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Anyone into clothed male naked male? It's a huge turn on for me. I love being the naked guy around another guy who's not, especially if he's older. I think this plays a big part in my doctor patient fetish. Anybody else in the same boat? Would love to hear some good stories.
 
I like to be the clothed male, to have a guy, or guys, lined up and naked with their quivering cocks totaly stiff and ready for me to grab
 
I play with a guy who loves other guys to be naked around him when he isn't. Or both naked. I like it, but I would want to be naked along with the person.
 
I actually love this as well. There is nothing like being ordered to be naked. A couple of my former Doms have liked this.

Even if we were not playing, one guy I was with would have me strip the minute I walked into his house. As he was also into chastity, it would pretty much guarantee that I was boned all the time with him. We would watch TV, movies, pretty much the same stuff any couple would do, but I was always naked.
 
This is interesting. I never heard of this fetish before, but find it rather intriguing. It rings of a power/domination thing I guess.
It reminds me of a similar fantasy, where I go to the dr and the dr strips me and takes advantage of me (as the dr presumably remains at least partially clothed. )
I haven't even thought of that fantasy in a while....

Thanks for the fantasy fodder!
 
I've seen a lot of the CFNM stuff and its hot, but as I'm not into the chicks I'd love to see some CMNM pics/vids...anyone have any?
 
It seems difficult to find others who are as into this as I am. I have posted, on occasion, to CL -- but most of the dudes there are into rimming, oral, and "body contact." I don't care if others want to do those things, but I find these activities to be incredibly risky. I hope to one day find a "daddy" or dom type who wants to order ME to be naked in front of him at all times.

Chastity interests me as well, although I'm unsure of how much I would like it. I would also have no problems with getting milked, edged, jo'ed, whatever. I also don't mind that much if the guy absolutely has to be naked around me, but the fantasy is that he would remain clothed. There is a power exchange concept in him having his clothes on with me undressed.

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There is a definite power exchange involved. I am extremely "modest" when it comes to how I am dressed. So the mind game is as almost as intense as any physical exchange that would take place.

The clothes you wear, or do not wear can be very powerful. Another Dom I was with would tell me what to wear when we went out. He had a thing for khaki's (no underwear) and polo shirts. He liked the khakis as he could get a good feel on my cock and balls. One night we were at a bar and I was meeting a bunch of his friends. While we were sitting at the bar, he would reach over, in front of his friends, and squeeze my nuts through my pants while talking with his friends. He sometimes order me to take off my shirt and just sit there. It was his way of exerting his dominance. I could tell he loved the pained look on my face of my balls getting a good squeeze and the mental angst it was causing me to be so exposed.

The hottest was when one of his friends would ask to cop a feel of my junk or play with my nips and pecs... he would just look at the friend and say, "sure, go ahead."

I always ask a Dom when I first meet them (whether on line, in a bar, etc) what they want me to wear (or not wear). It is frequently a good indication of just what kind of a Dom they will be.
 
I have recently started a blog devoted to CMNM
Guys into CMNM
http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com/



I will have to say that I certainly make the definition of CMNM broader than the 'let's play undress you" type of sexual activities described here. In my (humble) opinion it is much broader and involves a whole lot of more sexually-implicit behaviors than just costuming or getting out of 'clothes/costumes" - although I agree with most everything that's been said, it somehow just seems bigger and NOT just a very small narrow pet-perversion or fetish that some people who make it out to be. (Not that I am trying to defend it). It's just that I see the definition of what counts as male homoerotic passion / desires to have much deeper and wider roots - but I 'always' get knee-deep in BS about this time of year... so take what I say with a good dose of lime juice and tequila (LOL).

Back to my serious 'article'....

How does 'flashing' count as a CMNM activity or experience?

This question is slightly different than what was asked on this topic but there is a strong correlation - I think.

I agree that the CMNM experience described might be 'representative' of what is really hot about CMNM but it is certainly NOT the only type of CMNM experience there is - -by far.
What some people have denied that 'flashing' or 'innocent exposure' or peekaboo exhibitionism is CMNM but I believe it is another type of CMNM experience.

Here is what constitutes CMNM for me (I was referring specifically to a photograph or a scene in a movie when I said this but it think it applies (almost equally as well) to real and live encounters, and also trying to show that 'flashing' is a form of CMNM behavior.

a) it has the main elements of CMNM: a naked guy (at least one) and some clothed ones (at least one) and importantly it has a context (presumably a real or authentic situation).

b) there is some interaction between them.. so the idea of 'relationship' or friendship or male bonding or being buddies is strongly communicated.
It's is NOT just superficially flashing an erect penis to strangers and then hitting the road to get out of there. While I am not saying absolutely anything negative about flashing, I am just trying to say how CMNM is different from only flashing - related but still different.

c) to be CMNM I think it has a context (a 'seemingly' real and authentic social situation. It almost tells a story and a story that is not ONLY about sex or sexually exposing your genitals. There is a situation implied in a CMNM scent -- because the participants ALL have have a reason (plausibly ridiculous or even completely and genuinely real) for being there and for the nudity which is an important part (sometimes the most critical one) in that content.
d) Sexual arousal is NOT the only focus of the CNMN scene (or the situation) -- while it may be important or (insignificant) the nudity and what it communicates to the guys involved (clothed or nude) is only part of the whole human interaction.

e) I could keep on going but I've probably lost most of the readers... by now...

