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confused about this guy's sexuality...

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You could always start a conversation with either of them. Hi how's it goin?... and go from there. Then when you're getting to know more about each other, you can ask if he has a girlfriend or boyfriend.
 
There is this guy in my local gym and he is VERY muscular, probably in his early or mid-twenties. I'm only eighteen. He's there everytime I walk through the door. Frequently, I catch him looking at me, but he gives off this totally straight guy persona.
Is it possible he's gay? I mean.. how can you tell?

There's also this guy who's my distant friend. He's very athletic, and really outgoing. But I get this gay vibe from him quite often. I sometimes catch him singing "girly, hiphop songs" (I don't mean to be stereotypical. =S) He has MANY friends. There doesn't seem to be much going on with him an girls.. I can't even think of his last girlfriend. He's more of their friend than sexual towards them. =/ He also acts sort of funny and flamboyant.

All in all.. I'm just so FRUSTRATED. :mad: I mean... how can you tell?! It's such a challenge!
yes it is possible.
you can tell by touching his cock. If he is hard , go for it. ;)
 
Hahaha Telstra's post made me laugh but yeah have a conversation with both of them and see how it goes I'm betting gym guy is bi/curious and other guy is one of them straight boy teases
 
There's one simple way to find out whether a person is gay or straight: Ask them.
 
Ahhh! That's so scary. Why is it so hard for me to ask?

Eventually, it just comes up in conversation- especially, if you start talking about dating or relationships.

At some point, someone will stop saying "the person that I'm dating" or "they slept over last night" and will instead, "My boyfriend/girlfriend" or "He/she is coming over and we're going out". A big hint- straight people don't hesitate when using gender pronouns but closeted gay people will often use gender neutral terms like "person", "they", "someone"...

But it's not offensive to just say, "Do you have a girlfriend or boyfriend?". People aren't offended by the question or implication these days.
 
Or you can sit in the corner making furtive observations, and waiting for other people to come over and ask you to have sex with them.

I can guarantee that the former will result in a lot more sex, though.

Lex
 
Just walk over and start sucking his cock and see what happens - just kidding. Start a conversation with him at some time and see what happens. I think that asking him if he has a girlfriend while you two are showering together may not be the most opportune time, but start with - how ya doin'?
 
I have to agree with the advice - get into conversation with these guys, how else can you get to know them or for them to get to know you for that matter!
 
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