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Coming out & The boy at the store

That's awesome and I am proud of you! And jealous of your guts and BALLS lol. I would leave the texting at that until he replies. :=D:
 
I've been following your posts... ..| on finally asking him out. Hope you have a great time!

:)
 
socal21 said:
MAJOR UPDATE: Today was the day! I went in, and there he was. He didn't see me and I kinda seaked up and said Hey you! he looked over and said hi as he smiled. I told him I hadn't seen him in a while and he laghed and said 'yea! I know! They cut my hours off big time' we chatted very little,cause it was pretty busy,but I just went in for it. I told him I had gone in a couple nights before intending to ask him to go see a movie he had mentioned he wanted to see from my previous visits, I said I wasn't sure if he'd be interested,but that I'd like to go see it with him. He said yes and so I asked ( I might have stumbled upon my words a bit) Is there a number where I can call you? and again he said yea,sure and he gives it to me :)
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Good job man! That's great! Let us know what happens.

It's funny: I read through this thread from the beginning, and as I read each update, I was really cheering and wishing the best for you. I feel all sappy and shit. Haha.
 
80KGold said:
Good job man! That's great! Let us know what happens.

It's funny: I read through this thread from the beginning, and as I read each update, I was really cheering and wishing the best for you. I feel all sappy and shit. Haha.
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Haha Thanks! I still can't believe I actually did it. I still haven't heard from him at all! I don't want to think I got a bogus number,but I'm not sure if i should go back,not talk to him,but just say hi and see what he says?
 
Let me suggest an approach that would do much to get rid of any thought you might have if the two of you never reach the point of sex. Give it time. Approach him always in your friendliest manner. One can understand the "persistent urge" that is there in your very being but do not suggest that your aim is a sexual hook up.

Get to know him; let him get to know you. Friendships have a way of becoming more than just friendships and when you find yourself bonding in deep affection for each other I have a hunch that the sex will happen naturally and seem so right because it confirms the bond of friendship/love that already exists.

Not all friendships include sexual activity; yet, they are valuable even so. Make sure that the boy at the store never gets the impression that your interest in him is only because you see him as a way to get the sex you crave.

No advice is intended here--just thoughts in seeking insight and direction.
 
crashman1218 said:
I know you are anxious, but it's been 16 hours since you gave him your number. You're going to have to give it at least 3 days. Going back to see him would just scream desperate. He has a life too you know. Now that it's established he is a) gay, b) into you, and c) probably single, the chances are good that he'll get back to you. Be patient.

In the meantime, keep yourself occupied by thinking of all the nasty things you want to do with him. Always works for me... :D
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I understand what your saying, but the way I see it is if I gave my number to a guy,and he text me with his number as I did, Wouldn't I respond back with at least a 'hey, I got it!' and then text again another day?

...Do you think this is a 'test' of some sort for him to see what my intentions are?

Cause i'll be honest the intentions aren't just for sex,but I definetely see this guy as the type of guy i'd like to date and be with.

And Also! He got cut down to working only twice a week,so if i didn't go back this week, That means I wouldn't go back till next week....If i were to go back.

...Sorry If i sound a bit clueless,but in reality I kinda am,since I'm freshly out to my Mom and feel more commfortable with myself,but also I've never been in a relationship.
 
^^^Chill. You're overthinking all of this. It's a number. It's a movie. You're not picking out a wedding dress yet.

There's a weird sort of dance/game that guys play at this point. It's not logical and it's not always fair, but it just is.

You've exchanged numbers. He's probably given you a real number because he knows that you know where he works, so there's not a logical reason to give you a fake number (that only works in clubs or when you won't see the person again). So, assume he has your number and if he's interested in seeing you, he will call you.

If he doesn't call you, then leave it alone for now. Anything else is going to seem stalker-ish and will make him nervous.

If he does call you, then put yourself in the frame of mind that you're going out as friends. If there's chemistry, then maybe something more will come of it.

You're young. You're cute. You're a nice guy. There will be other guys! You just need to relax and learn to be more patient.
 
The ball is in his court. If he is genuinely interested, he'll text you back. If he doesn't, then you know he's just a really friendly but not interested straight guy.
 
Fantastic!! You just have to relax now and let it happen, give him a few days to reply, maybe he is shy and intimidated and maybe he is new to the game as well.
 
Aww good job! Thats takes guts. Where in socal are you? maybe i can get your number hahah :D
 
Man just be open and honest with the guy. If your friends and he asks you something give him the truth don't lie to him. Just be open with him is my advice for you.
 
KaraBulut said:
^^^Chill. You're overthinking all of this. It's a number. It's a movie. You're not picking out a wedding dress yet.

There's a weird sort of dance/game that guys play at this point. It's not logical and it's not always fair, but it just is.

You've exchanged numbers. He's probably given you a real number because he knows that you know where he works, so there's not a logical reason to give you a fake number (that only works in clubs or when you won't see the person again). So, assume he has your number and if he's interested in seeing you, he will call you.

If he doesn't call you, then leave it alone for now. Anything else is going to seem stalker-ish and will make him nervous.

If he does call you, then put yourself in the frame of mind that you're going out as friends. If there's chemistry, then maybe something more will come of it.

You're young. You're cute. You're a nice guy. There will be other guys! You just need to relax and learn to be more patient.
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Your responce gave me a light bulb reaction....you're totally right, It's just me!!! I Need to relax!! Everything just takes time.

Thanks! :)
 
I have been following this little tale. I'm very happy for you that he responded! I hope you guys hit it off. Good luck man.
 
UPDATE: Well guys we've been texting back and fourth and yes he came out and said he is indeed gay, but he does have a bf :(

...It's all good though, I gotta say I am pretty proud of myself for going and making conversation with him,and then getting his number. It looks like we willl be hanging out though and getting to know eachother as friends.
 
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