Confused about my sexuality

[hardhat69]

Hey Guys,

I'm was wondering what you think. So I'm a 21 yo guy, and I've always considered myself straight. I like boobies and such. But as of late, I've been thinking about .. well...to put it bluntly..dick. I'm kinda a late bloomer, and only recently have I gotten chest hair and well it's embarrassing, but my dick is getting huge. I'm 6 inches long and 5.75 inches around! Is anybody else thick like me?

Anyway point of this post is: I used to think about girls when I masturbated, and now I'm starting to concentrate on the size of my own cock. Like to the point I look at it with a mirror. And, I'm finding myself wanting to be with a guy sexually. Because whenever I look at my own, I start to salivate, and want it in my mouth. But I'm not that limber. I'm so confused. I've dated a few times, but never had a girlfriend, and I'm a virgin.

But I can't really see myself falling in love with a guy or being romantic. But I appreciate the beauty of men as well as women. So, am I gay or just narcissistic? I really like women, but I find myself turned on by my own cock I just can't stand it. But I don't just want to be a single wanker my entire life.

So anyway would really like any input you have.

 

[slnattak]

It doesn't have to be an either/or one or the other thing.

If you like both, then you like both. Sex with another man doesn't have to be dark or 'just sex for sex's sake.' It can be loving and romantic too. Men have feelings too, right? Why wouldn't you be able to not be 'romantic' with another man?

What is there to be confused over? You see a hot hard dick and it makes you horny. Just as I assume it does when you see a healthy pair of tits on a girl. Maybe you like guys a bit more than girls, (or vice-versa) It's all good.

 

[evanrick]

pics or it didnt happen.

 

[chace1617]

maybe you're bi and kinda narcissistic, you're fine...

 

[Nomenclature]

Men are naturally fascinated with penis size as a status symbol; as a representation or our masculinity. Since you said you were embarrassed about being a limber, its probably fair to say that you're really starting to enjoy looking and feeling like a man, right?

If you want to experiment and try sucking a dick, that would be entirely up to you; you don't have to have love and relationships with men forever and ever on your mind for that. Just be as safe as possible.




And for the record: mine's 6" girth, so i'm thick like you too.



Now we're Penis Pals!!

 

[JFarm89]

Ooo then you'll love Tranny's like I do. For some reason I set pussy aside and put dick and boobs on my plate, and truthfully I dream that I could suck on my own, not only that but suck on these Futanaria babes. I guess you could say that you are bi-curious as well as me. I talked to one of my gay friends, and he thinks that I'm Bi curious to Bi sexual.

But seeing other mens cocks isn't really a big turn on for me. But I don't mind seeing other gay men kiss and hug. That's as far as I go... So far, and I'm only 23 years old. Still young and fresh, but not virgin.

 

[hardhat69]

pics or it didnt happen.

Haha, well as I said, I'm not overly long. I'm pretty darn average, but I'm pretty up there in thickness, it's actually closer to 6" at the base in girth, I know that's in the upper percentile, but I'm not the girthiest. I know there are guys that are "beer can" thick up to 8". I'm about 3 fingers wide, but to be fair, my fingers are pretty thin, not sausage fingers or anything.

I actually wish I weren't so thick, as I'm attracted to petite women. But I can't help but be turned on by it, and am really wanting to explore being with a guy that is around my size.

 

[hardhat69]

Ooo then you'll love Tranny's like I do. For some reason I set pussy aside and put dick and boobs on my plate, and truthfully I dream that I could suck on my own, not only that but suck on these Futanaria babes. I guess you could say that you are bi-curious as well as me. I talked to one of my gay friends, and he thinks that I'm Bi curious to Bi sexual.

But seeing other mens cocks isn't really a big turn on for me. But I don't mind seeing other gay men kiss and hug. That's as far as I go... So far, and I'm only 23 years old. Still young and fresh, but not virgin.

Yeah, I've considered the tranny or ladyboy thought. But "she'd" have to be hung and really feminine, I know that's weird.

 

[hardhat69]

It doesn't have to be an either/or one or the other thing.

If you like both, then you like both. Sex with another man doesn't have to be dark or 'just sex for sex's sake.' It can be loving and romantic too. Men have feelings too, right? Why wouldn't you be able to not be 'romantic' with another man?

What is there to be confused over? You see a hot hard dick and it makes you horny. Just as I assume it does when you see a healthy pair of tits on a girl. Maybe you like guys a bit more than girls, (or vice-versa) It's all good.

It's not that, it's hard to explain. I'm sure sex would be great and romantic, but I can't picture me in some kind of long term relationship/marriage kinda thing. I want a wife and kids.

But I know absolutely you can fall in love with a guy, I fell for an online friend once, and we kinda "fooled around" in chat form, but he "wasn't gay" which makes it even more confusing yeah. But I don't count that as falling in love with a person face to face. Not that it wasn't important, but yeah.

Ok, so ... confused as the title said.

 

[rareboy]

Yes. you're a narcissist.

Yes, you are curious.

Yes, you may be bi-sexual.

But the way you write, it sounds like the only love affair you're interested in is with your own penis at the moment.

So. What are you planning to do about your confusion?

 

[Flexuality]

Well, you're probably not gay, since you've always been attracted to girls. But there's nothing wrong with developing wider interests, both sexually and in terms of affection, like you did with the guy on line. You're young, so don't get hung up on labels and pigeon-hole yourself. You probably have the capacity to enjoy both genders. Start testing it out (with someone other than yourself). You may find that you enjoy men and women in similar ways, or you may find you just like guys to worship your cock. It doesn't matter, we all like different people for different reasons, and tastes evolve.

 

[mbamike]

You are young and single. Why not experiment with both guys and girls? You'll figure things out once you have some first hand knowledge. ENJOY!

 

[clicker]

Well, you're probably not gay, since you've always been attracted to girls. But there's nothing wrong with developing wider interests, both sexually and in terms of affection, like you did with the guy on line. You're young, so don't get hung up on labels and pigeon-hole yourself. You probably have the capacity to enjoy both genders. Start testing it out (with someone other than yourself). You may find that you enjoy men and women in similar ways, or you may find you just like guys to worship your cock. It doesn't matter, we all like different people for different reasons, and tastes evolve.

OMG I love your screen name: FLEXUALITY!!! Why didn't I think of that??!

 

[Flexuality]

Thanks, Clicker. Flexuality is also the name of my blog about a range of bisexual types, from a psychiatrist's perspective.

 

[AsianDream]

Thanks, Clicker. Flexuality is also the name of my blog about a range of bisexual types, from a psychiatrist's perspective.

I guessed you might be the same Flexuality

I've got some confusion on my own sexuality at the moment - I found your Blog very interesting www.flexualityx.blogspot.com/

 

[hardhat69]

Awesome screenname, Flexuality.

Anyway, I know it may have come across that way, but I'm not as self-absorbed as it may appear. I'm just trying to illustrate how confused I feel at the moment.

 

[Flexuality]

Thanks, Hardhat, and I don't think you're self-absorbed.

Asiandream, thanks for checking my blog. The link you listed is just to the adult content spinoff. I hope you also had a look at the PG-rated version, which has more information.