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Coming out & The boy at the store

Great News.

Even the b/f thing is not a bad deal.

Takes a little pressure off both of you.

Gives you a chance to 'know' each other and grow as friends

B/fs can come and go but real friends are relationships that

grow and grow.:cool:

Enjoy a new and maybe potential best friend. After that is

karma or fate or whatever tomorrow brings. At least you are

moving in a positive direction ..|:D..|
 
socal21 said:
UPDATE: Well guys we've been texting back and fourth and yes he came out and said he is indeed gay, but he does have a bf :(

...It's all good though, I gotta say I am pretty proud of myself for going and making conversation with him,and then getting his number. It looks like we willl be hanging out though and getting to know eachother as friends.
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Yeah man, don't feel sad at all. From the perspective of this spectator at least, this adventure of yours has been awesome. And it's only the beginning for you. Indeed, you should feel proud of yourself. Congratulations, man.
 
Well, you just made a new friend. Go grab coffee. If you hit it off, invite him and his boyfriend to do a movie or grab a meal.

By the way, a great way to meet guys is through friends. :)
 
Thanks guys, it was kind of a let down,but he actually seems like a nice guy, and he said he wants us to get to know eachother. He also did say he was a bit shy to talk to me at first,when we first met,cause he said I'm an attractive guy !oops!

...I told him I was pretty shy also,but just felt I had to talk to him. He said he was glad I did :)
 
Wow, all I can say is that you are a brave guy and that it sounds like you opened some doors for yourself no matter what they lead to. I think it's important to take those risks for yourself in order to truly live your life to the fullest. Haha I wish I had that courage!
 
hotlatinchulo348 said:
Wow, all I can say is that you are a brave guy and that it sounds like you opened some doors for yourself no matter what they lead to. I think it's important to take those risks for yourself in order to truly live your life to the fullest. Haha I wish I had that courage!
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You know, it came out of no where. Never in my mind did I ever think I would ever do that. I guess i'm just becoming more comfortable with myself and who I am?
 
As you should be mate... your a good guy.

And the good thing is even though this may not have turned out the way you hoped right away - but hey lets face it a new freind that seems like a decent guy too is no bad thing! - you know now a few things...

That others find you attractive and worth taking a chance to get to know you...

That if you take that same chance that sometimes good things happen...

You broke out of your comfort zone mate and thats something to be really proud of... Now let that new found faith in who you are create these opportunities whenever you want... awesome work socal!!
 
tallguy297 said:
As you should be mate... your a good guy.

And the good thing is even though this may not have turned out the way you hoped right away - but hey lets face it a new freind that seems like a decent guy too is no bad thing! - you know now a few things...

That others find you attractive and worth taking a chance to get to know you...

That if you take that same chance that sometimes good things happen...

You broke out of your comfort zone mate and thats something to be really proud of... Now let that new found faith in who you are create these opportunities whenever you want... awesome work socal!!
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Thank You Tallguy! :)
 
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