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Coming Out to Someone Via E-Mail

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I was wondering if any of you have ever come out to someone that you thought might be interested in you by way of email? Would it be too much of a shock to let someone know that you are gay and interested in them by sending them a message via email or would it be better to do that in person? I have strong feelings that this man may be gay or at least bi, but neither one of us has said anything to each other. I would be interested in your thoughts.
 
well it keeps em from beating you up if they hate gay people....and its kinda creepy in my opinion.
 
Yeah, it's one thing to discuss your sexuality via e-mail to someone who doesn't know. But hitting on someone you know via e-mail is a bit weird. You're seeking to increase your intimacy...via the least intimate mode of communication. :)

I'd say the best bet is to come out to him first. You don't have to make it a big production, but tell him you're gay, and since you're friends (or kinda friends), you thought he should know. This gives him an opening to come out as well.

Lex
 
You're right guys. It is being kind of creepy doing it that way. I guess I'll just have to turn up the charm and do it in person next time I run into him. I wish there was a universal way of signaling to someone -"I'm Gay and Very Available"
 
Maybe you should come out to your friend first, either e-mail, phone, or in person (your choice). Then you can gauge his reaction.

If you find out there is a spark or some interest, then you can pursue it.

I wouldn't do two things at once, you might overload his circuit. :)
 
>>>I wish there was a universal way of signaling to someone -"I'm Gay and Very Available"

There is. It's saying "I'm gay" to somebody. Give that one a go. :)

Lex
 
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