Chub at a Bathhouse

[portedeslilas]

I'm 18 years old and a chub, and I've been thinking about going to a bathhouse for the first time because I think it would at least be interesting and probably a lot of fun. However, I'm very self-conscious about my appearance and am afraid that I would get rejected or even made fun of. Having never been to one before, I don't really know what the climate is like, and I was hoping you guys could enlighten me.

 

[LavenderLounge]

If you like sucking cock, most sex clubs have glory holes where you can be anonymous. The purpose of sex clubs is anonymous sex, mostly in the dark. A lot of times you don't even see who's blowing you.

Guys lower their inhibitions immediately upon entering the baths. You're more likely to get action at the baths than anywhere else, but only if YOU lower YOUR inhibitions.

 

[skeeter112375]

I'm chubby and self conscious. My partner and I went to a bath house recently. Did not have a problem at all. I was surprised how fast I got comfortable. If its your first time to one, maybe ease in during a time that is less busy like a weekday afternoon when there is light traffic. This will get you comfy with the environment. Pretty fun.

 

[4older]

Check out the bathhouse to get an idea of what kind of crowd goes there. There's plenty of guys out there that are into chubs and chances are you'll find a couple there.

Rejection is part of the deal and don't take it personally as everyone's looking for what they're into. Just move along and look for someone else. Never haerd of or seen anyone get openly teased at a bathhouse unless they requested it! Good luck and have fun!

 

[xKMANx]

Be safe, your 18 they'll love you

 

[4older]

^^ Sorry I meant to say check out the bathhouse on a site like Squirt to get an idea of what kind of crowd is there.

 

[wilecoyote]

IMO, Baths aren't about having the perfect body. Men of all color, size, age, etc will be there offering a variety to look at and/or play with. My BF and I are primarily bottoms so when we play with a 3rd/couple (sometimes at a bath) we find the variety to be great. He likes getting fucked by black men and I tend to go for older dad types. I've also played with chubby guys. It's a sexual place - guys go to get off.

I don't think anyone will make fun of you, although I have seen some older men get rejected harshly cause they were persistent (even with me) but not all are like that. Ya never know, some people are assholes and rude. Don't be too persistent - if someone is interested - and they will be - they will let you know. And if you are interested, let them know. I remember one time there was this hot dad with me in the sauna and he would not even look my way. I didn't think he was interested. My staring at him did not work LoL so I opened my towel and started jacking my dick, which let him know I wanna play. He took notice and walked over undid his towel and offered his cock for me to suck before heading back to his room for some intense fucking. I didn't think he was interested and we had a hot time.

So go with an open mind. Be safe, have fun.

 

[bike10]

Hi there I am just the opposite I rather slim guy and have always been some ashame of my body. I aways wanted to see what a bath house has to offer.

I finally got up the courage to head off to the CLUB in St. Louis. This great facility, great staff and always have felt welcum.

Have enjoyed guys of all types at the baths. Just take the time to crusie the baths and enjoy. Play safe baths and saunas have free condoms.

Try www.bathhouseaddict. com. It list baths world wide tips of what to expect at the baths.

Go and have fun.

 

[portedeslilas]

Thanks for the advice, you guys! I'll probably work up the courage to try it out soon.

 

[NineOfClubs]

The one thing I learned in my bathhouse days was that there was someone for everyone.

All kinds of guys found what they were looking for; and some, like me, stepped out of the box and tried something new sometimes....

Go, and maybe it will take more than once, and you will enjoy yourself.