My other half likes attention and I do know that he likes to have a bit of a flirt. I think it boosts his confidence a little. He texts people, friends etc and obviously still gets attention for past guys.
We basically live together now and spend very few nights apart.
Anyway, I recently saw a text -I remembered the name and curiosity got the better of me. As it was an unusal name, this person was easy to locate on a dating site.
Nothing special and nothing to indicate he was after my fella. I then was looking at another site and noticed his picture (it's a site which only has explicit shots and videos) One of his videos is of him getting shagged by the guy holding the camera (it's clearly a cell phone vid and short in length)
You can't see the guys face but get a good clear view of his stomach, cock and legs. There appears to be a third guy there too but you only see his hand. The only audio is the groans of the person who texts my other half.
I'm 90% sure that its' my other half doing the filming. You can see the lower part of his top and it matches one he owns. His cock looks similar, same kind of curve on the right side and the body shape looks familiar.
Obviously I can't be 100% sure. I don't hear him, see his face etc. The only thing i have is the shape of his penis, legs and the top - oh and the fact I know he knows this guy from somewhere.
I'm trying to convince myself it's not him. He says he loves me loads, says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and gets very jealous if I indicate other people are after me, or if an ex has been in contact. He says if I ever cheat on him then he'd kill me (in a serious by jokey way)
To test it, I asked him if he'd ever worn a cock ring (i described the one in the clip) and also if he'd ever filmed himself - both answers were a yes. I managed to download the clip and the other day 'accidently' played it infront of him (I edited out the guys face). He didn't react and his face didn't change. He just said it was crap porn and he'd seen better. I carried on playing it, making comments and he said,after a few mins, just delete it (he assumed I was doing a massive clear out of my pc and I told him I couldn't recall where it'd come from) Oh and I joked it was me and he said it better not be as there wasn't protection being used.
Now, If that was you and your other half played a clip of you cheating, surely you'd recognise it straight away. Nobody knows your body better then yourself right? Even if you didn't admit it was you, you would be shocked to see it on your partners PC and that would be hard to hide. You'd freak wondering where they got it from, was it on the net? did it get sent to him? do they know? it would drive you nuts and would act a little differently around them. He didn't do any of the above. He just carried on totally as normal.
If it is him then he did it whilst we were together - fairly recently - within the last 2 months (that top was brought when we went shopping together)
Is there a chance that i'm just trying to find something that isn't there? A fairly blurry short clip could really be of any one. That top is hardly unusual and most guys have some curve in their penis. I can't see clearly how hairy the guys legs are which would help. I know He's not two timing me with another guy (in the relationship sense) and I find it hard to know when he'd get the time to be having random sex.
What the hell do I do? what would you think?
We basically live together now and spend very few nights apart.
Anyway, I recently saw a text -I remembered the name and curiosity got the better of me. As it was an unusal name, this person was easy to locate on a dating site.
Nothing special and nothing to indicate he was after my fella. I then was looking at another site and noticed his picture (it's a site which only has explicit shots and videos) One of his videos is of him getting shagged by the guy holding the camera (it's clearly a cell phone vid and short in length)
You can't see the guys face but get a good clear view of his stomach, cock and legs. There appears to be a third guy there too but you only see his hand. The only audio is the groans of the person who texts my other half.
I'm 90% sure that its' my other half doing the filming. You can see the lower part of his top and it matches one he owns. His cock looks similar, same kind of curve on the right side and the body shape looks familiar.
Obviously I can't be 100% sure. I don't hear him, see his face etc. The only thing i have is the shape of his penis, legs and the top - oh and the fact I know he knows this guy from somewhere.
I'm trying to convince myself it's not him. He says he loves me loads, says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and gets very jealous if I indicate other people are after me, or if an ex has been in contact. He says if I ever cheat on him then he'd kill me (in a serious by jokey way)
To test it, I asked him if he'd ever worn a cock ring (i described the one in the clip) and also if he'd ever filmed himself - both answers were a yes. I managed to download the clip and the other day 'accidently' played it infront of him (I edited out the guys face). He didn't react and his face didn't change. He just said it was crap porn and he'd seen better. I carried on playing it, making comments and he said,after a few mins, just delete it (he assumed I was doing a massive clear out of my pc and I told him I couldn't recall where it'd come from) Oh and I joked it was me and he said it better not be as there wasn't protection being used.
Now, If that was you and your other half played a clip of you cheating, surely you'd recognise it straight away. Nobody knows your body better then yourself right? Even if you didn't admit it was you, you would be shocked to see it on your partners PC and that would be hard to hide. You'd freak wondering where they got it from, was it on the net? did it get sent to him? do they know? it would drive you nuts and would act a little differently around them. He didn't do any of the above. He just carried on totally as normal.
If it is him then he did it whilst we were together - fairly recently - within the last 2 months (that top was brought when we went shopping together)
Is there a chance that i'm just trying to find something that isn't there? A fairly blurry short clip could really be of any one. That top is hardly unusual and most guys have some curve in their penis. I can't see clearly how hairy the guys legs are which would help. I know He's not two timing me with another guy (in the relationship sense) and I find it hard to know when he'd get the time to be having random sex.
What the hell do I do? what would you think?
