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Just had my first time anal sex with this guy; he's totally not my type to begin with. And I feel so sexually excited before sex and thought that "hey, he's not that bad, let's try have sex with him". After sex, I'm thinking "what is this? This is not the sex I'm anticipating about".

My friend asked me, "do you feel high when you had sex with him". I told him that, "I don't know, I felt much better if I were to finger myself".

I am so desperate and pathethic right now. I wasn't like this 2 years back. Very much of a chastity, even when I sensed someone is trying to lure to to sex, I'll straight away told them off but now I flirt with them instead and it leads to cybersex.

Maybe, he's lousy in bed? Maybe, I haven't do it with someone emotionally attached to? Maybe, most people feels the same in their first time? Maybe, anal sex is just not my thing and better off with just frothing?

Any idea, guys? :(

By the way, sorry for the messy explanation...I can't reorganise what is in my mind right now...Thank you so much for reading :)
 
Find another guy. You were in the heat of the moment and not everyone you sleep with will be great. You have to test the car drive all the cars out there before you make a purchase.
 
Oh trust me, when you're "in the heat of the moment" everything seems diferent, then you start thinking it and it's not how you pictured it.

Don't worry, my first time (as a bottom) was... well... i don't know i didn't feel anything, I'm not sure if it was my first time, it lasted 2 minutes maybe and i was thinking about food i think...

It gets better don't worry, sometimes I'm skyping with someone and I get the idea of being with him in person... i just JO.
If that idea dissapears (or i just don't find the guy "hot" anymore) perfect, if not then I try something.

EDIT: You're not desperate or pathetic, don't say that, we all go through something like that.
 
@xkMANx: Hm, so I should keep on finding new guys? LOL

@TyMckay: omg, yes! I was thinking about "let's get over with it asap"!

Thank you, to both of you! Made me have another perspective to this matter :) The hunting continues, I guess :O
 
If I understand your post, you were a virgin, you got fucked by someone who wasn't your type. You did it primarily because you were horny. During sex you were thinking, "I want this to be over". When it was over, you didn't feel like it was very pleasurable.

Most guys don't have a particularly pleasant experience the first time (and for that matter, most women don't have good things to say about their first time either).

But when you go into these things with no emotional attraction and very little physical attraction, it does set up a situation that is not going to be that great.

Maybe you would be better off finding someone that you like, that you find attractive and then go a little slower the next time?
 
^ This.

I loved recreational fucking and even my first time was pretty amazing.

But to really enjoy being a bottom, it has to be more than a mechanical act. It needs foreplay and involvement and relaxation to be really, really enjoyable.

Keep practising and better luck next time!!!!!!!!!!
 
@KaraBlunt: Yes, I will now...finding the guy that have the same liking towards me is another question though, haha!

@rareboy: You're right! I still feel self-fingering gives much much much MUCH intensified pleasure to me. Thank you! :)
 
Almost the exact same thing happened to me...first guy I tried to have sex with I really wasn't attracted to but I liked his personality and he seemed to know what he was doing so I did it anyway. It was so unenjoyable I went soft:^o. I like to make a connection with someone emotionally first if I can...otherwise if its just a hookup I am gonna have to be shallow and find someone I think is hot...
 
ncboy85 said:
Almost the exact same thing happened to me...first guy I tried to have sex with I really wasn't attracted to but I liked his personality and he seemed to know what he was doing so I did it anyway. It was so unenjoyable I went soft:^o. I like to make a connection with someone emotionally first if I can...otherwise if its just a hookup I am gonna have to be shallow and find someone I think is hot...
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For my case, I don't think I'm that attracted to him, emotionally...and I tend to be shallow which it sucks :(
 
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