I think you can all think of other representative examples of another CMNM situation - some guys getting their buddy naked (as a prank or frat antics or college roommate joke).. You'll have to image the 'narrative' or context/situation for yourself.
Such scenes seem to strike at the heart of what the hidden attraction of CMNM is --even for straight males. We (and they too) easily (and sometimes frequently) use being naked (or forced nudity) to interact non-sexually and for male bonding 'rituals' .... some of them/us (much later - 20 years later for example) return to those same memories with great fondness and often a lot of unfulfilled desire...

You all KNOW there is some truth in that in what I'm saying because those earlier experiences and CMNM-type events are so strongly embedded in our minds. I have heard that theme over and over again here on JUB, and many other gay discussion boards and social networking sites. I am sure that many JUB members who read/participate in the Male-to-Male forums are haunted by those type of early CMNM memories from their boyhood and teen years -- and sometime -- instinctively, we may be trying to recreate them - so call it dickflashing when, in fact.. we are just trying to return to the almost innocent naked camaraderie we used to engage in adolescent, teen and and post-adolescent years through early adulthood. I strongly believe it was the repression of these 'feelings' that made us what we are today - both for good and for bad (or worse...), but that's the rest of the story.
Since the so-called Gay Liberation from the 80s (actually long before) and the public media's acceptance of Gay themes and characters as mainstream (90/00s') .. global consciousness about male sexuality and homosexuality has broadened and become (somewhat) enlightened .. so today's young men (may or may not) have to suffer such repressed 'desire' or stifled ways of communicating/bonding with other men. That's another issue that needs to be explored - although most of you probably don't think that this site is the proper 'forum' to do that... but I would argue it is the ONLY place we can discuss it and learn and grow from that shared discussion.

Kelly



Guys into CMNM
http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com/


Not everyone who interested in or turned on by the CMNM scene is gay, bi, or curious. Actually, there are plenty of straight guys, just horny, and even women who are turned on or intrigued by reality of a man being naked in front of clothed men (or the reverse) - whether the nakedness is natural, socially acceptable, expected or totally exhibitionist or involves sexual arousal for the naked guy or the clothed guy(s) watching is part of the magic of this complicated scene.

It's a more like sexual preference lifestyle issue, but some would call it a sexual fetish or perversion. However, in many ways, male nuditiy permeates almost all aspects of male-to-male relationships and influences the nature of masculinity and what it means to be a man. Men use nudity and exposure of body parts or genitals to communicate affection, friendship, camaraderie, power /control, and even distain or disgust. Being aware CMNM scenes and being turned on by them is subconscious for most males. We're just a select few who have recognized it as a separate way of psycho-sexual interation and personal or social stimulation.
Once you think more deeply about it, you'll be able recognize and see its effects in buddy-to-buddy friendships, sports and athletic camaraderie, male-bonding and growing up, rites of passages for young males, social events, public and private clubs and social organizations, schooling, and even thec constant girl-chasing pack mentality of romance (and sex) and the antics and rituals associated with those, or guy-chasing as the case may be.
 
I returned home in early April after a long trip. It was just in time to be hospitalized for over a week. It seems I had a reoccurence of an earlier condition and while it was certainly treatable, it required being on a IV constantly for over a week. Maybe not surprisingly, a longer hospital stay provides many opportunities for CMNM experiences and included many chances for me to indulge my humble exhibitionistic tendencies - flashing the doctor, nurses (accidently), other patients and even hospital visitors. I've written about this experience in my JUB blog and also posted to my CMNM blog: Guys Into CMNM. http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com
 
I do like it in CFNM videos on http://www.cfnmtv.com/ when guys are naked in front of other guys or naked in front of a mixed female/male group like in this picture:

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I love having a guy get naked while I remain clothed...most guys just want to be fucked and it's hard to find guys into this

Not quite so sure it'd be tough to find guys in to that.....
I don't know how you go about it.... but sounds pretty nice to me.
 
It's always been a fantesy of mine to be naked in a room full of other clothed men or for one man alone.
Not for any sexual gratification. That could be done discretely.
I attend a male only social gathering once a month and there are a few men who keep dressed.
 
I recently went to a CMNM party. The only rule was that 2/3 of the men had to be dressed. Being one of the few naked ones amongst all the clothes was a turn on you wouldn't believe. I had to serve drinks, help guys in the bathroom, get things from the parked cars, etc. One big bennie was that I could take a dip in the pool at any time. I was grabbed from behind several times, one of my favorites.
 
Recently, I've started a CMNM space on Wikispaces.com
It can be found at: cmnm.wikispaces.com

Anyone is welcome to read, join in, and add to information, analysis, experiences, and resources (or create new page/categories) about the far-reaching and fascinating topic of CMNM (clothed male naked male).
 
Well I actually think guys are alot hotter when they are clothed so this is a big turn on for me :P
 
I've never experienced this in a group setting, but I know I would definitely want to be one of the naked guys. I like the idea of being groped by some horny clothed guys. I also like the idea of having to suck a guy's cock in front of a bunch of other guys.
 
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