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chasing the straight dude. caught him..kind of.

I'm not chastising or telling you what to do, so don't get bent or anything -- I just wanted to say to remember to completely respect this guy as you said you would in one of your previous posts. Sharing a picture of someone that you had a private, personal encounter with (and hope to have more) really is uncool, even if it doesn't directly identify him by a face shot.

I know I would be righteously pissed the fuck off if someone that I thought was being private with my identity and lifestyle had posted ANY kind of a picture of me on a forum board or had sent one or more to anyone else via email or PM.

Again, I'm just sayin, is all. Not yelling at you or telling you what you can or can not do. But remember dude, honesty and respect. Those are the two mainstays of ANY kind of friendship/relationship with anyone.

A lot of people see things on these boards, way more than you might realize. I know people who have gotten seriously hurt and had their lives damaged permanently because someone else online was shared info and imagery that was not theirs to share from the beginning.

Just think about it. If you care about this bro in even the slightest way, you'll keep everything but the telling of the anonymous encounters with him, to yourself.

It's a free world and you can do what you want. We all make our choices, but before you make bad ones, be sure about what you're doing is all I'm trying to say. We're talking about someone's secret life here.

Be cool brother, and keep having fun with your dude. ..|
 
^^^

Very sage advise! If you truly value his friendship you'll think twice before destroying it. Things have a habit of hitting you back, like Karma......

Craiger
 
This story is so hot, I'm pretty sure that in time, your 'str8' friend will open up even more.. do you have an update?
 
If it's one he's since had on his facebook, that doesn't seem invasive of his privacy in the slightest.
 
Tiny bit of an update: We actually havent seen each other since that last occasion. After a couple months he texted me and asked how I was. Then last week he texted me asking how I enjoyed the batman movie (knowing I would have gone to it). Chatted about that for a bit and that was it. Was actually just thinking about him last week which is what brought me back to the forum. This past saturday he drunk texted me and asked for some pics. so i sent him some and he jerked off. didnt get any pics in return like he kind of promised though. hopefully next time. basically he was drunk at 4am and told me he realizes hes a jerk by not texting much or even replying always when we are texting but hes not afraid to say hey to "the guy that made him semi-bi". then he texted me last night saying he wanted to go get some drinks and go dancing. as you know, each time we did that it ended up in us fooling around. unfortunately i had to decline being that i was at a friends without my car and worked early. im gonna see if he wants to do something this coming weekend though. ill let you know how it goes!
 
Thanks! for the update! We're always interested in hearing how you're doing, and not just with "that guy". ..|

Sounds like you certainly managed to 'peak' his interest! And, Yeah!, also sounds like he's looking to 'explore' some more with You! Next weekend could prove to be quite 'interesting', though I doubt you'll have to do all that much 'chasing'. (!) (!w!)

Wishing you all the Best! (group)

And, of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz :luv:

P.S.
I'm betting he'll have condoms, and lube around, this time! :badgrin:
 
Wow it has been a long time BUT i will be at his new apartment this Saturday. Update will come after :D
 
Can't wait to read about any update!! I read this story everytime I come across it and never fails to get me going...
 
It's all about control. Been down this road. This straight guy is not entirely honest with himself. He will mess with your head and feelings bad. He will make you out a creep. Best advise.. make him want it. 😉
If he really wants it let him come to you. Us gay guys gotta have some self respect. Would hate to know he used you and now acts weird around you afterwards.
 
RicanKicks said:
It's all about control. Been down this road. This straight guy is not entirely honest with himself. He will mess with your head and feelings bad. He will make you out a creep. Best advise.. make him want it. ��
If he really wants it let him come to you. Us gay guys gotta have some self respect. Would hate to know he used you and now acts weird around you afterwards.
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I've been there too. I've always made the other guy do the same things to me that I do to him. Straight guys always feel totally weirded out and guilty after but just don't react. More often than not, they approach me again in a few months.
 
ronboy said:
Not to burst your bubble, but the last time this guy posted anything at all, at JUB, was March 8, 2013.

It looks like we might never find out what ultimately happened...
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Damn! Read through this thread getting hard and hoping for a good result :(
Hopefully he still gets email notifications so might up date it
 
MattClaimer said:
Been there, almost done that. All I can say is just don't let your mind get ahead of the game. Are you sure you just want to have sex with him or do you think you have more feelings for him than just physical? I've been there too and dudes like that, who really aren't straight but also aren't open to saying they have any kind of attraction to other dudes, can fuck with your head, especially if you're getting stronger feelings for them.

Make sure you're just lusting after him and know you can walk away from it if you have to, or if he shuts you down or whatever. If you're not over-expecting things from the get-go, then you won't be let down or get your feelings hurt or hung up on him in the end.

I'd just try to remember going in if there's no commitment from his side and you think you might like him more than he likes you, you're going to get hurt -- so don't let it get that far for you unless you think there's a chance it could be more. Otherwise just get him in the bed or wherever and get your nuts and have fun with it at that level. Good luck bro, let us know what happens.
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Some very extremely good advice... I've been there once. Really I'm still hurting after almost 20 years. I still really miss my very cute straight buddy. I admit I allowed & opened myself up to being hurt. I still kinda wish that he would show back up someday. I still dream of him. :-(
 
knockmeupbaby1983 said:
Some very extremely good advice... I've been there once. Really I'm still hurting after almost 20 years. I still really miss my very cute straight buddy. I admit I allowed & opened myself up to being hurt. I still kinda wish that he would show back up someday. I still dream of him. :-(
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Btw he's a very yummy cute straight military boy... :-)
 
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