newkidondagayblock
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Stay away man. I'm going thro a similar thing. And I know i have to stay away from such people.
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Confused about my friend
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OK, with the added information...stay away from him.
Blueboy369
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Oh No!.............NEXT him!
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Straight guys play a lot of homo-erotic games with each other. Yu may be over-valuing some of the stuff he does as being signs of gay interest in you. The making out - even on a bet - is a tad unusual but so far he seems to have the best of all worlds. He has a friend, an alarm clock, company when he wants it -
I lean towards the Next him advice and a lot of other people here have said some great things.
But no one knows what is in his head and heart. And I gather in your heart you love him but you don't what category of love it is - for a straight friend (which can be great) or for a partner.
Given this:
Centex told you a great story to keep in mind though. I remember hearing "you are the best thing to ever happen to me, you are the worst thing to ever happen to me." After he got it into his head that was indeed gay - then he decided to be gay with everyone he possibly could, not very helpful in a relationship where promises of faithfulness and honesty were made.
But there are no guarentees in life. When you read all this and look in your heart, what is it telling you to do?
I lean towards the Next him advice and a lot of other people here have said some great things.
But no one knows what is in his head and heart. And I gather in your heart you love him but you don't what category of love it is - for a straight friend (which can be great) or for a partner.
Given this:
I'd handle that with a "look, either be my gay lover or be my straight good friend, you have to choose one, because this is fucking with my mind. What is it?"
Centex told you a great story to keep in mind though. I remember hearing "you are the best thing to ever happen to me, you are the worst thing to ever happen to me." After he got it into his head that was indeed gay - then he decided to be gay with everyone he possibly could, not very helpful in a relationship where promises of faithfulness and honesty were made.
But there are no guarentees in life. When you read all this and look in your heart, what is it telling you to do?