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I can't really classify myself under a category of sexual orientation, so perhaps you guys can help me.

I've noticed that in real life, I notice both attractive guys and girls. But when it comes down to it, I prefer would prefer sexual relations with guys, but on an emotional relationship level, I believe I could connect with both sexes.

When I watch porn, I get turned on by mostly gay porn. But today, I was watching a threesome video (FFM) and found that what the females were doing to each other was an extremely large turn on for me (kissing, eating each other out etc), so much so that I've forgotten the guy was even in there!

This is why I'm extremely confused as to what I would be classified under, what do you guys think?
 
jubjub said:
...but on an emotional relationship level, I believe I could connect with both sexes...
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I judge by the emotional level.

I could never be in a relationship with a guy...but I like the male physique and anatomy better than female. Therefore I say I am straight.


I know people will argue this, but orientation label is completely 'in the eye of the beholder'.
 
85 % gay



15% straight

You do the math.
 
dexyboi86 said:
I could never be in a relationship with a guy...but I like the male physique and anatomy better than female. Therefore I say I am straight.
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I said the same thing. Then, the right guy came along and proved me wrong.
 
Ready and waiting!
 
It's hard to tell from just a brief written blurb, but...

You sound pretty gay to me. The overwhelming majority of people can emotionally connect with either sex. I'd say it doesn't figure into sexuality as much as what gets your dick hard.

Something to think about--if you're more attracted physically to men, would it be fair to a woman you'd be in a relationship with?
 
Nup. Not gonna classify you.

To do so limits you, judges you and presumes to know you.

You are an amazing person who loves, feels, learns, gives and sometimes makes mistakes. You are a work in progress. You are more than you know.

Let life take you where it may jubjub. Your values, your ability to love, honor and respect make you who you are.

Not some classification that doesnt reflect any of us.
 
dexyboi86 said:
I judge by the emotional level.

I could never be in a relationship with a guy...but I like the male physique and anatomy better than female. Therefore I say I am straight.


I know people will argue this, but orientation label is completely 'in the eye of the beholder'.
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Yeah, I've known lots of guys who've bargained like that.

Sad fact of the matter is that until you accept who and what you are, you'll never really be honest with yourself.

Sorry,
 
If you're more physically attracted to males...are you sure you're bi?

If you have that much of a physical preference, I guess it really depends on what type of emotional connections you're talking about.

If a straight guy has a very close friend, and obviously care about eachother a lot about eachother as friends....does that make them gay? Absolutely not. Nor does your "emotional connection" mean you're bi, unless you really feel physically attracted to girls as well.

To me bisexual indicates more of a physical drive to have sex with either sex. Sure, the ultimate behavior might be based on emotion, but there needs to be that physical level there first. Judging from your post alone, I'm not quite sure if that drive is there....but you know far better than I could tell you.
 
You don't need to classify yourself. To do so limits you. Let yourself develop, explore your feelings, don't close any avenues by labeling yourself. You will find out in time, maybe only when you find that special person. The main thing is to try and be comfortable with yourself which ever way you may swing.

The worst thing is to feel you have to conform to any kind of stereo type, don't fall into that trap. Live, learn and enjoy. Don't worry! (*8*)
 
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