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coming out

Obviously it is a lot harder for you, because you have been in a heterosexual relationship.

But, I'll give you the advice I'd give anyone else. Just go for it! You can't dwell on what will occur when you reveal your sexuality.

You just have to go for it, and deal with the consequences. If you are lucky, you will most likely be accepted for what you are.
 
I wish it were as easy as just doing it. If you don't feel comfortable with the idea at the moment, there is a ton of great literature that you can read. Search Amazon.com for some gay coming out books. I think they are a really good resource because they present the reality of the situation you are facing. It is also possible that you can find some information specifically relevant to your situation as a divorced man.
 
Dude,

I never thought that there is any special treatment given to the divorced dudes coming out.

Your divorce is behind you. This is past. You are now on your own and you are running your own life. You are free to act as you find appropriate.

SC
 
That is very true, coming out as a divorced guy should be the same as coming out as a single person... the problem is that all my family members, ex, etc. might think that I was lying during all the marriage, etc. etc. which is not true at all.
We'll see what happens.
 
Perhaps. But the key now, methinks, is that you should be true to yourself. :) Get on it.

Lex
 
elwood... thanks so much! i know for sure that reading these stories will help me a lot. i just know. thanks again!
 
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