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Coming to terms with being BI

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I came out as gay at 16. I had no attraction to women.

But recently i started to get turned on by straight porn, and attracted to certain girls. I didn't have a clue what was going on. I have even tried telling myself i will get over it.

Now i think i am finally comfortable that i am bi. I could never have a relationship with a girl. I have no desire for that in the slightlest. I am attracted to men predominantly and want to have a homosexual relationship. I don't want a relationship with a woman at all.

I hope that reads fine.

I just think i amcoming to terms with being slightly bisexual in the way that i would 'go with a girl'.
But without the extra baggage.
 
It's like in reverse, some people get it. Nothing to worry about, we were open-minded the first way through, the second should be no problem..
 
Go with it dude, be yourself and make apologies to no one.
There are those who insist we (bi guys) don't exsist :rolleyes:
pay them no mind.
My only advice is to be honest with your partners, never hide who you are from anyone.:D
 
Just be yourself. You owe an explanation to no one
 
congrats on being able to accept your sexuality. It can be rough sometimes and very confusing. I wish we, as humans, we more capable of just going with the flow and letting our bodies define us. Instead we fight and search for answers. Shit..I know i've done it!
 
Funny but that is exactly how I feel about guys. I am not so much attracted to a 'guy' but if he shows me his cock amongst many other factors, hard, creamy, uncut, hair in the right place, etc. I get amped up. My ex-wife got me turned on about cocks and since then I have never looked back. I like being bi! I like being able to 'steer' my wife or any other female in the direction of satisfying me and me satifying them. Being bi is great! I love women and don't think I'd ever be totally 'gay' (one on one with a male alone) but really enjoy the mood when another guy joins us in the bedroom. My next goal is to get my virgin asshole fucked by some well hung stud tho while my wife watches!!!!! Now will that make me gay???? LOL:confused:#-o:eek:(!):gogirl:*|*
 
people always want to get hung up on the labels. who needs to be homosexual or bisexual when you can just be sexual? just go with whatever feels right and enjoy life to the fullest.
 
Awesome! Like most here have said you are exactly opposite to us, and that's cool. Have fun boning down on the poonanny once in a while. I think if everyone would just see sex as a giving act without gender, imagine the worldwide orgy!
 
Overated said:
I came out as gay at 16. I had no attraction to women.

But recently i started to get turned on by straight porn, and attracted to certain girls. I didn't have a clue what was going on. I have even tried telling myself i will get over it.

Now i think i am finally comfortable that i am bi. I could never have a relationship with a girl. I have no desire for that in the slightlest. I am attracted to men predominantly and want to have a homosexual relationship. I don't want a relationship with a woman at all.

I hope that reads fine.

I just think i amcoming to terms with being slightly bisexual in the way that i would 'go with a girl'.
But without the extra baggage.
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I feel pretty much like you. And i also felt gay before I felt bi.
 
Overated said:
I came out as gay at 16. I had no attraction to women. But recently i started to get turned on by straight porn, and attracted to certain girls.

Now i think i am finally comfortable that i am bi. I could never have a relationship with a girl. I am attracted to men predominantly and want to have a homosexual relationship.
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Good for you dude! Maybe you should change your sexuality in your profile. It is still set on gay now.
 
I just wanted to let you know that you are not the only one that has had these feelings. I accepted the fact that I was gay at 15 or 16. Girls in high school did nothing for me. Recently though I find myself leaning more towards straight porn than gay and wonder if some day I will put that part of my life behind me and have a committed hetero relationship.

Don't get me wrong, I don't regret the feelings that I have had in the past, its just I don't really see myself as strickly gay anymore.

In short I guess I would say if it feels right to you and you are comfortable with it, just go with it.
 
Yeah, I went through a similar phase at age 12-17 where I finally came to terms of being bisexual. I have mostly homosexual feeling before hand and then when puberty set in I felt attracted to both sexes. I do still feel attracted to both genders to this very day, but I do have a slight preference for men more than women.
 
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