which I hadn't done in a while, particularly the pubes. But it was hot prelude to a hotter fuck.

We were both at the gym this afternoon, working out, although not together. As we were leaving, he told me that while I was doing pull-ups, pullovers and shoulder presses, he was watching me, and the sight of my defined and naked, sweat-glistened pits had turned him on so that he couldn't wait to get home, strip and fuck. It was...a great afternoon.

 

[kevbo]

If I liked the idea, I might try it out. Doesn't mean I'd stick with it if I didn't like it, though.

 

[justsimon]

I wouldn't make any drastic changes. I'm pretty set in my ways and rarely do anything I don't want to do (unless it's important). I used to keep my hair a bit shorter because my ex liked it better that way, but she would have never demanded (or even asked) that I do so.

If someone asked me to try and grow a beard I might consider it because it's something I've thought about doing. If someone asked me to lose or gain weight, I'd tell them to find someone else.

 

[JPGhost]

I had done that. It was quite satisfying for both of us and I got recurring call because of that. It's something that I proud to be able to pleasing people despite my other control freak demeanor, I actually know the language of service ^^ Im damn right doing my job.

But...you won't able to find real love from changing yourself...for being with someone you really like you gotta be yourself and piss the hell of him. If rltship goes steady without a wave for long period of time..just FYI, something wrong with either you or him.

If you never got pissed from your guys, that means you dont love him

 

[whitedavo]

I'd say so long as it's something I'm not insecure about.