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Coming out to my best mate

He knows. Real friends always do. They see through all of it, even when "all of it" could win an oscar. Put yourself in his shoes, wouldn't you expect your closest friend in the whole world to trust you enough to not hide such a huge and important part of them? You should just tell him.
 
Hey all,

Yeah I will tell him, haven't yet. He's been heaps snowed under with his honours course. Haven't been able to speak to him as much because he's been so busy working away. But he finishes in a month so I'll speak to him and tell him then.

Terps, you're so right.

And Fishstix, you're also right.

What's happened in the mean time is that it was his bday the other week, and I was speaking to him about a mutual friend of ours who's still in high school. Pretty boy looks. When I was with this mutual friend of ours he would refer to my best mate as 'gay' and 'homo', cause he's always joked that my best mate is gay... Anyway, I told me best mate this when chatting online, and he responded by telling me to look at an email our mutual mate sent him for his bday... It was an email wishing my best mate a very happy birthday saying, "I love you ____. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox" and then a picture of a nude twink barely covering his area with a towel, and the head of our mutual mate photoshopped in as the head of the twink in the picure.

So my best mate, upon sending me that email was a bit worried, asking whether or not I thought he was gay. He's like, "I think he's gay, bro. I don't know how to tell him I'm not that kind of guy" I was like, well we don't know if he's gay, spesh since he always tells us of his goings on with the ladies. So I suggested that I would ask him about the email/photo. And my best mate retorted quickly saying I shouldn't embarrass him, and don't tell him I saw it.

So it's made me more at ease at him being easy going with me coming out to him as Bi.

Thanks for your messages guys.
 
You're welcome.

And I can just imagine how you guys must appear together. :) Each one thinking the other's gay, but too afraid to admit it about yourself. :)
 
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