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[rareboy]

kinktwink, you know that dream catcher you have hanging over your bed? Take one of the feathers out of it and next time you catch him naked with a boner, just casually pass the feather over the hair on his balls. When his cock flexes, then slowly run the feather lightly up his erect cock. When you notice him start to precum, take a finger and rub it over the head and lick it off your finger while he watches you. That will turn him on and you then know his cock is yours to swallow. Works every time, even on straight boys.

This is weirdly specific.

 

[SexyLion514]

kinktwink, you know that dream catcher you have hanging over your bed? Take one of the feathers out of it and next time you catch him naked with a boner, just casually pass the feather over the hair on his balls. When his cock flexes, then slowly run the feather lightly up his erect cock. When you notice him start to precum, take a finger and rub it over the head and lick it off your finger while he watches you. That will turn him on and you then know his cock is yours to swallow. Works every time, even on straight boys.

I don't think it would work every time, especially on straight guys. Many people might be weirded out and/or consider it invasive to start fondling them with a feather, especially the straight ones. And if they're straight why would a guy licking their cum turn them on? And how do you know if he has a dream catcher? And are you suggesting this is a common thing you do? I just... I don't understand this comment.

 

[sixthson]

This is weirdly specific.

I don't like to speak in broad generalities.

 

[SexyLion514]

You're obsessing over him and it's only getting worse. If he is one of your best friends, you don't want to risk anything changing that.
Let's assume he is not 100% straight, but in denial. It's doubtful you can change that.
How do you think he would react if you told him in regular conversation that you are attracted to him?

So why did you then comment about going after him with a bloody feather?

 

[sixthson]

So why did you then comment about going after him with a bloody feather?

Buy a sense of humor.

 

[SexyLion514]

Wait, so the feather thing was a joke? That seems like bad taste dude. Straight guy feeling angst is very frustrating/depressing. You don't want to mess with someone going through it if it's a serious case like this appears to be. And what about when you said to tell him and then implied not to? "what have you got to lose by letting him know you like him?" Then; "If he is one of your best friends, you don't want to risk anything changing that." That seems inconsistent to me. And I disagree with both. Clearly, some kind of conversation needs to happen, but I don't think he should just tell him he likes him. Deal with the situation first, then worry about getting into his pants. If he is interested, he'll be more willing to get with him if they have dealt with whatever issues are going on here.

 

[sixthson]

Maybe it seems inconsistent because I changed my posts as he added more info. I never seriously recommend the things I was joking about. It sounds like you have your own story to tell about something similar to the OP?

 

[kinktwink]

He seems to be mildly avoiding me after what happened, but he gets like that sometimes in general. I don't want to talk about it to him because he would probably deny it happened. He would never admit to being gay, but it's possible he's curious especially about me because, not to sound cocky, but I'm very attractive, masculine, and he knows I like dick. I don't have any feathers but I'm definitely down for licking his precum. I wonder if I asked him to just cum on my face what he would say. If he reacted badly, I could say I was kidding?

 

[star-warrior]

Tell him you value his friendship and if he would like to explore more, you're happy to entertain. If he doesn't want to be physical then say, this conversation never happened and it won't be brought up again, but you still value him as a friend and nothing has changed.

 

[Yooper]

Tell him you value his friendship and if he would like to explore more, you're happy to entertain. If he doesn't want to be physical then say, this conversation never happened and it won't be brought up again, but you still value him as a friend and nothing has changed.

Best advice so far.

But it still seems like more fun to say, 'Here, let me help you with that.'

 

[HornyJock]

He seems to be mildly avoiding me after what happened, but he gets like that sometimes in general. I don't want to talk about it to him because he would probably deny it happened. He would never admit to being gay, but it's possible he's curious especially about me because, not to sound cocky, but I'm very attractive, masculine, and he knows I like dick. I don't have any feathers but I'm definitely down for licking his precum. I wonder if I asked him to just cum on my face what he would say. If he reacted badly, I could say I was kidding?

Don't be silly, what kind of talk is that?
If you look desperate you have zero chances.
You should never be so sexually aggressive with a "straight" guy, if you put them in a corner they'll try to fight you (not in a physical sense).
You need to be more clever and subtle, he needs to feel comfortable around you, eventually he will shut down his defense system.

From experience, I can tell you is not as difficult as it seems.
You said you are a good looking masculine guy, so use it. Play his own game.
Get naked, show off and try to invade his space as much as you can without being too obvious and check his reactions.
Things such casually brushing your skin against his, talking really close to his face, casually putting your hand on his back, sitting very close to him.
Check his body language.
If he is not interested in guys he will try to pull away from you as soon as you touch him (straight guys hate other guys invading their space), if that's the case just forget it and move on, don't ruin a friendship.
But if he pretends nothing is happening and he goes along with it you might have good chances.
Try to do that and tell us what happened, I might be able to give you more tips on what to do next, or just send a PM.

 

[medic1]

Use your gut...animal instinct..whatever you want to call it.....

You will get your answer fast...and when you get it..respect it.....whatever happens....

I think to many people get there head in the way....

I see what you did there.....

 

[rareboy]

He seems to be mildly avoiding me after what happened, but he gets like that sometimes in general. I don't want to talk about it to him because he would probably deny it happened. He would never admit to being gay, but it's possible he's curious especially about me because, not to sound cocky, but I'm very attractive, masculine, and he knows I like dick. I don't have any feathers but I'm definitely down for licking his precum. I wonder if I asked him to just cum on my face what he would say. If he reacted badly, I could say I was kidding?

Of course he's avoiding you.

He gave you the perfect opening and you didn't take it.

He probably feels a little embarrassed and put off.

 

[Latimer]

Some fantasies are better left as fantasies, and your time is better spent with a good book than sucking his cock and having him come on your face.

You describe a sexual situation which is totally one-sided with no reciprocation--is this really the sort of sexual relationship you want with the guy?

What about pursuing a relationship with someone who wants sex with you as much as you want it with him?

 

[HornyJock]

Some fantasies are better left as fantasies, and your time is better spent with a good book than sucking his cock and having him come on your face.

You describe a sexual situation which is totally one-sided with no reciprocation--is this really the sort of sexual relationship you want with the guy?

What about pursuing a relationship with someone who wants sex with you as much as you want it with him?

Maybe he doesn't want a relationship.
Maybe he's just after a good old wild NSA shag.
It is quite clear he would be more than happy to just suck his cock.
Nothing wrong with that.

 

[Latimer]

I don't disagree. Nothing wrong with that, but I gathered (perhaps wrongly) that he was infatuated with the guy, and assumed that just sucking cock would be insufficient to satisfy him.

 

[kinktwink]

I would definitely be okay with just sucking his cock. I would never want a relationship with him. I'll update if anything ever cums of it. Wish I took the opportunity but oh well. Thanks for the advice and entertaining responses.