closeted guys...

[ballinboy]

any super closeted guys on here? or at least guys who sort of swing both ways, but probably wont express their other...less accepted side?

 

[bulldawg1979]

I'm closted...getting more comfortable with myself but just figure at this point, my sexual preferences are no one's business...

 

[tagman]

I'm closeted except for telling my cousin, no one else knows...i'm not really ready to tell everyone yet, i'm still trying to figure myself out before I bring other's into my crazy world...

 

[acus48]

any super closeted guys on here? or at least guys who sort of swing both ways, but probably wont express their other...less accepted side?

Defintely becoming more open about it. Just having trouble meeting guys out in the non-online world

 

[enderwiggen]

Yep. I sort of swing both ways [at least porn-wise]. Although, in real life I don't really care for guys that much to be honest. I just like the porn. I can get off on just about anything really... So some days I am here, some days I'm not.

 

[jayxx2]

swinging both ways... have found guys to be a lot easier to approach, but totally super closeted.

 

[xrph1670]

In the closet. Think I should come out and live life. Scared stiff and don't even know how to begin.

 

[chad28ala]

I am in the closet, and have no plans on coming out anytime soon. I live in a small town, extremely religous family and I just can't bring myself to come out. To be honest the pain it would cause my parents is the reason. I know it's probably hard to understand but it would destroy them, there's no way around it. I think people around me go by the Don't ask Don't tell policy, I have never said the words I'm gay to anyone and probably won't for many years to come. For many years in addition to this was the financial aspect, I would have lost my job, family (five siblings), the South is crazy, but I played it cool for the past ten years and now I own the company, score one for the gays, LOL. Now that the financial aspect is solved I have been toying with the idea of relocating to the coast with hopes of finally being out of the closet. It's just such a large step to leave your family, friends and your home for the hopes of creating a new life that may or not be what I expect. Anyway with all that being said I have great admiration for those that do live openly and applaud the gay community and support it in my own ways, monetarily, etc.

 

[xrph1670]

Chad28: I understand completely where you are coming from. completely and totally. If it makes you feel any better, I could be writing you last post.

 

[JUB]

I am in the closet, and have no plans on coming out anytime soon. I live in a small town, extremely religous family and I just can't bring myself to come out. To be honest the pain it would cause my parents is the reason. I know it's probably hard to understand but it would destroy them, there's no way around it. I think people around me go by the Don't ask Don't tell policy, I have never said the words I'm gay to anyone and probably won't for many years to come. For many years in addition to this was the financial aspect, I would have lost my job, family (five siblings), the South is crazy, but I played it cool for the past ten years and now I own the company, score one for the gays, LOL. Now that the financial aspect is solved I have been toying with the idea of relocating to the coast with hopes of finally being out of the closet. It's just such a large step to leave your family, friends and your home for the hopes of creating a new life that may or not be what I expect. Anyway with all that being said I have great admiration for those that do live openly and applaud the gay community and support it in my own ways, monetarily, etc.

Wow Im really sorry to hear that I was very fortunate to have very accepting parents, family, and friends. And we are all from conservative Texas

 

[Danugh]

They are too much trouble.

Closeted men are harder to suck off than str8 men

 

[hairyboy89]

I was until about a week ago...I encourage everyone to come out.

 

[youngnihilist]

I can spot a closet case easily! They try too hard! "Dude im totally DL"..... yeah well your actions and personality make it obvious buddy

 

[phillypornlover]

I got quite a few surprised looks and even disbelief when I came out to a few people.

Then I started wondering why they didn't even suspect since I had never really had a girlfriend.

 

[Jerry]

I'm bi and totally closeted. And I don't care about people's "gaydar", people don't think I'm gay. I check out girls and talk about girls with my friends. I'm not the luckiest or most suave guy when it comes to picking them up, but I do try.

Lately though, I seem to care less about people finding out about me. I think it started after I sucked off one of my friends but either way, I'm becoming much more comfortable with myself and, while I'm not going to "out" myself, I could care less if someone figures it out. A new friend of mine is a lesbian, and everyone knows about her. Nobody really seems to care.

I thought about telling my best friend, but I don't really see the need. Especially since I do find him attractive. Not that I'd do anything sexual with him, but still.

So I don't consider myself "in the closet", I just do what I do and don't feel the need to tell everyone about it. If my friend were to suspect me of being bi and ask me, I'd probably tell him. Shit, maybe he already knows and just doesn't feel the need to talk about it either. But I doubt it.

 

[Marksman]

I don't see it as being closeted. I just don't think my sexual preferences are anyone else's business.

 

[shoparound]

I don't see it as being closeted. I just don't think my sexual preferences are anyone else's business.

I agree on this one. Most assume I'm straight, but they never really ask. lol.
However it is harder to find guys to suck off because no one knows. I'm kind of shy so I don't really meet guys, or even if I do, I don't have enough courage to go for it. I wish someone could help!

 

[Marksman]

I agree on this one. Most assume I'm straight, but they never really ask. lol.
However it is harder to find guys to suck off because no one knows. I'm kind of shy so I don't really meet guys, or even if I do, I don't have enough courage to go for it. I wish someone could help!

My sentiments exactly dude.