Cheating

[wrestlingobsessed]

I was with a guy about a week ago and he was very nice and hot. Txt him a few times making a complete fool of myself because he only told me yesterday that he had a boyfriend the whole time. I feel really bad for his boyfriend and i dont think hes gonna tell him.

Have any of ye cheated on your man and not told him?

 

[asian87]

No, I will never ever cheat.

 

[G-Lexington]

No. But do you know their relationship is exclusive? Many gay relationship aren't. That doesn't compel you to get involved with a guy who is, of course, but there it is.

Lex

 

[FPNY]

i've never cheated, but i've been cheated on, it's painful and destructive. remember, if they do it with ya, they will do it to ya.

 

[wrestlingobsessed]

I was only with the guy the once and i dont think he wants to see me again anyways. i dont want to get involved with him if he is still with his boyfriend. And why do u say most gay relationships arent exclusive? thats just awful.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>And why do u say most gay relationships arent exclusive? thats just awful.

As the Q pointed out, I said "many" not "most". I think you're much more likely to see gays in open relationships than straights. And I don't think it's awful at all. Some people simply aren't interested in monogamy. They like having sex with other people, and don't mind if their partner has sex with others, either. Other people would rather have a monogamous relationship, and I think that's great, too. To each their own.

Lex

 

[FPNY]

we were in a relatively open relationship. i would never expect my partner to run away if he ran into some hottie who wanted to trick. rules were, no falling in love and dont bring anyone to the house. he broke both those rules which created years of problems that we are still working out.

 

[StationToStation]

Yeah I have cheated before. But now I'm in a open relationship, better to be honest than be a liar.

Most men cheat too, I just learned to accept it.