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coming out

I think "coming out" is a personal decision and you have to weigh who you would like to share your personal business with. If these were good friends, then by all means, if your comfortable, do it ! I've never really felt you have to expose your sexual preferences to a crowd of people you don't have any connections with. If there is someone there you are interested in, then let them know your interested in them. As someone mentioned before, it's 2012, just do what you feel comfortable doing. Best of luck, I'm sure it was a crowd of people you were comfortable with knowing, and whatever they say or do will only lead you in the right direction as of keeping them as a friend. Just sayin '' Best of luck...
 
I think it's best to be out everywhere. It takes the pressure off and the worrying over who knows what and what secrets you need to keep from whom.
 
hi indudela,

Good you have told these co-workers/friends that you like guys as well (your profile indicates that you are bi). I tend to think that you need to give them some time and space to get used to the idea that your interest in not only focused on girls. How old are you, and did you have girlfriends in the past? Apparently, you co-workers/friends had no idea that you also liked guys.

I fully agree with Seasoned that being out everywhere is the most easy and conveniant option. Does not mean that you need to tell anyone that you are gay/bi, but you just don't care, and its definitively not a secret that you are gay/bi. In your case, let them know that it is not a Big Secret that you are gay/bi.

So I am sure you have made a good move to out yourself to them. Please keep us informed and please don't hesitate to ask more questions.

I would like to wish you all the best.
 
Seasoned and Roly85 got it here, you got to be you, and the real people will stick around you. I think maybe they are wrapping their minds around it. You didn't indicate if anyone flipped out, started preaching, became argumentative, etc. So I think they are wrapping their minds around it. The good people will stick by you.
 
Don't worry. Just look at Hollywood nowadays, it is "in" to be out.

Most importantly, aren't you relieved?
 
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