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Clubs! - how to reject someone

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Well recently I've been getting hit on a lot at the club by older men and I tend to use the 'I have a boyfriend and he's getting me a drink' line to stray them away. Is there another way to reject them without being mean? And I don't feel like using the old 'sorry I'm not interested'
 
Brilliant way to ask this question. Way better put then I have in the past. I'd like to know too! Bravo btw. Shouldnt this be in hot topics though?
 
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If he still does not get the hint, tazer him!
 
Well, you could say..."I'm sorry, I'm just here waiting for someone who doesn't look like you."



Or, if you want to be nicer, just say that you are just hanging out after a busy day, and you just want to relax alone.
 
Tell them to go away or you'll clobber them silly!

Man, this thread really makes me feel good. Us older guys aren't worth anything, not even two cents. We are a wealth of knowledge, and skills, but that's it. You might want to look one of us up if you have car trouble, lights out, no heat or ac, plumbing broken, etc. However, we aren't worth a damn for anything else but work. I know exactly how this feels. I knew I had nothing left but work, then the funeral...
 
So far, I think John's given the best advice.

Personally, if someone comes up to me and I'm not interested, I simply don't engage them very much. I'll talk with them, but give very short answers and not really ask that many questions back. But really that hasn't happened in a long time since I haven't gone out in a while and I'm not single.
 
wouldn't know how to do it but to be simple, i've never been in that situation simple because i don't fuck with anybody so nobody fucks with me. you can watch but you have to have a lot of balls to step up to me and say something. i give off that type of vibe.
 
Are they making conversation? Converse.

Have they bought you a drink? Accept it graciously (providing the bar is reputable and the bartender has delivered it to you so there is no risk of contamination by someone seeking to take advantage of you).

The most important thing you can teach someone is that accepting a drink and a brief hello how do you do, is not a contract for sex.

The easiest way to deal with this in a classy way is to take the high road and not assume the person is trying to manipulate you into a hook-up. If they decide that common courtesy has obliged you to deepen your relationship, then it is they who are acting in poor taste, and then you can tell them where to go quite unambiguously. Unless they make it ugly, you can simply have a conversation and say "well I have to be going now" and carry on.
 
If it's very clear I don't like them - never anything physical, usually based just on the few words they've said - I've always just used "Wow, I'm really flattered, but I'm afraid I'm not really interested." Otherwise, I'll chat with them for a bit, and if it's not leading anywhere interesting, I'll say "thanks" and wander away.

Lex
 
^ But...but...what if he continues to wander away with you?
 
Then you say " well I should leave you to enjoy your evening/ Ive got to catch up with some friends/get a drink/go dance on the speaker/stand over there by myself. goodnight."
 
More or less. I've never had anybody follow me around. I guess if one did, I'd just start talking to somebody else to make it clear I wasn't interested in talking to him anymore. If he still hung around, I'd just tell him I wasn't interested.

Lex
 
refujiunderground said:
wouldn't know how to do it but to be simple, i've never been in that situation simple because i don't fuck with anybody so nobody fucks with me. you can watch but you have to have a lot of balls to step up to me and say something. i give off that type of vibe.
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^ You should bottle that vibe and sell it to the OP. I bet other people would want to buy it too.
 
The direct way is the best.

If someone hits on you and you say "my boyfriend is getting me a drink" that's all well and good but still doesn't answer the question.

BENDERBOY said:
Alternatively you could just give them a pity fuck.
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^THIS

I believe in sexual karma. So shag that 60 year-old, for when you're 60 you'll want some 20-something to sit on your cock, too.
 
HunterM said:
^ You should bottle that vibe and sell it to the OP. I bet other people would want to buy it too.
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not everybody can do it. the first thing is you have to be ugly and/or short otherwise it won't work.
 
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